I been hooking up with this guy and the other night I gave him bj but didn't cum Is it me?

[Anonymous]

[anylolone]

Nope, it isn't.

Seriously, why do you have this kind of mentality? you can't make people cum outside of raping them into the point the defense mechanism of orgasm to protect the body kicks in.
Outside of that (or weird shocks on the spine) you can't make people cum, they make themselves cum.

[J9inva]

No. I have a hard time cumming from a blow job. It feels so good but the only time I can cum is when she sucks me for a while then really go up and down really fast, imitating sex. Or after a while we’ll switch positions and I get on top and fuck her mouth

[oralqueen]

some guys struggle to cum from getting head but if you need tips lemme know

[Asker]

@oralqueen yes please

[oralqueen]

1. Use mouth and little to no hands
2. Eye contact
3. Slow and steady is better than going needlessly fast
4. Focus on using your tongue, especially beneath the base of his cock
5. The tip is way way more sensitive than anything else, so don’t make deepthroating the core part of your blowjob
6. Make him feel relaxed by talking during the short few seconds breaks you take. For example “babe, you feel so good”, etc.
7. If you’re comfortable swallowing, keep going when you find the spot that’s getting him over the edge and don’t move until he cums.
8. Bonus: show him your cum filled mouth.
9. Swallow and see the joy on his face.

[chrissykerdock]

wow you really know how to give a blowjob and seem to love it too... very impressed and your so young

[oralqueen]

@chrissykerdock its my fave thing lol

[chrissykerdock]

mine too... so we both have oral fetishes in that way.

[oralqueen]

@chrissykerdock yup i guess so hahah

[chrissykerdock]

have fun with it babe and enjoy it!

[slatyb]

It's not you. Many men cannot climax from oral sex alone, at least not while being passive. That doesn't mean we don't like it.

Still you can ask him if there was something you could have done to make it better.

[NyceGuyFinishingLast]

I don't know how you could think any of us would know if it was you considering we know nothing of your skills or what the guy's enjoyment level is. You should be asking him since you know how well you performed but you don't know if he enjoyed it.

[HairyPoppins]

He either doesn't like blow jobs or doesn't get turned on by you. You have to ask what he likes and do that instead. Never assume what a man is into it will only lead to questions like these.

[Asker]

Okay, how do I know if he just don’t like blow jobs or he is not turn on by Me

[spartan55]

No, many guys have a tough time coming from a blowjob. Or maybe you don't give a good blowjob.

[matthonker]

You probably have small tits or no ass. As a guy, I’ve literally had this happen to me 3 or 4 times and usually that was the explanation

[dudeinohio]

Not likely your fault or anyone's fault. It happens sometimes.

[Twalli]

It's sometimes hard for guys to cum during a blowjob

[Avicenna]

No, that's nothing to worry about

[Iron_Man]

Why don’t you get married

[Asker]

Lol why don’t you?

[Iron_Man]

I would like to but all this coronavirus stuff plus I’m very picky and I don’t want to meet bar girls

[2021biguy]

No, it's not you.