Why was his mind blank when I gave him a blowjob?

[Anonymous]

So it was the first time for giving and receiving. My boyfriend said it was amazing and I did all the right things for him. But when I asked him what was going through his mind when it was happening, he said his mind was blank! I don't understand that. When he touches me a million things rush through my mind, the fact he's touching me and wants me, the look on his face, imagining what he's thinking, you catch my drift I'm sure.
He further explained it was the first time, he was taken aback and didn't know what to think. He clarified though that it was the most fantastic sensation he'd ever felt.
Guys and girls, can you shed some light on this?

Thanks

[AnonKuma]

We guys have something in our brains to regulate our emotions better than girls which is why girls tend to think more and show their emotions more than guys. However, since we are able to regulate our emotions better, we focus more on the pleasure in this case and when we are experiencing great feeling of pleasure that usually is just the only thing we can think about so our mind goes blank.

[madhatters4]

here's the fact. so many things go through my head but it's pretty much indescribable. and I don't want to bother focusing on my thoughts rather than just sitting back and thinking 'damn this feels good'

why think about anything that may distract you from what is happening

[JustBeingHonest7]

Men and women are different. Sometimes guys can be not thinking about anything at all. Women typically always are thinking about something.

Also I've heard that men are more likely to think OR feel whereas women usually do both simultaneously. This is also why guys are a little better at doing friends with benefits without growing feelings than girls are

[Asker]

That is such a good answer.

[JustBeingHonest7]

Thanks

[Anonymous]

Send me to the moon... ever hear that phrase?
How about heaven?
That's where you sent his mind... an out of body experience, so great it was for him.

He's not mature enough to know what happened or at least how to explain it to someone who has never made that trip... maybe if he returns the favor & gets good at it?

[Anonymous]

i think about nothing much aside from the pleasure during sexual stuff too. there is nothing to think about aside from the pleasure. at that point my mind is so clear specifically when i am close to orgasm or during the actual orgasm. when i am completely aroused i think of nothing

[USMC-Crossroads]

My mind goes blank when you're doing a good job. Some girls don't put any effort into it, and that just gets very 'eh.' But when you use a lot of hard sucking and deep strokes, I am incapable of any rational thought.
The truth is, its a great complement to you. I hope he returned the favor.

[JuicyBrain]

There is something that guys can do that girls can't. It's to just think of nothing and focus on what's going on. That's often what we do. Especially when we have sex.

[abc3643]

We don't think when we're having sex. We're concentrating on the sensations we are feeling.

Imagine you have to pee really bad and then you finally get to pee. You are thinking of nothing other than, subconsciously, "Oh god, this feels good." Well, that's what's going on in a guys mind during sex - nothing because he is concentrating on his sensory experiences because that is critical to ejaculation and making future babies.

[ObviouslyOriginalMe]

Guys aren't like girls... They don't describe their thoughts in such detail. My boyfriend usually shrugs when I ask him what's on/what was on his mind. If he does give me an answer its a short, simple, but loving "All you beautiful".

[rjroy3]

You fried his circuits, he couldn't think. You did a damn good job if you tool away his ability to think. That's the type of shit where a girl can ask for anything during sex and get it.."will you take me to France this year?"
YES! Oh baby yes!

[WachaAlPharoh]

It probably felt so incredibly good to him that he was simply engulfed by the pleasure, dumbfounded to the point where nothing else clouded his mine, just sheer bliss. :)

[Anonymous]

"My mind was blank" is a guys polite way of saying "do you really expect me to list of the literal BILLION thoughts that go through my head mid blowjob? Or even remember any of them in the first place?"

This is a hard question for guys in any situation really. My thoughts are a billion rapid fire little blips that have absolutely no importance

[SomeKindOfPerson]

He just feels and reacts differently to pleasure than you do. There are tons of questions about what people think and feel, and there are tons of different responses.

[SomeKindOfPerson]

*Questions on this site, I mean. You should check them our if you're curious.

[Anonymous]

He was so overwhelmed by the good job you did he couldn't think of anything

[Asker]

Has that happened to you?

[Opinion Owner]

I've never received one :(

[Asker]

Give it time!
Have you had any encounter with a girl that made your mind go blank?

[Opinion Owner]

Only if I liked her and was nervous but that's not really the same situation as this. I'm sure your guy liked it. Did it look like he was enjoying it? Did he grunt or anything?

[Asker]

He didn't make a sound. He came quickly and said loudly he was going to come, and I carried on and swallowed. He said he couldn't believe how good I was and that I'd swallowed too. But the mind being blank puzzled me so much. Like when I'm about to orgasm, I have the thoughts rushing through my mind and I explode sort of thing.

[Opinion Owner]

Girls use more emotions but he was probably mostly thinking about how it was feeling. And he came so you did a good job and I have no doubt he was happy. I would be haha

[sm17deloro]

He's just saying he was speechless, maybe he was thinking things but gguys are less out there and talk less about whats on their mind, but I don't know

[Lonewolf_1296]

It went blank because it was simply an awesome feeling. You swept his mind off, literally.

It is a good thing.

[Anonymous]

All he can remember from it is the image of you with his dick in your mouth

[sthudig]

Means he enjoyed it. This is the response you are looking for, believe it or not.

[ChgzDaniel]

I think that the things on his mind wernt that important that he remembers everything

[Prilee1992]

Thank you for your compliment. I thought girls don't care when i'm giving her 'come fuck me' look when im going on her lol

[putniss]

Because he was enjoying your blowjob?
like in massages, we just don't think anything and just lay down and relax and enjoy.
I would rather want him to close his eyes and enjoy my efforts in blowing his dick than thinking about other stuff.

[9mfeo]

Totally normal, and not just for the first time.

[Hercules073]

There is a diffrence between women and men...

[BackInGame]

that was not your boyfriend.