You're walking down the hallway, and a girl says hi to you?

[Anonymous]

OK, think of this scenario. Your walking down the hall way listening to your ipod and a girl says hi to you, you both had a brief exchange of words before. After she says Hi she ask if you remember her, would you think in your head if you've seen her before? after that she introduces herself. How would you feel? Creeped out or happy that a girl actually talked to you, would you actually think she likes you? and after an introduction would you start saying hi to her?

[jdcpa]

umm?

This would be my mental process:

Girl: Hi

Guy: (Fcuk, I'm gonna have to pause the song I was listening to)

Guy: Hey

Girl: Do you remember me?

Guy: (I don't remember what I ate for breakfast, and it's only 10AM)

Guy: You look familiar, but your name is slipping off the tip of my tongue.

Girl: Nikki, from Advanced Biochemistry

Guy: (who? alright, don't panic, you have no idea who she is, but she seems to know you from somewhere. you don't want to seem arrogant like you're too good to remember who she is, and you don't want to make her feel unimportant like you don't care, so just be nice, she seems nice anyway)

Would I feel creeped out?

WTF? why would I feel creeped out? Geez, if I'd feel creeped out by every person who walked up to me, I'd be one of those cold, up-tight, obnoxious people, or one of those weird and highly paranoid people. It's not like she came up to me looking like she was high on cocaine, or asking me for money, or to sign up to donate my eyes and organs. She just came up and said "hi". If that would creep anyone out, then woe to what has become of the world.

Would I feel happy?

If she looks like a Victoria's Secret model, or I know exactly who Nikki is and have had a crush on her ever since she talked about the effects of L-Algernine in Advanced Biochem, then hell yeah I'm happy. But if she's just a girl walking up to me to say hi, then the only thing I'm thinking is that a girl is walking up to me and saying hi. period. end of story. I'm not angry, I'm not upset, I'm not creeped out, I'm not having an orgasm, I'm not falling in love, it hasn't made my day in any way. it just is what it is; nothing deeper than just what happened.. a girl walking up to me and saying hi.

Would I think she likes me?

That depends "how" she came up to me, how she said hi, what she did after she said hi, and how she went about ending the conversation and leaving. Her being nervous could just be because she's talking to s/o new or s/o she doesn't know that well (not necessarily because she likes me). Her trying to act overconfident might be because that's just how she presents herself to all guys, or has an image around the school or her friends she wants to maintain (not because she's nervous because she likes me but is trying to hide it and pretend she's not bothered and completely comfortable & at ease). But depending on her actions and lack of actions, there would be enough information for it to be pretty obvious if she liked me or not.

[shadowscard]

I wouldn't mind if a girl did that. If I had seen her before I would definitely rack my brain to remember where I've seen her before. I wouldn't feel creeped out at all, I enjoy talking to people. I probably wouldn't think that the girl liked me unless she was like touchy and playing with her hair (you know, all the flirty stuff). I would probably start saying hi depending on how well we hit it off with the initial convo.

[rawr123]

sure, I'm a friendly person.