Guys why would your eyes soften towards a girl?

[Anonymous]

Sometimes I'll notice that literally happening in front of me...and I'll be thinking hmm

[Anonymous]

I know what you mean - it is actually when the pupils dialate (get bigger) that makes his eyes look softer... and that happens when people like what they see because the eye is trying to let in more light to see better.

[NoMoreDreams]

Eyes softening body language
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[Anonymous]

This is a classic case of girls over analyzing. Do you really think we know if and when our eyes "soften".

[Asker]

No, but I figured you knew when you became softer towards a girl in general, which we can see through your eyes.

[Opinion Owner]

The only thing I know is what I'm looking at. You may think I'm softening my eyes looking at you and all I'm thinking about is going to sleep. Which is why I said some people overanalyze lol

[James0]

The guy finds the girl very cute

[Asker]

But he's been a douche to me like 90% of the time, and only did that after I was put in a tight corner.

[James0]

He felt bad for you

[Asker]

So I'm still very cute, or just a pity case

[James0]

I think he just feels bad, like you said he's been douché

[Asker]

On the topic of cuteness, he's tried to stop himself from laughing at me a number of times, what's up with that.

[James0]

Now part confuses me :/ it's like he likes you and regrets being douché to you

[Klaatu51]

that guy's interested then...:-)

[Asker]

He's got a girlfriend, and he has never, ever, displayed any symptoms of interest in me prior to lol

[StickStickity13]

Basically?

[Illusive_Man]

What does eyes "softening" means?

[Asker]

A more relaxed/softer expression in your eyes... I can't describe it lol google it, it may be more helpful if that doesn't suffice lol

[Anonymous]

No, looking at women makes my heart turn to stone.

[Anonymous]

Probably doesn't realize it.

[Asker]

I think so too, but why did he do it? I was very uncomfortable about something so I guess he felt bad for me, but it was a change from the way he normally behaves.

[Opinion Owner]

He probably felt bad.

[Asker]

As a friend?

[Opinion Owner]

Most people don't want to make other people feel bad.

[Asker]

Fair enough, he could've fooled me though, given most of the time he focuses on exactly that.