I led him on and I didn't mean to.

[Anonymous]

My best guy friend and crush knew I liked him. He flirted with me and I flirted back. I thought he liked me. He was just using me to get over his ex girlfriend and feel better about being single (his exact words). After I found this out, my friend told me that another guy liked me. Normally I wouldn't have even looked at the guy in that way but he was flirting with me calling me pretty and beautiful all the time and I felt so good about myself so I flirted back a little, maybe a little too much. The point is I led him on and I didn't mean to. It's just not like me to do that. I really needed to feel good about myself and my friend warned him he wouldn't have a chance (not like I'm too good for him or something but because he's uhm...let's leave it at not my type at all or even like the guys I might make an exception for.) How big of a bitch am I? Please be honest. I hate feeling like crap because of what I did but a lot of people say not to feel so bad.

[papasmurf]

You know you're not a bitch or at least the seriousness of the word. Remember this is still a a serious word no matter how much we throw it around these days. Stop flirting with him, which iam assuming you did. Life goes on. But what I'm getting from your description of him is that he's not very good looking. So you might have screwed up how he reads signs in the future. But no worries, sucks that you got played by the other guy, but I can''t feel all that bad since you turned it around.

[anon8]

I don't see what you did wrong. Did you intentionally lead him on? It could have been that the guy read too much into it and assumed you were leading him on, but really weren't. Don't believe everything you hear. Also, sometimes people accuse other people of "teasing" and doing other stuff when that person is just upset they didn't get any.