Why do guys find "feminist" women unattractive?

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PlayerOne · Accepted Answer

I just hate the idea of it, really. Like, yes. Equality is good and fair and really just an "idealistic" perspective. People have let this go way out of hand. Woman should have the same legal rights, but natural order has to be maintained. Women used to be glorified and were blessed with natural selection. They would choose their mate. Woman have always been the ones with the choice. And now they are turning tables so that it's ok for women to be whores and they should not be disrespected for abusing the privileges provided to them by nature. Women used to have to be courted to even get their name. Now, you are fucking them without ever needing to know anything about her. I'm all for being progressive, but you people are doing it all wrong.
In brief. I just hate the idea of "feminism" because I believe it is the opposite of progress. It is total anarchy in disguise.

hellionthesage · Accepted Answer

Because feminist women whant to act more masculine while demanding men stop acting masculine. They are hypocritical and generally speaking hate men since they literally blame men for everything wrong with the world. The idea of being with a woman who does not wish to act like a woman who tells me how evil I am because I have a penis, that she does more then me that she can do no wrong and I no right, if she tells me how she isn't here to please me (ironic since if a man said that to her it wouln't go over so well) and therefore was under no obligation to try and make me happy meanwhile still forcing me to function under my traditional gender role while she doesn't have to do anything. . . thats why. Its not a very pretty picture. No one wants to be bullied and treated like shit espececially by there significant other.

Reallio · Accepted Answer

Because feminazis are more open about "feminism", therefore a lot of guys associate and mix up "feminists" and "feminazis". Feminazis are the epitome of unattractive women for men, as they constantly bash men, degrade them and often demand things that don't even stand for feminism (def: equality for men and women). And not to mention, most feminazis are disgusting, bitter, old, women who can't get laid because they either a. don't take care of themselves due to bad relationships, b. don't know how to properly take care of themselves or c. have shitty self esteems. Again, feminazis are more often in the spotlight, so people confuse feminism for "feminazism". Hope this clears things up.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I am actually against feminism so I may know why guys don't want to date a feminist. From my experience most feminists are very uptight and get offended by pretty much everything. They just don't know how to take a joke. They constantly spew lies, false/outdated statistics, hate, sexism, racism, and hypocrisy. Feminists are some of the biggest hypocrites I have ever seen. Basically, they're just unpleasant to be around.

BellePepper · Accepted Answer

Honey, if a guy can't stand the idea that you deserve the same amount of respect and the same treatment as him, HE IS NOT GOOD ENOUGH FOR *YOU*. I cannot stress this enough.

Mesonfielde · Answer

I'd way it's because they have a tendency to believe that any kind of sexual activity is somehow "demeaning", so they stress about that instead of just having sex like normal people.

That and feminazis tend to be very rabid towards men just because they are male. It's like the female red pill.

Giacomanzo · Answer

It depends on what you mean by "Feminist".
If you are talking about 50s feminism, who wants the same rights as well as the same obligations as men than I don't care.
If you are talking about those today's feminists whose most problems are actually personal issue, who think that "starerape" is actually a thing, who claim the 77 cents is actually a thing, who say there is no such thing as double standards when it comes to crimes and such things and who say "VICTIMISATION IS MORE USEFUL THAN EMPOWERMENT!", I don't find them unattractive. I find them REPULSIVE.

heavensgift2girls · Answer

The feminazi are far more active within the feminist movement and have hijacked it. This problem is made worse by the fact that most women that identify as feminist but aren't actually a feminazi have only grown up hearing about female issues, so many of them just assume a lot of the false claims made by the feminazi must be true, and don't understand the issues men face. As a result instead of calling out the women that have tainted their movement, they just accuse men for being intimidated or not being able to stand women having equal rights any time a guy says he has a problem with the feminist movement. This makes them sound like the feminazis. While this type of feminist may not want to repress men, they end up siding with the feminazi that do.

Bandit74 · Answer

It just feels like they suck the life out of everything. They're condescending and look for ways to be offended about everything. They are just unpleasant to be around in my opinion. Also some of them are also physically unattractive too. I have noticed a correlation that the loudest most angry ones tend to be the most unattractive while the more moderate ones can be beautiful.

