When a guy invades a women's personal space? Does he have interest in me ! Or is he just comfortable around me?

[Anonymous]

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Hey guys when a man stands or leans too close to a women as to where your body almost touch, does that mean he has interest in her, want to know her more, likes her or is showing other guys dominance over you.

[pbandjam12]

Not really sure... this could go a lot of different ways. Either:

A) He is interested in you and is attempting to subtly show it by being physically closer to you

B) He's just that type of person who is comfortable being that close to people

or

C) He's just a creep who likes smelling your hair or looking at your texts being nosy lmao. Hope its not C!

[Asker]

Haha 😂 let's hope it's not C. but this is not the first time he invaded my space when talking to me, and sometimes I even catch him starring at me from a distance lol This guy is just hard to decode.

[pbandjam12]

hmmm, okay first off. do you ever see him getting that close to other girls? and when he does it to you does he stare right at you the entire time or is like checking you out or wandering elsewhere with his eyes?

[Asker]

Haven't caught him invading anyone else space, he keeps some sort of distance between them but when he's near me it's like he forgets his boundaries. I have caught him wandering around but then he'll look away when I catch him.

[pbandjam12]

So the way I see it if you're up for it you can try two things that could help clear things up. The first is the next time you see him YOU get up close and personal, don't completely mimic what he usually does though or the gist is up lol. The second thing you could do is the next time he tries to get that close just slowly keep your distance from him. This one is tougher to pull but depending on how he acts it could definitely help you figure out if he's just really comfortable with you for some reason and is doing it on purpose as some sort of weird way of hitting on you lol.

[Asker]

Haha 😂 😂 Thanks for the advice I'll try stepping back next time and see how he reacts.

[pbandjam12]

No problem! Good luck :D

[SunDevil11]

It could be either, but I mostly think it means he is comfortable being around you

[silverfeline]

can't it be both? Seems like both can be highly possible.

[Iron_Man]

Could mean a little bit of both