Signs that a shy guy likes a girl?

[Anonymous]

1) so guys give their msn to a girl they don,t like after 1st time talking?

2) I asked guy why does he stare me and he said he just don,t see well...and after that he apologizes:" I hope you don,t think I am some kind of a perv..i am not..." ( does it mean anything or is he just friendly)

3) Signs that a shy guy likes a girl are ( what?)

Thank you all if you spend some minutes for answering:)

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SORRY! THE HEADLINE SHOULD BE " SOME QUESTIONS"""" sorry about that:) hope you still can help:)

[Anonymous]

:-) I was studying & I looked up to see this guy looking - staring right at me... I was taking a 1 minute study break, at the time, I stretched & looked up to his eyes by accident, & he was like "i'm not staring at you, I'm just spacing out'". lol All the while he is (seemingly) looking directly at me, straight into my personal space -you know?..

But then I remembered how I am when I look out into space for break a while... So, I gave him a 'get out of jail free pass', tho I was suspicious.,..

He got more self conscious when I acted normal, I guess my non suspicious response made it more questionable, then if I had flirted & said I knew he was staring at me, lol

Anyways, he was insistent about it not being personal... Every time he sat with me after that day.

He kissed me a weak later, & we've been going out for 9 months ^^

[Asker]

So your point is that the guy I like also lied?:D

[Opinion Owner]

My point is that guys say things that are true, but not necessarily WHEN they say it, or in the way they imply.. i.e. He could be staring at you cause he does not see well, & he needs to STARE harder than someone else, cause he WNTS to look at YOU.. He never said he did not want to look at you, he said he has problems seeing you. :-)

My bf, said ' I am not staring at you, just spacing out' he was not when he SAID that,but he was right before,& he could have spaced out in 359* other anges ^

[Asker]

Hahah:D got ya;) thanks:)

[Opinion Owner]

No prob - good luck!

[Nijababe99]

if a guy did all that then smiled he probably just wants to be your friend / he lieks you but doenst want you to assme he is a stalker lmao =] nD shy guys liking you will most likely smile and try to get your attention wathc to see if his frined look at you a lot he probably told on of his frined ...good luck keep me posted xD

[Nijababe99]

Assume* watch* friend*

[golfjumper]

If you want to know if a shy guys likes you, walk up to him and ask him a couple questions, starting with:

"How are you today? I'm waiting for a friend..."

He'll answer something like, "Fine, and you"?

Then answer "Good. I've actually wanted to come up and talk to you for a while, you seem interesting. What kinds of things do you like to do for fun?"

This is where he will either talk a lot about himself or not. After he is done, look to see how much he asks you about what you like to do and report back :) Then we can have more answers to how things went.

Don't forget to include his age - very important.

[Ephram]

1) Why would a guy give their MSN to a girl they don't like? Unless you asked for them and they didn't feel like being rude to you and saying no. But if they willingly gave it to you without you having to ask for it, then it means for sure that they're cool with you.

2) It means he was making an excuse, and he was actually looking at you because he thinks you're pretty.

3) If he blushes or looks down when you look at him, he probably likes you. Also if he gets all nervous when you're around him, he definitely has an interest in you.

[Asker]

So you think that it,s not possible that he doesn,t see so good?

[Ephram]

Well it's a possibility... a very RARE possibility. xD I mean, if he really doesn't see so well, why would he be looking right at you? And why oh WHY doesn't he put on his glasses, or at least some contacts?

If he has problems seeing from far away, how does he pay attention in class if he can't even read what's on the board? :p

He's just shy and trying to make an excuse of why he was looking at you.

[Asker]

Yeah...very true.......because after that he said " I hope you don,t think something bad of me..i am not a perv..."

[Ephram]

He's lying, though. All guys are pervs. Even I'm a perv! :'D

But... girls are even more pervs than guys! I dare you to deny it!!! Buahaha! >:D

[Asker]

Hahahha:D still....he indimidates me...HE IS SOOO POPULAR!!!! it,s like...i don,t know hahaha.D

[Ephram]

Naw! :3 Even popular kids can be shy sometimes. Especially around the girl they really like. Just go to him and start asking him some questions. Try asking things about what he likes to do, and stuff. :p Eventually he'll open up and start asking you things, and won't be so shy anymore. Maybe he'll even ask you out.

[Asker]

We talked anout an hour in msn.....about muuusic and stuff:)

[Anonymous]

yes, he might try to avoid eye contact...fixing his wrist watch...different people have different behavior, but you will get the idea that he is nervous with you around him...of course some guys become nervous even if they don't like that girl, but chances are they get super nervous and tense when they are around with a girl they like

[Anonymous]

just go near him, he will become self conscious...will try extremely hard not to look stupid...will try to look here and there, even if there is nothing interesting to look at

[Asker]

Like avoding and eye contacyt also like...Looking around....looking his stuff and all?