Guys: if your date get herself very drunk on your first date, and vomit over you, would you still go for another date with her?

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I got this idea from a video I had watched and like to know how you would feel.

Take for example the first date both of you decide to go for a drink... and then she vomit over you. Would you have poor impression of her and not date her again even if both of you can click?

Pedantic · Accepted Answer

Hypothetically speaking ofc if single, it would depend how far along we are in our dating relationship. I don't want to end up with an alcoholic or someone who lacks self control. The vomit over me is just temporary, it means nothing to me. It would be a mark against her character in the final analysis, so it could contribute to ending things.

I don't think the event by itself would decide things. It could just be an isolated incident. I would have to wait and see.

SurströmmingLover · Accepted Answer

It isn't the vomit which would make me not date her, but I can't stand someone drinking for getting drunk.

findingdreamland · Accepted Answer

I would help him, to clean himself and get himself together. And I would wonder it happened because of the drink or is he sick? If it's the first situation, no I would not date him again.
Second case though, it is medical condition, I would date him.

LittleSally · Accepted Answer

First date - if he doesn't know you well enough he might take this as a sign you may like drinking a little too much so he may not want to.
If he knows you well from before and if it happened on accident - then I doubt he'd hold it against you.

zombiebabe · Accepted Answer

lol very funny!!! if i ever got into such a situation (which is not likely to occur) i don't think i'll see tht guy again... wbu babe?

Mesonfielde · Answer

I am not that interested in heavy drinkers, so there is a chance I wouldn't.

DiraNico · Answer

Damn, it just happened to me two days ago. I didn't know my limit. But I fainted for some hours. Feels like my soul stuck on my body. When I opened my eyes, he's still there with pale face. Holding my hands and call me "hi sexy lady." In fact, nurse put plastic aroundy neck (cause I was vomit), my hair so messy, my dress smell yucky. We back to the hotel together. "I'm so sad cause I didn't stop you. But it's great you still alive. I'll think twice to bring you to the club again. Better we eat outside."

We date two months and living in different city 5hrs away. I used to love food. But since two weeks ago, I ate less cause started work out. I never go to club with guy and never drink that much. My bestie who go with use told me that he was mad when some people think I used drugs. And many things happen but he's on my back.

We still chat, he saw me on my pretty face, sexy, snore, fart (accidentally), barf, fainted. I think I started more than like him.

Dєѕιвσу · Answer

Yeah i will. Well she is drunk and it is understood that it may happen.
In fact i will help her out there and make her comfortable.
Also.. vomiting happens only when person has consumed more than his capacity. It is highly unlikely that i will encourage her to drink more.

Hans222 · Answer

If I would have the feeling that the drinking behaviour told something about her, no.
If I knew she had been influenced by others and by the atmosphere to drink whereas she normally wouldn't probably yes.
That is, assuming I liked the girl apart from her drinking on that occasion.
Moreover, I would probably at least give her a second chance. If she screwed up again than... sorry M'aaam!

DodgersGM · Answer

If I like the girl enough already and this isn't some symptom of a major drinking problem or something, then I would date with her again.  It would make for one hell of a story!!!

JJ969 · Answer

I would if I liked her. Eg if Scarlett Johanssen hurled on me I would definitely still date her.

Provided she just got a bit carried away it would be ok with me. If I thought she was a raging alcoholic then maybe not...

zinithin · Answer

I try not to judge people solely on one date. But her puking on me doesn't help, depending how the rest of the date went I'd give her another chance. Like the rest of the date would have had to have been perfect.

thewanderingme · Answer

I've dated a couple guys who drank excessively. never again. anything more than a few drinks a week, I'm not interested.

GreenTiger · Answer

I'd probably leave her to her home... and leave fast. If she texts to apologize and expresses interest to "redeem" herself, then yeah, I'd give her the chance. Otherwise, it's time to move on to better things.

JackKerouac77 · Answer

It would be half funny/sad. I would feel obligated to help her feel better, then ponder how this all fits into my weird life.

adamski24 · Answer

I would take her back home or to mine and take care of her.

genericname85 · Answer

Debends on the situation. If she tried to out drink me or isn't used to alcohol, it wouldn't be too bad for me. I'd date her again.

Dark_Scorpio · Answer

Nope. Honestly just drinking to the point of intoxication is enough to make me not want to date you.

Error_204 · Answer

I've had this situation happen to me. No.

Ihav2fart · Answer

If she was attractive enough I probably would.

bubble_tea · Answer

my sassy girl?

TheWiseOwl · Answer

No I wouldn't.

Duke2014 · Answer

Probably not

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