My ex boyfriend came out and told me that he still had very strong feelings for me still and that he misses me a lot (via text). I have a new boyfriend now... but he still seemed eager to share that information with me. He may have been drinking... but I'm not certain...
But the thing is... he hasn't spoken to me since.. I've tried to talk to him about it... and haven't gotten a response... is he regretting what he said to me given the situation ? I still have have some feelings for him...but I'm happy in the relationship I'm in right now.
Did he actually mean it? or was it just a weak moment? Id really like to discuss it with him but he seems embarrassed or something or maybe he just feels stupid since I am in a new relationship and decided to cut off contact again... there's so many possibilities...
what do you guys think?
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I was recently in an identical situation. I think when you miss someone, and want them back it can be really hard to figure out what to do. From a guy's perspective the only reason to stay in touch would be in the hope that in the event that you're relationship status changes you might have a second chance.
I told her how I felt, it hurt a lot having to face that my second chance may never come. Even if it did how much time would I waste hurting over it, how many opportunities am I passing up? I cut off all contact, time to let it go. Which really upset her. Actually if you could explain that to me I would appreciate it. If you are with someone new and like it how upsetting could it actually be that an ex-boyfriend who cared a lot about you as given up? Weird for me, cause when I'm with someone new that I really like I couldn't care less about my ex's.
And even to this day she still try's to contact me, and we chit chat online but only after not speaking to her for a while. I'm still not comfortable talking to her, even online. Funny thing is the more I talk to her the more I realize that I'm not even sure I like her as a friend.2
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