Why am I only approached by older men? I'm 15?

Question

I'm fifteen almost 16. Only older men approach me randomly when I'm out in public. Youngest has been 22 and oldest has been around 45. They still talk to me (say it doesn't matter) even when I tell them my age. Why do older men do this? And why don't many guys my age approach me?

Updates:

+1 y

I don't look older than my age at all. I've been told I have a baby face actually. But what I'm wondering is why in general older men hit on younger girls?

Answer 1

JustinCaseUDontKnow

Guru

Yeah some guys don't care but they shouldn't have that attitude
they should respect your age , sure i think younger females are sweet
but i don't make a big deal about it and creep them out cause that's
just no way to go about things , Yes you can look older but i would
hope guys know their place as a man and respect you without
creeping you out ,

Answer 2

jormungand

Xper 5

Pedophiles and perverts they are. No doubt about it. And just block them. Also you might look older than your actual age.

Answer 3

Stacyzee | 864 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Master

When I was your age, older men approached me all of the time. When I was 16 I looked 12, so I have no idea why.
Older men 40s-60s continue to approach me.

It's something about youthful beauty that men admire and want.
If it makes you uncomfortable just ignore it.

Answer 4

WhatTheHellAmy

Guru

You don't look 15, that's why.

Not a bad thing tho, I prefer older guys.

Guys around your age might think you are more mature than them and they like to be the ones wearing the pants.

I don't know... I couldn't be sure.

Answer 5

Cmasterson | 1.1K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Master

And those are the men you don't want to be around! They're completely disrespectful and sick for making you feel uncomfortable

Answer 6

confusedone14

Xper 6

You are quite wise beyond your years and have given out some good advice :)

I agree with what the other are saying, you don't look your age.

Answer 7

lemonlimetime

Explorer

Maybe it's the way you dress or act that makes you come off as more mature? Or maybe you're like me and just flat out look older than you are.

Answer 8

serious | 3.7K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Master

Maybe you are very mature as a person, maybe you show more maturity for your age than other people of your age. This could be a reason as to why older men approach you.

Answer 9

OrangeBoy

Guru

Probably you look a lot older ... and hormones jump...

Answer 10

Anonymous

It is hard for a guy to accurately judge how old a female is these days, with teen girls growing up physically and dressing older than they are. Based on your pic you can easily pass for a baby-faced 20 or 21 year old.

Yasmine_yasmine

+1 y
They continue even when I tell them my age.
Opinion Owner

+1 y
If you're legal age of consent where they live, they are doing nothing wrong.
Yasmine_yasmine

+1 y
I'm not legal age of consent
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Opinion Owner

+1 y
The 22 year old isn't so bad
Opinion Owner

+1 y
If you were legal

Answer 11

Yasmine_yasmine

They continue even when I tell them my age.

Answer 12

Opinion Owner

If you're legal age of consent where they live, they are doing nothing wrong.

Answer 13

Yasmine_yasmine

I'm not legal age of consent

Answer 14

Opinion Owner

The 22 year old isn't so bad

Answer 15

Opinion Owner

If you were legal

Answer 16

Anonymous

Because if that's you in your picture then you are hot.

Yasmine_yasmine

+1 y
Thank you but that doesn't answer my question lol :)
Opinion Owner

+1 y
If they are around 18-24 for example, Then 16 isn't that big of an age difference. It's illegal yeah and weird because of the maturity levels. However, if you were over 18 and a 24 year old approached you it would be the same as if a 22 year old did when you were 16. So i guess some people think that way i dont know. In my case i would think you were hot and if you said you were 16 i would be bummed and have to wait till you were 18. That's just my honest opinion.

Answer 17

Yasmine_yasmine

Thank you but that doesn't answer my question lol :)

Answer 18

Opinion Owner

If they are around 18-24 for example, Then 16 isn't that big of an age difference. It's illegal yeah and weird because of the maturity levels. However, if you were over 18 and a 24 year old approached you it would be the same as if a 22 year old did when you were 16. So i guess some people think that way i dont know. In my case i would think you were hot and if you said you were 16 i would be bummed and have to wait till you were 18. That's just my honest opinion.

Answer 19

Anonymous

The opposite is with me! I'm 26 and teenage girls are always into me.

Answer 20

Anonymous

because their guys and you are a sexy bitch! doesn't matter that you're 15 you look old enough ;)

Answer 21

Anonymous

Are they all nice to you

Yasmine_yasmine

+1 y
Yes.
Opinion Owner

+1 y
Any of them try to take you any wear
Yasmine_yasmine

+1 y
Not really no
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Opinion Owner

+1 y
Sorry I'm out of ideas

Answer 22

Yasmine_yasmine

Yes.

Answer 23

Opinion Owner

Any of them try to take you any wear

Answer 24

Yasmine_yasmine

Not really no

Answer 25

Opinion Owner

Sorry I'm out of ideas

Answer 26

Lols1

Xper 3

no no no yasmin no!

Yasmine_yasmine

+1 y
What?

Answer 27

Yasmine_yasmine

What?

Why am I only approached by older men? I'm 15?

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