Yes and no,
I’m comfortable wearing swim Trunks around Females.
But if there’s a dude around I start getting uncomfortable.
Like when I go swimming I always end up getting hard as a rock because there’s females around.
But if there’s a dude around I Fear dudes seeing me hard as a rock.
But I’m good with females seeing me hard as a rock and Am not gonna try to hide it.
But if there is kids around I get uncomfortable and try to hide it.
I don't know there’s something about females that I can’t be around them without getting hard as a Rock.
I haven’t went swimming in a Long time because the Fact that getting hard as a rock is already a big of a nuisance as it is. And once I’m hard in the pool with females it’s Impossible to become Unhard and I don’t wanna Bump a female with my erection, so I End up Having to go to the mens room and camp out in the closed stall until my Hard on becomes Unhard.
Getting a erection in the Pool and having to walk around with a Erection is the whole reason I end up Not staying long.
Definitely don’t wanna be Jailed for bumping a Girl with my shlong.
LOL I've seen guys with your problem. I always find it funny and a bit flattering. But definitely a good idea to leave and not get jailed up
Yep 👍
Disgusting pervert
That's why you don't mind pedophile women exploiting young boys who can't think rationally yet you go after the men.
Quit stalking my Profile
People deserve to know you are a creep
I’m not the creep here your always Sending me private messages about rape because you want to talk about rape with me because it’s a Total turn on for you.
It’s pretty concerning You have an obsession with Talking about rape that ain’t normal
And you support and defend pedophiles women molesting 14 year olds.
Look at yourself
Your the one that Has always supported rape
Get some help or something
I’m done talking to you you make me uncomfortable
You openly don't mind female pedophiles molesting kids but you think I defend rape?
Get help
@JessieBellll Omg did you know he was molested as a child by his adult girlfriend?
It makes sense why he is supporting and defending pedophiles.
He is mentally disturbed. Horrible.
I wasn’t Molested
I fucked her I hit puberty when I was 9 years old and I ended up fucking a Lot of Girls I Met the 17 year old girl at a Pool party That my Uncle Invited a bunch of people too
I didn’t Drink she didn’t drink I was Aware of what I wanted and so I fucked her because that’s what I wanted to do
You are very disturbed.
Seek help
From time to time in my past I was uncomfortable taking off my shirt when swimming. I was never overweight, but I’ve always had the fit version of the dad bod. Sometimes that little bit of extra fat would get to me and I’d insecurely keep my abs flexed in order to look a little thinner. Later on I realized that it was nothing to worry about and nobody really cares how you look when they know how you are in every other way. So whether it be friends, family, or a significant other, I no longer care what people might think because I know that if those people really care about me, they’ll let me know when I need to lose some weight 😂
100% no. The last time I wore a swimsuit period, I was 12. My mother's judgement of me really damaged my self-esteem. She was and still is super critical of every inch of body fat that anyone has. Even as a kid, she would literally say things like, "are you sure you want to wear THAT to the beach," and then she would point out what she felt was "unacceptable." I've honestly never gotten over the years of criticism. I've tried to few times to relax about it, but just end up feeling bad about myself. I am super vigilant these days about being positive and supportive of all body types when I talk to young girls in my life who are critical of themselves because I don't want them to end up like me.
Sorry to hear that happened to you but it's amazing what you're doing now to help out young girls!
Thanks. There are so many in my boat that have dealt with such damaging criticism, but I think we owe it to future generations to teach them to love their bodies as they are and focus on being healthy, not just skinny.
When I was younger I always felt insecure about not having a “super model” body even though I was not overweight, I just felt insecure wearing a bikini for that reason. Now, I’m aware of my cellulite, stretch marks and my belly and I feel less insecure about wearing my bikinis because I train 3 hours a day all week and that’s something not everyone does, it requires will and discipline. So I’m proud of my body and about staying healthy more than my looks or how I will be judge when wearing a bikini or any garment.
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I’m not comfortable showing off my body despite the weight loss… my stretch marks and cellulite is still there and some loose skin… but I can wear a full bathing suit with a cover up.
