What does it mean to have a soft spot for someone you’re not in love with? Is it possible for guys?

[Anonymous]

Does it mean you love them?

You care?

…. I don’t really understand the reasoning behind it if you don’t love them or talk to them

[Akam93]

Its possible for anyone. I have a soft spot my guy friend cause I use to love him a long time ago and even though the feelings have died a little he still has a soft place in my heart.

[Anonymous]

It means they're a great person that they're simply not attracted to.

[spartan55]

Why do you torture yourself?

[Asker]

How am I torturing myself?

[Asker]

You think I’m joking when I say I miss him so much 🥺

[spartan55]

You never even met him... I don't see how that's possible.

[Asker]

I just miss talking to him. I miss his company

[spartan55]

Well, you kind of blew it on that one so...

[Asker]

How? He still talks to me

[Asker]

*talked

[spartan55]

That's news to me. I thought you didn't talk to him anymore.

[Asker]

I don’t

It just hurts so bad

[spartan55]

Uh.. you just said he stopped..

[Asker]

He did stop talking to me and I’m saying I miss him

[spartan55]

Omg... I mentioned that you blew it and you argued that he still talked to you. So, which is it?

[Asker]

Oh no , he doesn’t sorry. He said take care … so no.. he ain’t coming back

[spartan55]

So like I said, you blew it...

[Asker]

He wasn’t man enough to love me

[spartan55]

Huh? I don't know what that is supposed to mean...

[Anonymous]

Soft spot = back up plan

[Asker]

How so?

[Opinion Owner]

Well it's guy game...
You won't understand

[Asker]

He already said he wasn’t looking for a relationship and he saw me as a friends so..

[In_Trance]

It means nothing