My boyfriend is really touchy, especially in front of his friends?

[Anonymous]

Whenever me and my boyfriend go out he's really touchy, but mainly when we're around his friends. He always tries to squeeze or place his hand right on my butt. Eveyte he touches me it's in the waist. He keeps trying to snuggle me close. Or place his hand super high on my thigh. I asked him about it and he says he just wants to show people how great my body is. I love him, but I'm shyer so all this PDA makes me uncomfortable. Guys are you also really touchy I front of your guy friend?

[shanny12]

He is definitely doing it to show ownership. Maybe he saw one of his friends looking at you and thinks one may like you. It may be some insecurities on his part if he is especially touching in front of them. Recently saw I guy I use to see he had his new gf with him. Needless to say he was extra affectionate and touchy with her in my presence. He is not an affectionate type of guy. He was definitely trying to make me jealous. Its ok to show affection, but when you know someone is being extra, its a reason for it.

[Asker]

My boyfriend is affectionate, but in from of his friends it's crazier. He told me that one of his friends said I was cute once

[shanny12]

See that's why he is doing it, he is letting that friend know that you are his girl. Definitely showing ownership.

[Crossroads-USMC]

I personally, hate PDAs. Its inappropriate in public, and disrespectful to you. There does seem to be Homosexual thread there as a possibility. Especially if he does it in front of one particular friend more than others. You shouldn't be treated that way, especially after talking to him about it. Keep your eyes open, you're worth more, and hopefully you'll come across a guy who will realize it.

[Asker]

I don't think he's gay, maybe just possessive

[slackercruster]

Goddamn YES.

He is no queer! Great you have a guy that loves you so much!

Touching my gal gives am hard-on and makes my pants wet. It is also a display of my love for her and hopefully titillates her as well. Give your guy some affection back... it will blow his socks off!

[parkway]

The reason he is touching you is for ownership and he cares little about you if the only time he touches you is around his friends. He could be gay and having to prove somehting.

[Asker]

He touches me when were alone, but it's especially prevelant when were with his friends.