This one has been an odd thing for me. I do always wear a sleeveless shirt when I go swimming. Most people tend to think it’s because I’m insecure about my body. Really though, I don’t care about that. It’s more like the fact that I realize most people are uncomfortable seeing someone who is fat without a shirt on, so I wear a shirt so the people around me are more comfortable. I didn’t care about other peoples comfort, I wouldn’t wear a shirt.
That's very nice of you!
I didn't think twice wearing swim trunks and no shirt all through teen years, until I was 19.
I went to a pool party early summer a few months after I'd gotten the Playboy bunny tattoos on my arms. Nobody really knew since it was Feb when I got them, but this was the first real summery day.
I was in good shape at the time, but I couldn't help but feel super self-conscious of people looking at my tattoos all afternoon.
I showed up in a tank top, so everybody could see my tattoos and I couldn't hide them when out of the water anyway.
By the end of the day I was really tired of the snarky comments and snide remarks about 'Player', 'Playboy' and 'Hef'.
Next chance I got I bought a swimshirt so that I could cover the bunnies next time.
The problem was that I bought a white one... and when it got wet it got fairly transparent so that the bunnies showed anyway. I was so embarrassed.
Yes. But not a string bikini. I wear something a little sturdier because I’m more of a rough and tumble kind of woman than someone who lounges. I’d rather be sure that I’m not popping out because I know that’s likelier to happen for me with less support.
(Not high wasted bottoms though.)
If I am in a beach or a pool and looking to enjoy the water, then that's appropriate enough for a guy. I am not confident in my body because I lead a somewhat unhealthy life.
I am not looking to impress someone right, just having a swim and cooling off I don't find myself concerned about my shape in that settings.
No I wouldn't. I wear a bathing suit, but nothing too revealing. I just don't have the bod for a bikini.
You look absolutely fantastic.
For me, yeah, I totally don’t mind. I don’t have insecurity over my body, as it is what it is. Actually, growing up I haven’t really cared about my body in terms of looking a certain way for others’ approval.
I can where whatever swimwear and be okay.
Also, wouldn’t mind going or wouldn’t be bothered going to a nude beach at all.
I have a few bikinis that I like. I think I look nice in them. I just usually prefer one pieces during the day. I sunburn incredibly easily. I even have a few swimsuits with long sleeves for that reason. Also, when swimming in public places, I worry about bikinis slipping out of place. Especially the ones that tie in the back. I'd only ever wear bikinis in the evening, or in an indoor pool, if the only people there are people I know very well and wouldn't mind seeing more than I planned.
I'm always a little self conscious as I have a roll or two and no 6-pack, but I'm still okay in just trunks.
Great photo of you! Will it be in the Sports Illustrated swim suit edition?
You don't need a six pack to wear swimming trunks!
i used to swim competitively and had no choice but to get comfortable with swim briefs.
These days I still wear them most of the time because I’m used to them
You look stunning! :) I used to have similar insecurities about being skinny and lacking in curves. Seeing other skinny small breasted gorgeous and confident women helped me accept and start to embrace my body type for how it is, so now I can wear a bikini comfortably and refuse to be intimidated by other people's subjective idea of attractive.
As a dude I never spent even 1 second thinking or caring what others think of me in swim trunks. Actually I'd be more concerned that the normal clothes I wear fit me: not too sloppy, not too tight (depending on what it is). Probably don't think about it the same way a woman does tho ! cause I'm not trying to attract female attention.
Lol I used to wear a shirt because I *wasn't* flat. Also trunks. Because I didn't like showing skin. I didn't like how I looked in general. Now I'm much more comfortable and wear a top without a shirt. I still wear trunks, because I like how trunks look better, so I doubt that will change.
I am comfortable enough with your body to wear a bikini. 8p
I am fit and my abs are defined but I was born with a defect that altered part of my chest. It keeps me humble and I am glad for it. Arrogance is worse.
Still I mustered up a lot of courage and went to a water park with my friend and I was the only one topless. kind of surprised me.
