Guys, do you ever experience feelings of having a "soft spot" for a girl? If so, please explain?

[snowwhite29]

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Ok, this should make this question more clear...

SOFT SPOT:
1. A tender or sentimental feeling: has a soft spot for stray animals.

2. A sentimental fondness (esp in the phrase, "have a soft spot for")

3. A weak or vulnerable point

[jdbaird]

There's a girl I dated in high school who no matter how bad she treated me over the years, I still took her back whenever she decided to come back in my life. I knew she had issues she couldn't resolve, and that the way she was treating me had nothing to do with me. It was just every time we were around each other it was as if she knew me on a very deep level and I felt the same way. We dated off and on through our late teens and early 20's but I became an alcoholic around my late 20's and idiotically rejected her in no uncertain terms. Mainly because I knew, now that she had her life on track I didn't want to screw it up for her by half assing a relationship and putting her though more heartache. We still talked up until about a year ago, but she met a good guy and she's getting married which I have mixed feelings about. It's ok though, I believe it's meant to be that way. Anyway, that's my story of the girl I have a soft spot for.

[therussianconcussion]

im trying to understand the question
because in most males if they see wrong doing to a female they get much more mad then if they saw the same wrong doing to another male.
there was even a test when they showed pictures and films of concentration camps from the nazi times, and what they did was show pictures of nazis throwing males bodies in the pit and then females bodies. when the pictures and videos of the dead females was shown to the males every male had a spike in his testosterone and brain waves that showed resembled rage. and instant too. but when shown the bodies of males only sadness was shown.
i can't find that this experiment i gotta google hunting to source this lol

[snowwhite29]

That is amazing! Thanks for sharing that... really interesting! I was referring to any girl u may know personally, but I get where your coming from. I guess, on some level, what u spoke of makes sense. Maybe all men do have a certain "weakness" for women... that's a good point.

[TheBootyChest]

Yes I do have a soft spot for ladies. I try to be a gentleman to them. But it usually backfires and I have to move on. I try to help ladies out if they might need help. I try to listen to them when I get a chance to talk to them. Yes I have a soft spot yet I don't get many chances to interact with them.

[ThisAndThat]

I have a soft spot pretty much for all girls that's my natural side and probably the same with most guys. But at the same time I've learned to be careful and not to display my soft spot too much because that is a huge mistake and it leaves a guy vulnerable. When girls learn about a guys soft spot they can pretty much become predators.

[Anonymous]

There is this girl at jack in the box and I will go like once or twice a month on my lunch at 2 in the morning (grave yard shift) at 1st I thought she was not very good looking but she always give me hella extra fries like 3 times in a row. Now when I look at her I want to bang her for being hella cool.

[Frost_Byt3]

Yeah... I have a soft spot for every attractive girl i meet 😅

[Frost_Byt3]

Unless she has a mean, bitchy personality that is.

[snowwhite29]

Fair enough! 😊

[Remonster]

When the cute Asian girl I Skype with smiles I feel like I'm melting. So definitely!

[phanindra554plus]

"Soft spot"
I dont know what is the meaning of that on your mind.
But according to me i am giving my opinion
\i will loss any spot for my girl /may be thats it😊

[Shaft50]

Yeah... I know a girl who is considerably younger than me... huge soft spot for her...

[Yc2K15]

That is not a good comment. You should be more specific about her age. No one likes pedo's

[Shaft50]

Look at my age... there's a whole range of acceptability, in the vicinity of two decades, before criminal accusations should be forthcoming. To clarify, she's 24...

[Anonymous]

I try to avoid having feelings for women. Safer for my finances.

[Yc2K15]

Yes men have feelings and emotions too...

[Yc2K15]

Ok this should make more clear.

1 I love my dog, who was a rescued stray.
2. I am fond of women (have a soft spot for cute small women)
3 My balls are extremely vulnerable.

[snowwhite29]

You are funny! You should always protect your balls! Haha

[Yc2K15]

I do, I wear a carbon fibre/aluminium underpants

[snowwhite29]

That's awesome 😉

[DestroyerofWorlds]

Yes, constantly, I try not to show it though.

[RedLook]

can you tell me what is a soft spot?

[snowwhite29]

I was kinda hoping u could tell me! Lol

[RedLook]

this may be something about her personality that make me like her

[BleachedBurgundy]

Ya. All triple threats.

[snowwhite29]

What do u mean by "triple threats"?

[BleachedBurgundy]

multitalented individiausl

[Anonymous]

My belly is soft, does that count?

[snowwhite29]

Nope, but thanks anyway! Lol

[Beantown1992]

Yes, it's my belly.

[Nathand]

ummm... no.