Straight guy asked me for a BJ?

[JustinTheGreat]

Im gay and one of my friends is straight and we were hanging out and he asked me to give him a bj... I was confused and went "Uh, you like guys?" and he said "No... but i dont have a girl to give me one. and im assuming if i close my eyes it would feel like a girl if you didn't talk or something. id be willing to try it if you would"
I thought "the fuck?"
does he like guys and he's just afraid to come out or is this a normal thing for straight dudes?

Updates

+1 y

Okay update: He is in fact bisexual. He's just not out of the closet yet and was afraid to even admit to himself that he likes guys. Case closed.

[Gentle1Professor]

Many straight guys like to be sucked by a gay. For one thing gays know how to give wonderful oral sex. Most straight guys do have a closeted bisexual side that they are afraid to admit for fear of letting someone know that they like guys sexually as well as women.

I'm bisexual and it took years for me to realize it and come to grips with it. I would love being with a guy and have sex with him both receiving and giving oral sex and sometimes anal sex. At times I would feel guilty about it especially after I reached my climax and shot my cum.

I wouldn't loose any sleep over a straight guy wanting you to suck him. If you like it, do him and maybe one time he will want to return the pleasure.

[imanf7]

stop making everyone gay

[Maik567]

"Most straight guys do have a closeted bisexual side"

That is the most ridiculous thing I've heard and its completely untrue.

[FakeName123]

For some reason I had to think of this:

https://i.imgur.com/oqj1avK.png

[JustinTheGreat]

Lmaoo

[Anonymous]

He's most likely afraid to come out, and he probably has a crush on you. Talk to him about it and ask him if he needs any moral support for him to come out or something. This could also just be his way of telling you he's gay, but he probably likes you if he's asking you for a bj. You should also think back on whether he's ever had any interest in the opposite sex, or if he's had any relationships that have lasted that long. Also think of how he reacts to the LGBTQ+ community. Whether he seems like homophobic about it, or he says something like, "they sound cool" or something.

[Opinion Owner]

Well there's a chance, it could also be that he's horny and doesn't care you're a guy lol

[JustinTheGreat]

Well I know in the past when it came with me and a boyfriend he was kind of uncomfortable around it. Or at least I think he was, he was awkward

[Opinion Owner]

Anything else or is the only reaction he has?

[JustinTheGreat]

back when gay marriage was legalized he was just like "Oh cool" so he didn't seem that excited about it or anything. That's pretty much it

[apple24]

Say thing happen to my cousin... he bi... this guy who str8 and has a girlfriend told him to give him a blow job... my cousin did and then they exchange number but he never called again... I think I am guessing he just wants a bj because he never called again... I am not sure but maybe his girlfriend doesn't give him bj...

[OpenWine]

Lol you r soundin stewpid

[cleverlemon]

yeah... no. that boy is just plain curious.

https://cleverlemon.me/

[SmoMan]

Sexuality is a spectrum with plenty of room for everyone. Just because a guy identifies as "straight" does not mean he will refuse to fool around with another guy. I am straight but I would totally fuck a cute sissy twink if I was that turned on and no willing chicks were around.

[SteamBuns]

Where am I?

[SmoMan]

@SteamBuns You mean on the scale? It is called the kinsey scale if you want to look it up I am sure there are online tests you could take to see where you land.

[SteamBuns]

I think I'm on he wrong side of the internet

[SmoMan]

@SteamBuns No. This is pretty normal stuff. people asking to benefit from other peoples life experience to help them make better choices is one of the best parts of the internet. if you want the weird shit here you go...

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZZ5LpwO-An4

[SteamBuns]

I think i'm going to be suffering from Post traumatic stress disorder after seeing that video

[SmoMan]

@SteamBuns Oh come on. you can't be that familiar with the internet if you thought that was bad.