I personally don't like going without a shirt. Just don't feel comfortable and feel like people are starting. Not that I have a problem with my body or anything and nothing against people who do.
Though I do sometimes have a problem with people who wear as little clothing as they can get away with say... When they are just in public. I would not say anything just makes me uncomfortable
I'm not that comfortable with my body but I think people would look at me more if I went swimming with a shirt on than they would look at my midsized/fat body in a bikini.
And I won't let my body stop me from enjoying life.
I have friends who wait years to live their lives because they feel like they're not thin enough to go in holiday and enjoy the beach.
I'm working on my body but it will take a few years before I'm at my desired weight and I'm not going to wait for that.
I was a 32a like forever it seemed then the year I started college at 17 I went to a b cup finally and that is as far as I have gotten but I love wearing my white one piece but I have a flourscent orange bikini that can be from space. I only bought it because when I had a baby, I didn't want to stretch the cups in my one piece. But I do like being seen in a bikini small breasted or nursing size. My one piece just feels good to wear.
I think a lot of women could use you as a role model because confidence is worth all that if I was in the swimming pool with you and you're walking around in your bikini your breast size would be the last thing that I would even be thinking about there is just way much more to you than that I said good job I think that is great you are proving to the world that you are confident with everything you do and I think that is so beautiful and that just makes you shine even more beautiful
Stripping down has nothing to do with being "comfortable" with your body. People who are truly comfortable with their bodies don't need to put it on display. Some of the most insecure people are those that show off a lot of skin because they seek compliments.
I'm a competitive athlete in multiple sports and have a very muscular body but I still am modest and don't need to show off.
I am but every now and then once get a little more self conscious. I guess the question is more why do you want to. Like most of the time it doesn’t make any difference to me to take my shirt off but if I want to be dry after I would rather take it off and use a towel you know. And then there are days where I would rather keep a shirt on because it just isn’t necessary to go shirtless and show off my big belly. Lol!
I am not so confident about running around with out a shirt. I am sure that some people would find it disgusting in 2 different ways. I am chunky and the amount of blisters I would have wouldn't be so attractive either.
Wearing a bikini around I would do. Just for the shock factor.
I’m happy with my body, the only issue is when sat in the sun for too long I get really bad sunburn :)
I'm comfortable now. When I was younger I had some self image issues because I compared myself to models in magazines but I did it anyway because I felt pressured because it was expected for girls to do it. But I learned to love my body with all its' perfect imperfections.
I'm pretty comfortable with it , but yeah it does depend on who i am with
The first time I went to a nude beach, I was terrified that people would look. After about 30 minutes, I was upset that they DIDN'T look. lol
What the hell was wrong with these people? :)
Hun, all of us are our own worst enemy.
Just have fun.
"Life is what you do while you're waiting to die."
I actually really like wearing a bikini. I'll never admit this non-anonymously because it'll make me sound vain, but I actually really like the fact that I'm 43 years old and I've still got a hot enough body that guys in their 20s still check me out in a bikini. It's taken work to keep myself in this good of shape, and I like getting checked out by guys.
Again, I'll never admit that to anyone if I'm not anonymous. But that's what I'm thinking in my head when I wear a bikini.
if your skinny and sexy like this woman, or even better like a 90's supermodel, PLEASE wear bikini's. If your heavy that is not a good look. even if some other fat women tell you it is. Most men are throwing up in their mouth including your husband or boyfriend who has to say "that looks good" to avoid making his life harder.
You mean around strangers? No I keep a t-shirt on because no one wants to see my hairy body. As little as I want to see fat people showing of their bodies. It's a consideration not because I am a shamed of it.
I wear usually shorts as swimsuit, I sure wouldn’t be comfortable with trunks, or worse, a Speedo. They’re very intimate and embarrass him to wear. I’m not also ok to stay long shirtless, I don’t stay if I’m not at beach going for a bath.
Well it's funny too because flat looks best with a bikini. You never had anything to worry about to begin with. Hope you see that now.
I don't mind going without a shirt, but I would still like to get in better shape to really sell it.
