To the gay/lesbian community! Is there a 'giver' and 'receiver' in the relationship or does it work both ways?

When having sex do you 'give' and 'receive' or is one always the 'reciever' and the other the 'giver'.
sorry for such a crass question, just curious.
I only give
i only receive
i give and receive
It depends on the couple.
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To the gay/lesbian community! Is there a 'giver' and 'receiver' in the relationship or does it work both ways?
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