AdamThomas · Answer

Most often they lack a sense of humour. They find a lot of things offensive and are generally over-sensitive and whiney. They often see themselves as victims of everything. They're sometimes. obsessed with showing that they can do what a man can do. All that stuff is annoying.

normalice · Answer

I don't think this is actually the case. I think some men are misled by the media's misrepresentation of feminism as some kind of man-hating crusade and, of course, aren't interested in the sort of girl that adheres to such a philosophy, but most feminists are neither man-hating nor on any type of 'crusade.' And most men are attracted to such women without even being aware that they are feminists.

TheSwedishGuy · Answer

Because they are often extremely hypocritical and try to create issues that don't exist. They claim they are a movement for gender equality, yet they only ever talk about women's issues and never men's issues.
For example it is much easier for a female rape victim to get help than it is for a male rape victim, an issue you rarely hear about. Instead of bringing up that issue they waste time claiming air conditioning is sexist and dumb crap like that.

RandomBritishGuy94 · Answer

Feminist women (those self labelled anyway) tend to be the ones that want all the good parts of equality but none of the bad. They will talk about the pay gap as a reason why men should pay for dates etc...

They aren't worth the time.

If I didn't know they were "feminist" they would still be shitty people.

Homebakedcookies · Answer

Because they're generally very unintelligent people. They're also very obnoxious and selfish. Their values are clearly anti-family, anti-civilisation, anti-democratic and pro marxist. And "their" interests in music, art and literature mainly consists of the weirdest most repulsive shit you can think of.

So that's why men are generally not interested in the beasts known as feminists.

UneasyQuestion · Answer

Because feminist theory rejects critical rationalism, reason, logic and scientific method. It works on unfalsifiable hypotheses and makes claims that are not or can not be corroborated or disproven by repetable methodolicaly sound experimental evidence. It also promotes pseudosciencs like historicism, social constructivism, postmodernism and critical theory. Besides it rejects objective much more scientificaly sound sciences like sociobiology and evolutionary psychology.

Rodismus · Answer

Equality is a good thing to be for, what I understand feminism fights for. There is a vocal minority who say both "I deserve the same treatment as men" and go onto say "I can't do that, I'm a woman"

Sooo, a hypocritical "feminist" is pretty fucking unattractive other than that, no it isn't.

BusinessBasketball · Answer

I believe in progress. The guys that think feminist are unattractive want to go back to a time where women did not have rights. When I find my soulmate, I want her to work, carry her last name if she wants to, and have rights.

AleDeEurope · Answer

Well, feminists tend to be unattractive women, that's why they're feminists. Besides that, it's difficult to find attractive someone that things you're shit XD

FakeName123 · Answer

Man-hating, lack of femininity, obnoxiousness, naivity and/or radicalism.

The_Dude_1 · Answer

I feel like a lot of guys are intimidated by feminist women. Therefore, the attraction isn't there.

LesbianBusinessWoman · Answer

Because they want women to be house wives like cook and clean for them

Melcart23 · Answer

It's because of their mindset. You can look at a girl and they'll call it rape or sexual harassment. They make up problems that do not actually exist (such as pay wage difference). What kind of guy wants to be with a woman like that?

PT1911 · Answer

I've got no problem with a feminist. I've got a problem with her acting like a man and trying to emascilate me.

orphan · Answer

i don't.

takumii · Answer

I am a feminist and I don't find feminist women unattractive.. Unless they are unattractive..

Anonymous · Answer

way too masculine and controlling. I can see it one their faces from miles away. I low equality, but feminist women shot themselves in the foot. there character is so unfeminine to me. I much rather talk to other girls.

Anonymous · Answer

The woman I'm dating described herself as "kind of a feminist." She's an awesome person, and we have boiling hot chemistry, so I definitely find her attractive.

Anonymous · Answer

It has to be the negative look on the world and not trying to make a more positive example for woman

Anonymous · Answer

Because most unattractive women are feminist. They have a chip on their shoulders because they can't find a man so they blame men for everything and degrade women who don't identify as feminist.

Stanley23 · Answer

Yes because they lack feminity and they're ugly looking.

Amydmartin · Answer

Because most 'feminists' don't understand that it's bout equality and take it to an extreme

itsallover · Answer

They're intimidated by them.

Tarvold · Answer

No, I find irrational women unattractive.

Tdieseler · Answer

Do we? Did i miss the memo? whoa

Insignificant16 · Answer

I don't. Does that make me less of a guy?

dev765 · Answer

They are Hitler in disguise.

TruExo · Answer

A girl that won't cook for me. That's unattractive

Anonymous · Answer

Because it's association with unpleasant people.

Anonymous · Answer

Because they are not real women.

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