He says I ask too many questions?

[Anonymous]

So I started talking to this guy and I've only gotten to know him for like 5 days. I'm getting really bad vibes from this dude even though he's a little bit misguided and lost. He puts on this tough guy facade but underneath it all, he's really nice sometimes. I just want him to be nice ALL the time... Today I was asking questions any normal person would want to ask their potential love interest. Why do you like this/that? and he sighs and goes, "I hate questions. Sometimes you make me ball my hands up into fists because questions just make me so angry."

and he showed some controlling tendencies when he was judging girls for wearing leggings and fitted shirts and when i said I wear those things, he was like "but you're not a slut."

He said he wants to punch everyone in the face and he's really an angry person.

What do you guys think I should do? These are bad signs on the fifth day...

[SillyQuirks_]

Run sweetheart. He might have a really great personality that has peeked your interest outside of what you just described. I feel like this is going to turn into a "fix up" relationship. One of those relationships where you see a guy with plenty of visible red flags but also see potential and want to try it out. God for bid it turns into a relationship you feel stuck in, you did say he seemed controlling, yet don't want to be in.
I don't think this is a healthy relationship for you...
Based on how you described it, I see red flags... Abusive? Perhaps not intentionally but he has acknowledged his anger with things you say -- like what the heck? You seem like a very sweet girl and I am sure you can stand your own ground but honestly you deserve a man that will court you and have a personality compatible to you.

Just an opinion.

[Asker]

Preach. Thank you.

[SillyQuirks_]

You are welcome :)

[MaskedSanity]

Very bad signs.

Don't EVER date a man with the notion that he may change in the future. That's ridiculous and you'll only set yourself up not only for disappointment, but in this case - some serious abuse.

I'd run for the hills, if I were you. Big red flags.

[d0llieee]

try to get to know him a little bit better maybe ask him why he hates questions , why he so angry. i wouldn't really know what to do either but just try and ease the questions in the conversation. and if he's still like that you dont like him just stop fooling w. him

[MaskedSanity]

"ask him why he hates questions"

LOL

[d0llieee]

yeah , i mean. its gotta be a reason why he wants to bald up his fist and punch some when you ask questions i mean it never gets that serious unless you're hiding something

[Endeavor]

Do you ask too many questions? If you're interviewing him as a potential love interest, he has a point. Space it out a bit. You don't have to know everything about him in five days.
His line reminded me of George after he went to the Rageaholics Anonymous meeting. haha
I have no problem with him calling those girls out either.
And does he get into fights often? There's a big difference between an outwardly violent person and someone that simply 'wants' to put his fists into the face of annoying people around him.

[AJElectric]

Wow sounds like he's a ball of fun that i could do without.

[alliknowisthatidont]

He needs to see a therapist. Sounds like he has a lot of issues he needs sorting out. If you really like him then date him but beware that you will need to put in a lot of work into a relationship with someone who appears to be unstable. And if he never opens up the relationship is doomed. You should ask him if he'd consider talking to someone. He does not have to change overnight. Does he realize he had problems or thinks the world does?

[rocelot]

Stop trying to break down his walls. He put them up for a reason. Honestly if you care for him let him open up to you. Easy? Quick? Fuck no. But than again love never is... Also fuck love. He's lonely and isn't angry around you, your winning this battle already.

[dartmaul15]

Hm... i'd watch yourself if i were you. It does sound like he's manipulative, tbh. It seems like he's (unintentionally) baiting you into pittying him...

[BelleGirl21]

Follow your instincts. Becoming angry at little things or nothing is very telling. You don't want a relationship with someone like that.

[vet31bSoldier]

wow... he sounds like a winner... and of course, you want to change him.

Good luck, lemme know how it works out for ya in the end...

#rihanna

[yaddayaddayadda02]

IF you are getting bad vibes after 5 days, that's all you need to know. Run, Forrest!

[Xeraph]

Seriously? Potential love interest in a soziopath? I'd keep my distance of I where you...

[springocelot]

Seems like an authoritarian type of guy. I'd trust your instincts and stay away from him.

[Anonymous]

At that 1st red flag, i would've been at the nearest exit. Angry, manipulative people are not worth your time.

[Anonymous]

Run away, fast. He sounds like he has some serious issues/anger management problems. You need to peace out and not get involved with him any further.

[jmmmfi]

The words bad idea come to mind