What's wrong with kicking a man in the nuts after he slaps my ass?

[Anonymous]

So I've seen many guys saying is totally fine to hit a woman back.
she slaps a guy and then he slams her to the floor and break her bones.
According to men slap on the face and breaking someone bones is totally equal.

So why the hell men get so angry and want to hit me after I kicked them if THEY are the ones who started harassing me?

[Anonymous]

You are afraid of slapping a guy's face because you're afraid he'll behave violently. So your plan is to kick him in the nuts (wrongly assuming that will incapacitate him, while violent yourself) and instead get him enraged and give him a very good reason to behave violently to you? Smart girl.

Hitting a guy in the nuts has a chance to ruin his ability to have kids, it hurts incredibly, and since it's such a delicate area, there is a very real chance of causing potentially life-threatening internal bleeding. Slapping an ass causes embarrassment. Get a sense of proportion, dear. Do you think such an extreme response from you wouldn't encourage him to beat you into the pavement? Or, if he's the controlled type, have you arrested for assault and take you to court for additional civil suits?

And where are you putting words in guys' mouths that getting slapped across the face means he gets to break her bones? I haven't seen or heard that. Maybe you are unfairly representing someone's position and acting out like a spoiled child?

As for getting slapped on the ass--simply scolding the guy and telling him to fuck off almost always does the trick.

Bottom line: don't behave violently toward someone, they won't behave violently toward you. Keep your hands to yourself like a big girl.

[reptocarl]

The rule has pretty much always been keep your hands to yourself. Just because you're a woman doesn't give you carte Blanche to use physical violence. It doesn't matter how big the argument you're having. For me if you hit, slap, kick me in anger when I didn't touch you then you're no longer a lady and are saying you can take it like a man

[Asker]

But you slapped my ass first

[reptocarl]

Then I deserve to get punished. If it was a playful slap on the ass then a kick in balls is overkill

[dartmaul15]

so what?
He slapped you and you physically assaulted him! It's not acceptable for men to do it, nor for women.
remember, for a conflict to escalate it takes TWO persons. I don't care who started it, you're equally responsible for it escalating into a physical fight. And the fact you kicked him in the nuts, that's not a justified action when he slaps your ass.

[Anonymous]

NOTHING ! show him what it feels like when someone touches you without your consent

and yea i agree with what you said (about hitting women back) ... a lot of men are becoming faggots these days... disgusting
and its a stupid logic really... thats like saying my puppy bit me and it broke the skin, i should cut him/her too ! if they can cut my skin then they can also take a cutting

most men have this sense of entitlement and victim mentality at the same time...

im honestly glad that they are not majority these days and most men are actual men <3 chivalrous and act gentleman like ^_^
, the fags are just the little spoiled boys lol

[Gagaqueen]

Are you demented?

[Opinion Owner]

no, are you?

@Gagaqueen

[Gagaqueen]

Well, according to what you said, the only person who is demented here is you honey since you are damn sexist and i guess a lot more as well.

I doubt you have the courage to say this to someone's face directly or you would get grounded like the little sexist man hater you are.

[Opinion Owner]

sexist? lol ok

lovely how you're afraid to speak your opinion because the kinda guys you're surrounded with seem to be woman beaters

and yes i have said this to people before

[Vesuvius87]

Who are you hanging around with and what's wrong with this generation?
It's never ok for anyone (man or woman) to use excessive force just because they felt irritated and embarrassed or got their ego bruised.

Both the man (punching and breaking bones after a slap in the face) and woman (kicking the guy in balls after he was a jerk) in your examples are wrong in their reply. Both of them are people I would seriously want to get away from. It tells me they both need to take anger management classes.

The guy doing the slap in the ass needs to get charged with an assault charge... same as the girl slapping in the face.

[Vesuvius87]

If I truly felt my life was endangered and the guy wasn't just a jerk but he really was trying to hurt me or hurt a family member and I had no way out then yes, that's when a kick in the balls is needed... as last resort.

[Anonymous]

I'm not a fan of violence in general. I really don't think it's okay for anyone to hit anyone. But yes, the boys in the example you gave are hypocritical.

And to the people who think that a slap on the ass is nothing: actually its sexual harassment. If some guy slapped my ass at school I wouldn't hit him back, but I would go report him. But if a stranger on the street slapped my ass, then yeah I would totally fight him back. I need to protect myself, he could be trying to rape me.

[Anonymous]

You only kick a guy in the balls if it's purely self defense in a serious attack not if you guys are playing around and he slaps your butt and you strike back with a kick in the nuts, that's not a joke.

[Asker]

I'm talking about strangers who slaps my ass

[Opinion Owner]

Ohhh... Hmmm I don't know
Randomly comes up to you and slaps your ass? That's just wrong so maybe.

[Shyguy_1988]

I never think a man should hit a girl, they are smaller and more delicate, what kind of guys are you hanging around that don't respect girls? More power to you, if a guy slaps your ass, you have the right to kick him in the nuts, he just sexually harassed you and needs to accept the consequences.

