What am I supposed to think when a guy im friends with is scratching his balls in front of me?

[Anonymous]

i secretly have a crush on him too and he seems to care about me here and there gives small talk and stuff but he was scratching his balls repeatedly the other day in front of me?
i dont care about a man has gotta do what he has to do, but also isn't it disrespectful like he doesn't care about what i think so he's gonna act like unimpressive around me?

[Sinister]

That's why I shave my balls. The hair traps heat, moisture which create s smell that not to pleasurable especially when a girls about to give blowjob. Wearing boxers or whatever else only keeps the package in an uncomfortable postion, hence why guys gotta adjust and scratch. But that's the con of going au natural and not keeping the hair to a minimum level. Washing, shaving and keep the hair to a minimum level eliminates all that. I know this from my own personal experience. Plus my friend Jennifer can attest to me not scratching my balls in public, it's not a good look. Do I find it rude and disrespectful yeah maybe on a date because you're supposed to be at your best. I think it's choice and if the girl really doesn't like I would think that she would speak up and let the dude now. If he feels otherwise then why stick around. That's just me and itch-free since 2003.

[Asker]

haha im proud of your itch free status! but yea i think im friendzoned =[

[Sinister]

@Asker - Thanks, I think it's time to asses the level & quality of guys you would like to go out with, you and the guy you are eyeing should talk firmly about what each other is looking for. Plus you cannot be friendzoned with a guy to whom you are not friends with. I don't date my homegirls or female friends its a golden rule. Plus I make my intentions known so that way there's no guess work or thinking about what each other wants.

[Jonny_]

Meh a lot of guys are just like that... most of them are just idiots.

[Asker]

lol one time i did adjust my bra subconsciously so i guess i shouldn't care...

[Jonny_]

I'm sure that was for a reason though, guys adjust themselves for the sake of... it's not like underwear or even commando is uncomfortable, they just can't help touching themselves.

[Asker]

but do u think im friendzoned if he's doing that... how can i get him to like me?

[Jonny_]

Meh it wouldn't hinge on that, some guys do it in front of anyone... doesn't mean they like or dislike a person.

[Anonymous]

All men scratch their balls in public. That is why their fingers always smell like vinegar and goat cheese unless they aren't nasty. I'm dead serious right now.

So it isn't you, it is because he has no self control and obviously HAS to scratch his balls.

[Mgoods]

Omfg! Ahahaha!

[Asker]

ewwwwwwwww goat cheese wtf

[Opinion Owner]

You know that smell! XD Ugh, my cousin was touching my face and a whiff came right by. I was like EEWWWWW! I was done.

[Asker]

i used to like goat cheese on my salads now im never eating it ever again. Thanks a lot.

[Opinion Owner]

@Asker Omg, I'm sorry! Well, cheese is supposed to stink... I think that's the only point I have, if it helps! D:

[SolitaireBond]

How absolutely totally disgusting... Just imagine (I don't know about you, I'd rather not) what he could go on to do next!

[Asker]

pick his nose!!! ewww

[Asker]

fart! :O

[SolitaireBond]

Lol... And you are nearly as disgusting as that guy!! :)

[MaskedSanity]

Scratch your twat in front of him in the same casual manner and see what happens.

[kain7th]

Pretty sure that would have the opposite effect lol

[Asker]

lol thats so embarrassing hahahaha

[MaskedSanity]

@kain7th

You haven't seen a woman scratch her twat before, have you?

[kain7th]

I guess not, then again, not really something I look for.

[Blueeyes81]

Some guys don't even know they are doing it. I had a friend who constantly does this, 5 or 6 times during a 10 minute conversation. Even after people started calling him out for doing it, he'd do it again a few minutes later. It didn't mater who it was, boss, hot girl, guy. He always scratched or adjusted himself without thinking about it.

[Asker]

interesting... thank u

[Shpongolia]

Try not to think much of it. Sometimes the discomfort down there can be so strong that we forget that a girl who we want to impress is looking and notices.

[kain7th]

I personally would never do that and think its disgusting BUT it could just mean he's very comfortable being around you.

[JustinCaseUDontKnow]

Yes lot men do that but they need to beware of their behavior
i know i came from family where no one felt any shame in scratching
their genitals in front of one another now not talking about in public
but when we were all home together this did happen and when a
female scratches her genitals in front of me it bothers me in certain matters
not to mean sound blunt but i get turned on sometimes i know it sounds crazy

[Asker]

my reaction was that he doesn't see me as a girl so he doesn't care to impress me and be on his best behavior ya know?

[JustinCaseUDontKnow]

Oh i see

[Roycaryn]

Readjusting "down there" is a rather urgent affair. If he was doing it repeatedly however, I'm surprised he wouldn't have least excused himself to go to the restroom or whatever.

[Anonymous]

He is so comfortable with you that scratching that itch was okay. Just as you said you don't care and he knows it. He did what he had to for his comfort.

[Asker]

i guess im just wondering if were just friends or if he will ever like me as more... if a guy scratches his balls in front of a girl doesn't it mean he doesn't care to impress her, like im just friendzoned?

[Opinion Owner]

Pretty much.

[Asker]

great =[

[Opinion Owner]

Do not feel sad! This is easily turned around by acting as though his comfort level is attractive and thus making it into an initiation instead of a death sentence to your proverbial relationship.

[Anonymous]

Guys does that - often. You shouldn't really think anything of it.

[Tokana]

Did he stick his hands in there or on the outside?

[Asker]

outside

[Tokana]

das it mane.

[Asker]

what?

[Tokana]

www.quickmeme.com/.../...37432fbe1e00710042758.jpg

das it mane

[Asker]

drug addict?

[Tokana]

lol... das it mane just means thats it man.

[Asker]

thats it man he stuck his hands on the outside?

[Tokana]

das it mane is an expression that just means 'ok' in an uber slang manner.