[SteamBuns]

I dare you to try N creep me out with a weird video

[SmoMan]

@SteamBuns You are 16 so it would be illegal for me to show you anything really bad. Here watch a fun wholesome family video instead.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QrGrOK8oZG8

[SteamBuns]

lol It's illegal to show me something bad? I didn't know but at the same time you're just showing me weird Videos man hahahahahahahahahaa

[orphan]

@smoman
i hear ya... i can understand... although for me i'd require a life sentence to prison.. then after about 15 years in, i'd allow the the most feminine dude to prime the ol' pump.

[MimTcgraw]

@SteamBuns me too man! Where are we? lol

[SmoMan]

@orphan perfectly reasonable. Everyone has their own preferences.

[MimTcgraw]

@orphan yeah I can totally understand this question if it was in the guys were in the prison system!!!

[Starrk]

That sounds like "situational homosexuality" to me.

Situational homosexuality is when a "straight" person is willingly to engage in sexual activity with someone from the same sex, due to them being unable to do it with someone from the opposite sex.

Your friend was horny at the time and since no other female was around, I guess he was like "Fuck It" and went ahead and asked his gay guy friend to lend his mouth. I don't think your friend is entirely gay. He's probably bisexual in the sense that he will never date or have romantic feelings for another man, but he will surely let another man suck his dick if there was no other female options.

[DarkHumorRUs]

Well, technically, the only thing preventing this is that most straight guys feel uncomfortable doing sexual acts with other guys. And they don't find other guys attractive. But to get pleasure from a BJ you don't really need to be attracted to the person... I don't know.

[DodgersGM]

I mean, I personally would say he's questioning his orientation, but that's all you can really take from it.

Also, I think it's a real dickhead thing to ask your friend for a blow job while they pretend you're someone else. Like, WTF?

[slatyb]

Not a normal thing for straight dudes. I think he's either bisexual or gay but isn't ready to admit it, even to himself. It seems like a pretty selfish request -- does he think he's doing you a favor?

[JustinTheGreat]

Yeah it sounded like it.

[ZionOrtov]

Well, psychologically, he said it correctly, you don't have to like the opposite sex, to utilize sexual aspect's of them for pleasure.

Although it wouldn't be appealing to me, or as I see it them.

Sex is sex, and a blowjob, is a blowjob.

[ZionOrtov]

It sound's like he was trying to exploit you.

[MysteriousFlower]

Did you do it? No that is at least bisexual or full fledged not out of the closet gay. He could of picked up a chick or something.

[JustinTheGreat]

No i didn't do it. i said maybe another time

[deshawn78]

have you done it yet?

[Cateyes123]

I don't really think a heterosexual guy would be cool having another guy do that unless he wouldn't be able to have sex again like having a lifetime prison sentence. He's most likely bisexual.

[Patriotscheat]

He's not gay, i myself got bj and had intercourse with a man ( I was the dominant one) and i consider myself straight as a line. BUT! i prefer and love women for sure..

[Patriotscheat]

Good looking people are attracted to other good looking people. It's simple.. curiosity however did play a big role in all this.

[MimTcgraw]

Either you like WOMEN or MEN or BOTH or CONFUSED!!!

[Patriotscheat]

Fuck it, guess i'm bi

[Tacticious]

Yeah sounds at least bi-curious. No, as a straight man I've never wanted a male to give me head. Not anti, I just like me some vajayjay.

[BumbleDeev]

He's either in the closet or he is really really desperate for a blowjob. I think it's the first one

[RockGuitarist1]

I'm straight. I would never, ever consider allowing another guy do something like that to me.

[MissIndependent111]

He just wanted try it out. Many straight guys won't mind getting head from guys if they are the receiver and the right situation arises.

[jjmarvin]

I'd say not normal for straight. I wouldn't. Then again i wouldn't just ask a girl who was my friend to blow me either. That kind of stuff makes things awkward and it doesn't show respect to friends.

[JustAnotheGuy]

That is not normal for a straight man, but you need to make sure he's mature enough not to just be pulling some messed up prank on you.

[nakedalligator]

I'm guess if he closed he's eyes and when't through with it; it would not be as enjoyable as he imagines.