Yes I sure am. Im not skinny I wouldn't call myself skinny I'm a chunky woman but I like having curves. So to answer your question yes I am. I have a few things I'm insecure about but honestly once I get out of my head about it I'm totally fine
It took me a while to be able to feel that I could. Ironically when I was my smallest I didn’t feel comfortable and always had a tank top bathing suit and skirt bottoms. Now that I’m more comfortable in my body, I usually wear a bikini for swimming.
Newp, I've gained ENORMOUS amounts of weight since I was diagnosed with Bipolar II Disorder, and got sober 2 years and 7 months ago. I don't even take my shirt off when going to bed. I hate the way I look. Every last bit of it.
It depends on who I'm around. Around the ladies it's no big deal. But I'm kind of up on my weight in the moment. I'd rather not.
I’m comfortable with my body that I’d wear a bikini.. only reason I don’t is because my family disapprove of revealing clothing and when I’ve worn them so many perverts hit on me 😂
I’ve never been to a beach only lakes or public pools..
Yes, I am good with that if I want to. I know it seems like the majority are self conscience and I feel that way sometimes, but I usually end up saying F-it and do it anyways.
We are comfortable... About you wearing a bikini ofc... But are you? If you are comfortable maybe some stares can make you uncomfortable... someday maybe u just don't care.. And that will be the day in which u will feel most comfortable good luck to you mate
I'm in shape and I still wouldn't take my shirt off at the beach 😂
I've always been confident with my body so I prefer taking my shirt off when I can. Sadly, the occasion for it doesn't happen very often in my life haha.
I'm not comfortable with that at all. Before it's because I never really liked my body and was self conscious. And then never went swimming cause I was never sure if I could wear a shirt and was to anxious to ask or see. But now not only do I have that but also I now have scars j don't want to show anyone so I wear long sleeves all the time nkw I don't have a choice in that.
Not comfortable but I wear one anyways to go swimming
I’m somewhat confident but not 💯. When I weighed less I would’ve maybe. Now I’m chubby and I have a lot of stretch marks. Plus I feel uncomfortable, embarrassed and insecure cuz I have big boobs
Without a shirt and get sunburned? I think not. Showing skin seems prideful. Even swimming 🏊♂️ in the ocean, you can get burned. The water doesn't protect.
No, I'm not at all. I've never felt comfortable with my body in a bikini but I'm working on it. I might be ready to wear a bikini next year.
Small breasts are sexy. A lot of guys like women that have smaller breasts.
I'm not only comfortable without a shirt but I'm comfortable being naked. I'm not well endowed but I'm comfortable with what God gave me.
No, I have not worn a bikini since I was about 11. I’m working on my body now and it’s not that I have this crazy shape or anything I just feel really weird showing myself.
A bikini is basically just underwear that's been deemed appropriate to wear in public, I've never been comfortable with wearing them, no. I envy those that are.
I haven’t worn a bikini since high school. Sadly I don’t think I will ever wear one in the future. I feel like I am physically past my prime. I envy women around my age who can rock bikinis. I have the type of body that is better to cover up.
m my body is not a problem...
the problem would be the fact that I do not like sunlight much, lol
Tried it, got some weird looks, so went back to wearing shorts.
Never mind being naturally on the flat side. Such girls can be very cute and special. Many guys like them that way ;0)
I'm way too skinny nowadays. I should probably eat more often than ordering food once a day
I am not comfortable wearing a bikini in public yet. Ironic since it was all I wanted to wear all throughout my childhood but wasn't allowed to
I would never be comfortable in a bikini. Must cover from neck to toe.
Mostly I wear 1 piece. My bikini is not that small.
i'm not really "happy" with my body right now but i don't give enough of a shit. if someone doesn't like it, they can look away. also it's not "that" bad anyway xD just a little dad bod.
I've always gone swimming without a shirt. When I go swimming I am doing so for fun, not to put on a fashion show.
Confidence isn't about knowing ur hot
It's about knowing others are not
*Slay*
I’m don’t feel fine showing my body to everyone else
Since my BR four years ago, I'm now making up for all that lost time.
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