Escort numbers show on my husbands phone bill for the past year and a half. They are mostly different numbers and he denied calling them. Advice?

[Anonymous]

Also, he text back in forth with the last number for an hour and none of the calls are more than 2 minutes long. Sometimes there are multple numbers called within an hour span and some of the numbers link to ads on backpage. He says someone must have spoofed his number to make the calls and text messages.

[Curiousboredguy]

I would have to assume it is a lie unless he disputes the bill and is receives a refund. At this point you have a trust problem. When you say escorts, do you mean phone sex or prostitutes? Phone sex isn't such a big deal but still a concern that he is not happy with his sex life. Prostitutes, well, I would try to catch him.

[Asker]

There are no charges for the calls and they are mostly 1 minute long, so I don't think there is phone sex and I would presume the women are prostitutes. I called the latest one and she messaged me askING how long I was looking for.

And if he believes someone is using his number he has no concern for that. Cell phone company told me they would only show on bill if they came from his phone.

[Curiousboredguy]

I tend to think he is lying. If you don't trust him and he won't be honest, then I think you may have to catch him to get him to confess. I personally can't understand working it out under those circumstances without the trust. I guess I don't have any good suggestions. If you can't communicate I don't know what you can do.

[Asker]

Right now I'm trying to get through Christmas, we have a 9 year old daughter.

I guess I'm trying to find some way to believe and hoping someone can help back up his story of someone else using his phone number.

[Curiousboredguy]

It is possible. It just seems unlikely. I am sorry. I hope it works out well for you. I mean maybe a dumbass guy friend thought it would be funny to use his phone. Guys do stupid things lije that to each other sometimes

[AustinMan]

While it certainly is possible to spoof a phone number, I would suggest that you tell him you'll let go pursuing it but he has to promise he won't do it again. How's your marriage? Are you both happy? How's your sex life? Is he kinky?

[Anonymous]

:( if it persists, you both need to have a serious conversation to figure out why he is doing this and hopefully you guys can work it out :)

[Pyrofox]

then where are the recipts and then back track it. If he really didn't do it then he shouldn't know any of their names if you can get them.