Guys, do you prefer experienced strong women or innocent fragile girls?

[Anonymous]

Which of the two would you consider as your wife?

[Anonymous]

Im a guy... It depends... And there are a multitude of differences, not just strong and fragile. If strong means bitchy then only weak guys will put up with that. If you mean fragile then only abusers will be interested. Relationships are usually a balance between dominance and submissiviness. What do you want to be?

[Asker]

they are both kind-hearted. only that the experienced woman, let's say, has experienced more struggles that's why she became strong.

[Asker]

and the experienced strong woman is not a virgin anymore. let's say she fell in love in the past but gave herself to the wrong guy.

[Opinion Owner]

Thats not true, a lot of women confuse themselves with been strong because they have put up with so much. But because they have been through so much have actually been broken. And if you keep breaking something it doesn't become strong. Strength is what would have kept her from falling for the wrong guys in the first place. It really does go back to their early family relations/upbringings. Strength of personality is in your nature. And been a bitter bitch is not strength. And it is why you see so many women go through one bad relationship to another or conversely, find their way out but are unable to adapt to any normal relationship and so stay single again (although they may 'succeed' in other areas of life) simply because they are broken.

[The_Lone_Ranger]

It doesn't matter to me. I will take an innocent fragile girl and build her into an experienced strong woman which will strengthen the relationship. I can take an already strong woman and learn from her. Either way is fine for me.

[Asker]

No preference at all?

[The_Lone_Ranger]

Nope I'm flexible either way

[Asker]

But you'd still build an innocent fragile girl to a strong one. Does that mean you can't stay with an innocent fragile girl forever?

[The_Lone_Ranger]

If I love this innocent and fragile girl sure I stay with her forever. I will simply be her strong protector, this will be just an old school, traditional marriage like my grandparents.

[SunDevil11]

an innocent strong woman, but if I had to choose one I would say experienced strong woman

[Asker]

So virginity is really important?

[SunDevil11]

Eh virginity would be nice, however it is becoming more difficult to find. So I would prefer she had a little bit of experience, but has not slept around an excessive amount

[WesTheGuru]

Fragile is a strange word choice. Fragile means easily broken, so I wouldn't want a fragile girl.

I prefer innocence to experience though. I like to teach.

[YazanAA]

Virginity is really important for me, I will only marry a virgin.

[Sara413]

Virginity is a social construct.

[Asker]

Even if her heart is not?

[YazanAA]

@Sara413 annnd?
@asker what do you mean? Like if she fell in love before me?

[Asker]

No, if she has an ugly personality. But she's a virgin, so you'll prefer her over an un-virgin one.

[YazanAA]

Well I refuse this comparison, you know why? Because there are like 5 billion girls in the world so I'm sure that I can find a virgin with a good personality.

[Asker]

Are you a virgin yourself? That's understandable.

[YazanAA]

Yes I'm. I'm a one woman type of guy, I really don't want to have sex with anyone besides my future wife so I guess I'm not asking too much if I say that I will only marry a virgin.

[Asker]

Well I am not a virgin but I have nothing against you. It's good that you stick to your standards. Keep it up.

[abc3643]

I like both because there are pros and cons with each.

[abc3643]

I'm probably more attracted to the strong woman, but recognize I'd likely have a better relationship with the innocent woman. However, if she is too fragile, fuck that!

[KDA20]

I think an expierenced and strong woman would be my preference.

[Klaatu51]

strawng xperienced gals 8)

[GoodDogNigel]

innocent fragile girls personally

[Anonymous]

I kind of don't like breaking things :/

[Anonymous]

Innocent fragile girls.

[Anonymous]

It depends on the guy

[Anonymous]

I don't like used ones,
Branded new one for me

[Asker]

Are you a "branded new one" yourself?

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah, I am

[Asker]

Ohh. That's why.

[reptocarl]

The strong one

[Anonymous]

from my experience, innocent ones lol :)