Ladies do you ever lost your soft spot for a guy and what does it means when you say so that you have a soft spot for a special someone?

[Jamesdann]

There's a girl i love, we never dated, i told her my feelings, she block me, ghosted me, lash out at me, calling me a psychopath and disgusting and even threaten to report me to the police, so i was scared for my life i moved one, then one day she unblocks me, telling me that she misses me, and that she is emotionally attached to me, she would always interlock fingers with me, we even kiss three times like full on romantically i ask her why she unblocks me what change this time, she said that she has a soft spot for me, then after a while we had a fall out, she blocks me, so i'm wondering why would she have a soft spot for me after everything she had said like saying " she never had feelings for me, she would never fell for me, that i'm a disgusting person " all i ever did was love her, showing her that i really care, ladies would ever have a soft spot for someone you truly hate or never wanted to have an emotional attachment or being involved romantically with?

[DreamCrescent]

she doesn’t quite sound stable if the story you’re telling from your perspective is the full picture. you have to be careful with those types of people whom nobody can help but themselves. and she might need help. this isn’t something you should drag yourself into, in my opinion. love can only do so much


sorry, boo

[Jamesdann]

I know i'm not a good person either, like i said some things i didn't meant to her, then right afterwards i felt really bad then i apologize , i really do care for this person, but i would never understand how could you called someone you use to be so closed with a " psychopath " and then later on telling me that she has a soft spot for me, sometimes i feel like i'm getting played at or used, maybe because i'm too soft, i would never raised my voice nor say something to attacked her personally, you can how it really messed with my emotions and my head, i wanted to move on, i hope i can

[DreamCrescent]

you will :) i know how tough it is, i’ve been where you are.

wish you the best, boo

[laly520]

doesn't seem a normal thing to me
I think she has some underlying issues she didn't wanna show or mention

[getwiththepg]

Wtf. That person sounds deranged.