Did he only want sex from me?

[Anonymous]

i met this guy on tinder at my grandparents house because we had been talking for a while and he was a really nice guy that really wanted to see me in person and spend time with me and i felt bad because i kept turning him down and making excuses. So i run outside to meet him by his car and he is standing there after i confirmed that he was an actual person lol. We were talking and he gave me a hug and when we were talking he was grabbing my butt squeezing it and i did not feel comfortable with that but i did not say anything about it. He went from my butt to trying to massage my vagina but he was actually grabbing my stomach but i knew what he was thinking he was doing so i laughed it off and moved his hand and told him that it tickled and to stop but he kept putting his hand right back telling me if it tickled then to let him keep doing it and i literally had to pry his hands off me because he did not want to move his hands. After that he started kissing me and i don't really want to cause he kept shoving his tongue down my throat so i kept moving my head so he could not kiss me and that made him upset and he just stopped for a while and we went back to talking to each other and he started trying to kiss me again but i would not let him and so he grabs my boobs and starts touching them and i pushed him away like wtf stop and he just gets pissed like "Whats your problem?" and we got into an argument with each other because he said that i was being hostile to him and that he really liked me and wanted to be in a relationship with him because i was cute and he was cute and it was only right for us to be together. He made the mistake of picking me up (i hate being picked up by anyone) and i slapped him and bit him and he just went off on me calling me a slut and a bitch and pushes me down on the ground he gets in his car cursing at me and then apologizes and asked me to get in the car so we could talk i was like fuck you and left.

[JustAnotherGirlie]

You met him on tinder though? I think that young women should exercise GREAT caution when meeting up with strangers from apps. You need to provide your own transportation and ask what they are looking for.
Second, it’s obvious he only wanted sex. But I’m concerned about the way he harassed you - no means no. He kept forcing you to do things and that is not okay at all. That is not your fault and I’m sorry you went through that.
Overall thoroughly ask these guys what they want and what they are looking for. Drive yourself and meet up with them in daylight, crowded public places. Make sure you verify their identity on other social media sites to ensure they are who they claim.
Be smart

[Dreku]

If you met on tinder he had one thing on his mind, more concerning is this is borderline rape, he's a fucking creep and thinks he can just do what he can do what he wants, guys like that always go straight to calling people things like slut and get violent when they are shut down, crushes the mask of an ego they have built, honestly you should report him as I can almost guarantee he's the kinda guy that would fuck a girl who is passed out, I'm sorry for my sex, won't be the last one of him you meet I'm afraid

[Aleckxszandre]

Some people just expect everyone on Tinder to put out without even asking about it to begin with. If his first in-person interaction with you is trying to get into your pants, seemingly even trying to force it, odds are he probably only wanted that and nothing beyond that.

[HoTak]

It's like going to a bar dressed revealing and act disguised when bar guys try to pick up on you.

In Tinder, you're bound to meet these people. If you're looking for someone to treat you differently, look at any other place but Tinder.

[wannastay1]

It don't matter what he wanted, the fkn guy went frm ass to v and finished with calling you a slur n pushing you to the ground .. what a dick, ya he was after v not a relationship.

[slatyb]

Yes, he just wanted sex, and his behavior was way over the top. Next time meet a guy in a public place like a coffee shop. Do not waste time with chat, just agree to meet or forget it.

[vittle1999]

Yup he wanted to do badly make out with u. One bullet averted.

[Cj_Shway]

that's a lot of reading, but probably.

[Flower-petal]

Too much to read, he sounds like he just wants ass