[Red7336]

this d00000000000000000000000000000d (y)

[happyp]

Anyone has that attempts to cause physical harm to another person is subjected to retaliation. Slapping someone on the booty is not meant to cause physical harm. Kicking a guy in his balls is meant to cause physical harm and the guy has the right to retaliate with physical force. If a female uses a slap on her booty as an excuse for causing physical harm to a guy she should expect retaliation and the guy has the right to bash her dead in the face and he should! If I playfully slapped a girl on her booty and she kicked me in my balls, I would beat the shit out of her and tell the authorities why I did it Any asshole who thinks that it's acceptable is a stupid fucking idiot! Men slap each other on the ass all the time after games and elsewhere. Would it be ok for a guy to kick the coach in his balls because he slapped his booty? I think not

[NateInAk]

Guys have to respond intelligently. I get slapped, I'm willing to slap back, not lay her out with a full punch, whereas if she's trying to kick me in the groin all bets are off.
Let's just not touch each other till we get to know each other shall we?

[Theguyoverthere]

I am guessing they don't feel that slapping an ass is meant to "hurt" you so they feel that deliberately harming their nuts is out of line even though they're disrespecting the girl. Guys who slap random girls butts are immature and annoying to hangout with but I don't feel that going that extreme I'd going to help the case any. To get to a point where you are kicking a guy in the nuts would mean you were pushed to a very extreme point.

[evenlift]

There's nothing wrong with it.

If any specific man tells you that it would be OK for him to hit back a woman who slaps him, but he then gets angry when he gets hit back by a woman he slaps, then he is a hypocrite. But, if one man says something and then another man says something different, that's not hypocrisy. They are not the same person!

[heavensgift2girls]

I don't know any guy that thinks slamming a woman to the floor and breaking her bones is a reasonable response to a slap. That would be overkill. Kicking a guy in the nuts is also overkill for slapping an ass.

[Jbunch]

Over generalizations and exaggerations to prove your point won't work here!

What kind of man slams a woman to the ground after she slaps him? Because I have not heard of a normal, sane man doing this.

[BlendedAmorosity]

Kicking him in his nuts is very over rated. You may cancel his ability to have children for the rest of his life. Hit him back.. backhand him.. whatever, just not where the magic happens.

[Katy16]

Because those guys are stupid. If a guy does that there is nothing wrong with kicking him, he deserves it.

[dartmaul15]

does that mean i can kick girls for getting touchy too?

[Katy16]

I suppose if you wanted to, although I also don't believe in hitting girls. (I really don't care if you agree with me on that)

[Gagaqueen]

@Katy15 you are a hypocrite and a total idiot too. You can't hit a guy in the balls because he slapped your ass, that's way too serious and a massive overreaction in my opinion.

[Katy16]

You can have your opinion and I can have mine, I find a guy doing that extremely disrespectful and wouldn't hesitate to kick him if I didn't know him.

[AaBbCcDdEeFfGgHhMICE]

@Katy16
Yes. My niece is 9 and nephew is 7 and I congratulate her for kicking him. Girls did the same to me when I was younger and I learned quickly what not to do or say to girls. He knows he can't hit her no matter what also.

[GuntherLeCroix]

Nothing wrong with it... go for it.

It's highly unlikely that you will do any serious damage to him.

I'll let you in on a secret... most men are giant p*ssies when it comes to their junk. Hence most of the replies here. It hurts and it humiliating... but we get over it... and maybe we even learn to keep ours hands to ourselves.

[maroonbro]

He hit you, you hit him back, he hits you again, you hit him back again, don't try the I'm physically weak cause I'm a woman stuff, there are countless ways to beat a guy up and break his bone

[BertMacklinFBI]

because he slapped your ass. im betting it was sexual, not violent assault.

[HaventMetYouYet]

Just because the dude was trying to be sexual, doesn't make it okay. If it's non-consensual, then it is sexual assault.

[BertMacklinFBI]

@HaventMetYouYet I never said it was okay though did I? :D im saying there's no comparison for smacking a girl's ass to her kicking his nuts lol

[HaventMetYouYet]

You said that "it was sexual, not violent assault," which seems to imply that you think sexual things can't be assault. Forgive me for making that assumption. I just wanted to make sure you understood that hitting a person' ass IS assault.

[BertMacklinFBI]

@HaventMetYouYet where I come from, a cop would tell the girl to chill the fuck out if she even tried calling that sexual assault. im not saying its right to go smacking girl's asses any time a guy pleases but my answer was veering towards more realistic. yeah in the books it is considered sexual assault, but it hardly ever goes down that way. ever. and a smack to the ass does not warrant a kick in the balls, that's just my opinion, that's how I reproduce sperm so its more delicate than the ass.

oh yeah and I said it was sexual because an ass smack is most likely always a sexual gesture, not being used as a gesture for violent assault. if it were violent assault, im sure they wouldn't even consider slapping a girl in the ass, they might just punch her in the face instead.

[Darkkniight]

Well if he slaps your ass he's hardly giving you serious damage I would personally slap him across the face!

[LauraMarx]

they are brutally violent misogynists, I think is the thing

[madhatters4]

when a child hits a kid because he says he took his toy do we say it's ok you hit them?

[yaddayaddayadda02]

I don't know., How about we both keep our hands to ourselves unless I take you out to dinner first.

[Seppelson]

It's like shooting someone with a gun when he said asshole to you I guess.

[Anonymous]

i agree if he harass u physically then you must beat the living lights out of him..

[kittykatg]

Why stoop to their level?

[Gagaqueen]

You have to find a different spot.

[AaBbCcDdEeFfGgHhMICE]

Nothing wrong with it.