I need some advice. Okay, so I've been dating this guy who has been absolutely amazing to me and possibly the best boyfriend I've ever had. At first, things were really nice and fun. We would make time for each other, but we also spent time with friends and family. He used to go to his friend's house and get-togethers but also spent a healthy amount of time with me. I would do the same. I never felt ignored and we always made each other the priority. It was nice and healthy... I was so happy.
But now, for some reason, it seems he has completely abandoned his friends and his one hobby for me. I don't know why. I have never once asked him to do any of that or even dream of asking him to do that.
Our relationship was so nice but now, we spend a lot of time together, doing nothing, and I can't even hang out with my friends, I have to squeeze in time to hang out with my family, and I hate to say this but I'm just beginning to feel smothered and overwhelmed.
I love him a lot... I want to have hope in this relationship but I can't handle this anymore. I want him to have his own friends and hang out with them and just do his own thing like he used to. Now, I feel like he's completely 100% depending on me for all attention.
What do I do? How can I bring this up in a way where it doesn't feel like I'm attacking him? :(
But now, for some reason, it seems he has completely abandoned his friends and his one hobby for me. I don't know why. I have never once asked him to do any of that or even dream of asking him to do that.
Our relationship was so nice but now, we spend a lot of time together, doing nothing, and I can't even hang out with my friends, I have to squeeze in time to hang out with my family, and I hate to say this but I'm just beginning to feel smothered and overwhelmed.
I love him a lot... I want to have hope in this relationship but I can't handle this anymore. I want him to have his own friends and hang out with them and just do his own thing like he used to. Now, I feel like he's completely 100% depending on me for all attention.
What do I do? How can I bring this up in a way where it doesn't feel like I'm attacking him? :(
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