What does it mean to have a soft spot for someone?

[Anonymous]

Even if you’re not romantically interested in her… but you care a lot about her. Even when she’s mentally unstable at times and goes off on you a lot.. why would you have a soft spot for her..

do you just feel sorry for her

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Or is it bc you’re a good guy who is just empathetic

[DannyUk2017]

YOU KEEP ON SAYING HER, BUT AFTER SEEING THE COLD SHOULDERS GIVEN TO other people in here Advising you, I CONCLUDE you are a GUY! How pathetic, how sad to hide behind an "anonymous girl profile" and ask the question AS A MAN, actually, wait u can't bare the Answers, so yeah...🤷‍♂️

[Asker]

No I’m a girl

[DannyUk2017]

Ok so why keeping saying HER? Are you In Love with that GIRL?

[Asker]

No talking about me

[DannyUk2017]

Ok, i understand... well i would try to comfort her, and explain what is wrong, and what is right, if "she" wants to continue, if not... It is what It Is! 🤷‍♂️

[Shaysturn]

Probably a good guy, but there must also be some kind of connection there.

[Asker]

He doesn’t want a relationship and we stopped taking but he did say he cares for me even if I don’t see it and other bs

[Shaysturn]

So then if the real reason behind the question is that you like this guy “that way” and you’re trying to figure out if he could possibly like you too in “that way”, then it looks more like he doesn’t. The care for you thing sounds more like he’s just trying to be nice. He doesn’t hate you, has no ill will towards you, doesn’t mind being cool, but just isn’t into you “that way.”

[Asker]

Okay

[Asker]

I find this to be hilarious but I told him that I hope he dies and bc he’s a firefighter I hope he tries lol 😂

[Shaysturn]

Oh wow. Lol. Well yeah… it’s time to cut your ties and find you someone who will care for you the right way. He’s out there. Just gotta find him.

[spartan55]

You need to get over this. He is gone.

[Asker]

I just asked a question

[Asker]

I’ll block you

[Emanon25]

not feeling sorry but caring about her more

[Asker]

But why?

[Emanon25]

That’s me being nice

[Asker]

You would put up with her bs because you’re nice?

[Asker]

I just want to understand