[Lovestar0450]

Maybe he's bi curious. He might just wanna try something new.

[Anonymous]

I don't think it's normal (it's not something I would want anyway) but I guess it's not that different from a straight guy using a fleshlight, he may actually be gay or bi but it's completely feasible that he's straight.

[Opinion Owner]

Of course it's no more polite than asking a straight female friend for a blow job.

[landlet]

errr, he's totally gay or bi
but I'd stay away from that guy if I were you, sound dishonest

[JoeCensored]

Close your eyes and they feel the same so I'm not that surprised.

[cyberpunkspike]

Well, I'm not sure what normal means, but it's within the bounds of humans sexuality sure. Is it hetro? No, not really, you are correct to be wondering if he's exclusively hereto. I'd say he's no doubt bi-curious.

[Resoglass]

Nah, he's totally straight. It's only gay if the balls touch

[Allforit]

He's not straight. (No offense to him or anything) But that wouldn't cross a straight guys mind.

[NerdInDenial]

He is curious. Don't know what you are until you try it once.

[MoreThanACookie]

yea... well he is either gay, bi or really fucked up...

[Anonymous]

I have heard of this before, some guys don't care since it's not them doing it, they don't consider it gay but also there are some straight guys that only suck straight guys too and are not attracted to men, it's kind of bi-sexual to me though

[Jayded1]

He likes guys. I am straight and no, just no. Maybe he is Bi.

[annoyymouse]

Sounds like he may be conflicted. Or he just wants someone to give him a bj

[93stepsawayfromhome]

Some men wouldn't care if a man was on the giving end if they received. Maybe he just wants to know what it's like.

[Anonymous]

It's possible. It sounds like he just wants oral and is using you.

[Anonymous]

Wow sorry but sounds like your "friend" is an asshole...

[JustinTheGreat]

Why do you say that?

[Opinion Owner]

He wants to use you for a blowjob, says hell close his eyes and pretend its a chick... sounds like a jerk to me.

[jjmarvin]

Yea who says that to a friend?

[jakeofalltrades]

Either he is secretly gay or bi, or he is really horny

[Evil_romantic]

Who knows?

Maybe he just wanted his dick sucked right then, and did'nt care how.

[MimTcgraw]

Still gay unless its a woman!

[Evil_romantic]

@MimTcgraw Naw man, you can cross your fingers and it ain't gay... Duhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

:))

[MimTcgraw]

Oh... OK now that I know that loophole... Can I have a BJ dude?

[apple24]

@MimTcgraw whoa! that was un-called for!

[Evil_romantic]

@MimTcgraw Naw, i'm not a giver lol

But you can give this guy's homie some knob, just keep them fingers crossed!

[MimTcgraw]

hahaha! This post is getting too intense!
I'm gonna try hard to never be in a situation with my fingers crossed!!! That's all thanks to you guy!!!

[MimTcgraw]

@apple24 Yeah! Exactly! It is un called for a straight guy to ask another guy for a BJ!!
WTH planet am I living on?

[Evil_romantic]

@MimTcgraw Yeah, i was just snapping back guy. No insults intended.

[Anonymous]

He's gay, no straight man would ask for head from another guy.

He's definitely Gay!

[mr90skid]

He's lowkey gay. Did you dome him up?

[JustinTheGreat]

nope

[orphan]

he wants his dick sucked by a mouth.

bout it.

[the_rake]

bicurious

...

or maybe it was a joke?

[JustinTheGreat]

I'm pretty sure he was serious

[Ihav2fart]

He could be bi curious

[jmmmfi2]

Every part of this is gross

[Bigdaddyslim]

Be a good friend and suck his dick

[Anonymous]

Guy is so horny he wants ANY mouth on his dick

[chrisbigman]

He's weird. Stay away from him.

[MimTcgraw]

He's gay dude no f*****g doubt

[squeelz]

He's gay to

[canadianLAD]

he seems to be gay