I am a lesbian. One of my guys friends kissed me while drunk. Then apologized. then we almost kissed again. What does this mean?

[Anonymous]

We recently became close friends. He's in what he swears is a happy relationship. he was a little drunk. I stopped it as soon as it happened. Then we got into a serious talk. It was a complete no filter night. Then we laid down and nothing happened but it almost did. I am a lesbian so this completely new to me. We have so much in common and have the greatest time together. I'm just confused as all get out. Plus I can't say I didn't enjoy it and him.

[JSmith925]

it means that you are more focused on the person's humanity than their equipment. I have known a number of people who crossed the line because they met someone amazing.

Just go with your feelings and don't get hung up on the labels. You owe no one any explanation.

[Nice_Guy_Last]

Bi guy here, and yeah, you are bi. I had a very similar thing when I was younger. I thought I was just gay, and I did in fact have a boyfriend. But after he broke up with me, I met my first girlfriend, and holy shit, I wasn't just gay anymore (girls are just as awesome).

[EllaC]

You could be bi... and since you're young, you could still be searching for yourself. Why would you have to fit in any box to feel comfortable though? If it feels right, explore it and see where it leads.;)

[Anonymous]

Is this the first guy you've ever kissed? Because if so, you're not a lesbian sweetie. You're just lazy so you settled for poon. Go out there and get fucked. You will enjoy it

[Mustachekitteh]

You sound like you might be Bi. have you ever thought about exploring that possibility?

[abc3643]

Did you ever have the inclination to want to grab his wiener? If so, you aren't a lesbian. You are more likely a switch hitter.

[zorro8888]

Sounds to me like you're bisexual, you might be more inclined to seek women but you still have some level of attraction for men too.

[findingdreamland]

I say; try with man too. You seem you get attracted to men too.

[MrGRIMM]

then your bi and he is unhappy in his relationship or is unfaithful not someone to get serious with.

[PurpleTeardrops]

Maybe you're bisexual? He must not be in a "happy" relationship since he was down to kiss a lesbian :P

[FreyaDiermayr]

Well hey, sexuality is fluid. (but the fact he kissed you while in a relationship is kind of a jerk move on his part)

[Nuqood]

If you're willing to deal with finding out if you're really gay or not, try a guy out.

[helva]

Let flow the river and see what you feel about it in a few days.

[DaddyRollingStone]

One kiss doesn't make you not a lesbian I guess, well I dont know

[Anonymous]

Maybe you are attracted to both? Ever feel any attraction towards men? Ever been with any before?

[gymbob]

Sounds like you may be bisexual!

God Luck!

[MattDamonAndFriends]

It sounds like he's chasing amy

[bubbletrouble]

It means that you are bi

[existing_not_living]

Maybe you're bi?

[alphamale007]

You're bisexual