What do you do when your boyfriend has a guy's night out?

[AshleyL]

Ladies, I know sometimes we get jealous when our boyfriends/husbands spend a lot of time with their friends and have guy's night out. What do you ladies do in response? Do you stay at home and get angry or do you go out and have fun with your girls?

For myself, I am pretty understanding and know we still have separate lives. Plus I enjoy hanging out with my friends too! What are your thoughts?

[LessthanLisa]

My boyfriend and I have made it a point right from the beginning to stress that we both have our own lives and to not just ignore our own needs/friends.. that said, a lot of the times, I go with him to parties with his friends, just because I like partying and some of the friends.. but there are a few of his friends I can't stand, and when he goes with them, or in any other situation that doesn't call for a girlfriend being present, I go and do my own thing..rather that be staying at home, watching movies/playing games/knitting/painting, whatever.. or spending time at a club dancing with my friends and having a few drinks. No jealousy here.

I think though to have jealousy at all, there has to be lack of trust..

[AshleyL]

I agree! No jealous here either. Well unless he starts making it a daily habit that is. :-) Sometimes I'd rather just be with my girls or at home reading or working, so I wouldn't hold him back. Great answer.

[somechick]

I'm not the jealous type so if he wants to have a guys night out, he can go out and have fun. Just as long as I know where he's going and the time he's coming back. I on the other hand, will have my own girls night out.

[Eminem]

Hang out and relax too , friends are important too. (MM)

[Razal]

Chill and Relax