I miss her and I regret dumping her.

[Anonymous]

ok well me and my ex girlfriend recently broke up (last night) :( I dumped her because it seemed like she forgot about me and I barely got to talk to her. I was suppose to move to vancouver with her where she is living now. I miss her and I regret dumping her. I tried talking to her again and now she's just ignoring me what do I do? I started the conversation by saying can we talk she responded what's to talk about. I told her. Now she's ignoring me what does the silence mean?

[Anonymous]

Since you just broke up with her, she is probably still pretty upset or hurt about the situation. When I'm hurt/angry, I don't even have enough energy to talk to my man. After about one day (2 days max), then I will feel comfortable talking to him again. Try calling again tomorrow.

I don't think you should wait a week though. That's really too long, especially if you broke up with her and want her back.

But, do you really want her back? Didn't you think of the pros/cons before breaking up with her? It seems like she wasn't giving you the care/attention you needed. Is that someone you want to be with? There are plenty of other girls who will treat you like you deserve to be treated. Don't just think there is only one girl.

[QueenBeatris]

"because it seemed like she forgot about me and I barely got to talk to her" so now she's ignoring you? She should have made you feel more important,breaking up may have been a drastic move unless you had already mentioned how you hate that she isn't keeping more in touch,if you did tell her this before and she continued doing it,than you did the right thing.

[Asker]

i didn't though I jsut made a sudden decision

[KiaLuv]

Why did it seem like she forgot about you and didn't care? Maybe she was having issues she didn't want to or was scared to talk about. I think you hurt her. Especially since she's unwilling to reply. Why didn't you move to Vancouver as well? If you miss her, tell her you miss her. If you regret dumping her, tell her. I don't think she knows and is confused.

[KiaLuv]

Don't just ignore her for a while. The fact that you said can we talk and she responded to it probably means she's hoping t get back with you.

[prophecy]

get real, buddy.

this was a long distance situation, right? yeah. you're history.

you said it yourself "because it seemed like she forgot about me and I barely got to talk to her;" that means she's lost her interest in you and you two were over long time ago.

she was probably very relieved when you dumped her because there was no need for her to do that.

get over her, it's over. move on. find a new one. this time a bit closer, yeah?

[martyfellow]

It's only been a few hours. She's too upset to talk coherently, in all likelihood. Don't try communicating for at least a couple of days! That will give you time to think things over more clearly as well.

[Tripz]

Dude Silence is Golden, Don't talk to her for a week or 2 and see if she misses you, if she does she will text back... if not then find a new girl! There are so many nice girls out there waiting to meet mister perfect, you may be the one!

[Asker]

ok so just not contact her for 2 weeks and if she misses me she'll contact me so silence is good?

[Tripz]

2 weeks at most, it shouldn't take but at least a week if not a couple days more.

[Asker]

what if I told her I had a girlfriend and I rubbed it in her face ? and she told me that she was gonna give me a final chance till I started telling her what's so much better about my gf

[Tripz]

I'm assuming she hasn't gotten back to you yet

Telling her you have a girlfriend won't do much but push her farther away

What I would do is just start to move on, hit the clubs and go meet some girls yo.

By the time you meet a girl that peaks your interest, she will text you back, and if she hasn't by then. Enjoy your brand new relationship.

[Doug8796]

Don't apologize so fast.. If you want to get back with her give her a few weeks to miss you.. That way it might actually work for the better.