Was wondering - do guys find it awkward wearing them in front of girls?
Am I the only girl to notice?
It can be. We'd like to be able to wear them without getting any stares or laughs but 99.9% of the time we hear comments like ewww or it's nasty or it's gay or something. So it's always in the back of our mind what girls will think. Saying a guy is gay for wearing them is one of the biggest stereotype attitudes out there today. I'm definitely not gay and I loveeee girls. I like to wear them to get a good tan and they're so much easier to swim in and more comfortable. But I don't go parading down the beach in them and I'll put my shorts back on when I'm leaving. It's always in my mind that I should be careful where I choose to sit on the beach and I must be careful not to offend anyone.
Basically what I would like to see is a little more social acceptance of speedos. I think guys would be more confident wearing them too if this was the case. Girls don't have to think they're fantastic or anything. But it would be great if most girls could be carefree when they see them and just not think anything about it. Not stare or think ewww but just be like "eh whatever" That's what I'd like to see
Get what I mean?
Speedos are very comfortable to wear, but sometimes you can be uncomfortable/insecure in front of girls when wearing them.
When the air temperature is low (60 degrees/15 Celcius) your penis will shrink by about 50 percent in length and 20 to 30 percent in girth. So you are afraid of looking small, and speedos are revealing - so girls will notice your package size and maybe gossip about it.
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If wearing bikini or one piece swimsuit can completely be acceptable in the case of the girls while in a beach or in a swimming pool, then where lies the problem in wearing speedos by the guys? Specially when the speedos or the swim briefs are designed particularly for the males. I personally feel much comfort in speedos while in a pool. And guys should feel proud to display their slender and toned physique (if they have or even if they don't) while wearing a speedo.
I am comfortable wearing them, In fact, Mine are smaller, as in less coverage.
My theory is "just do it", don't worry about what others think. and have confidence in yourself.
the problem most guys have is that they are insecure in their masculinity, and that is why most boys think they are gay.
what makes it gay, is the fact that you are wondering what other guys are thinking while you are wearing it.
Meh, not really. I don't linger around the outside of the pool, so it's not like I'm out playing pelvic conductor around the pool. I also don't go to the pool and socialize with people, so it's not as if I'm there showing a girl my approval ratings of her. I just go in the pool, swim, and leave, and nobody really cares about my dick.
Speedo's... Me and my buddies used to call them, "Banana Hammocks"
Good way to dangle the worm if your fishing...
I prefer trunks or cut-offs though
Too funny!!
the guys wearing them dont care, thats why they're wearing it. i personally wouldn't, there's kids at the pool too, that would be weird as shit.
No the guys that wear them such as myself, have grown up. and have matured. Kids aren't paying you any attention, they are too busy playing.
The only reason kids would pay attention, is because they are uncultured.
@Stallion76 makes sense
I always promised myself that, when I hit 300lbs, I would wear nothing but speedos at the beach. So consider yourself lucky you get to see young men before they are old men! lol
i do this in summer basically after returning from the pool.
too bored to change, so...
i sure do. it feels a bit like you would run around with a forced cameltoe for a girl xD so it´s physically and socially awkward.
First of all I find them very uncomfortable. Secondly I know that If I'll have a boner it will come out and I don't want that.
learn self Control.
Yeah like physically uncomfortable - that shit rides up in seconds!
It's no different that a female's "information" being on show in a bikini top or cheeky bottom.
I would not feel comfortable wearing them in public.
I don't like wearing them since i get erections very frequently
So i prefer normal trunks
learn Self control
Yes that's why I only swim nude/naked even in public.
l dont even care
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