What does it mean if my ex says he misses my company?

[Anonymous]

What does it mean if my ex says he misses my company?

what about if I slept with him and he kept kissing me and after he kept staring at me

he never used kiss me when I was with him during sex but he did today loads f times.

i have told him how I feel and he said to me when I told him he will prob get attached to me again with sex,.he replied- "maybe,don't you wanna find out what's going to happen?

i text him when I got home and said is there a chance of us getting back in future and he said no, its just fun for now. I asked what he meant and he said he wants to see how it goes for a bit as in being friends and see if he changes his feelings for me. I said I don't want to get hurt or messed around and he replied saying that he won't mess me around at all. if he feels its going stay friends then that will be that. and he won't put me through **** again

[midntpssg]

simple. two things. 1. no offense but you're really oblivious, he just wants sex, and knows its easy to get with you because you still have feelings. 2. if he has any feelings for you, its just the thought of you that he misses, or what you two have been through, if would really like you and care he would say yes, maybe there is something in the future to look forward to. but that's not the case. he just wants sex and misses the thought of you. I'm not trying to be harsh in any way but I'm a blunt person and I say things straight to the point based on what's wrote. if you want to try with him, id stop all sexually activity, and see what happens emotionally. if he does like you he will stick around if not then you'll see what he was really after. good luck. and always take a night to think about things before making any decisions that will make you happy or unhappy. good luck

[computergeek762]

I agree

[Anonymous]

He is using you for sex and has some emotinal feelings for you. He probably want to sleep with other people and use you on the side. If you are happy with an friends with benefits or open relationship great if not find someone else who want a comitted relationship

[Anonymous]

PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE don't have sex with him if he wants to be friends for now. I had an ex that wanted to the same thing and I thought I could handle it and I was miserable every single freakin day! Not knowing which way he is leaning will kill you specially if you still love him. This NEVER works to get back together. The best thing you could do is to have little contact with him so he will miss you and want you back, and if he doesn't then his loose.

[cookies33]

most guys are direct and this one sounds like he is too. he told you he didn't want to get back with you, and it sounds to me like he wants to have his cake and eat it, too. :( sorry. I don't wanna sugar coat anything because I've been there and I had to put my foot down and I didn't like to see myself continue hurting. I wouldn't have sex with him again. If he wanted to get back with you, he would say so and his actions would tell you.

[Reeses-pieces777]

he wants to get benefits without a relationship. be glad you're not with a guy who's going to put you through sh*t again. we all need to reflect after a relationship, what went wrong and what was good, so you can improve for the next one.

[Euro-Raver]

It means "hey I haven't had sex in a while and want sex" - "no I don't want a relationship so lets just have sex for now" "Sure...yea...we can err...see if it 'works out' after that (pfft in your dreams).

[hsinger]

I wouldn't stay with this guy. Get a new bf. I think this guy just wants you for sex, like he said. Sounds like there might be another woman

[lvax06]

he misses the sex, but wants to keep his options open.

[psyche_gurl1]

He is using you to fill the void he feels being single. RUN NOW! Get away and as fast as you can!

[VeinsofPessimism]

if he really wants to be with you he will find ways other than sex to get you back.

it's too risky, you're only going ot end up hurt. words don't mean anything. you really shouldn't give him another chance.

[NothingLastsForever]

F**ked and chucked.

Simple.

Get rid of him.

[coolgurl09]

he still fancies you.

[Anonymous]

he wants to hook up