This situation is strange. I have never met this woman and we interact only online. She is a content creator and it is not adult content
From the start she has told me she misses me and that she likes me. I initially told her I don’t know her because I thought it was weird and I ignored her. Anyway I was longing for a connection so I started to talk to her and support her in her social media endeavours
The thing is - I have social media and I post about romance and love and just general communication because I like this kind of art. I have shared text messages that my ex has sent me to illustrate things such as breakups and longing for love and the like. My ex is cool with this and me and my ex are just simply close friends
However when it comes to this content creator she is incredibly jealous about any affectionate words my ex shows me. I posted on my Instagram a quote she sent and the content creator sent me a what the f is this in direct message
the thing is - I did have feelings for the creator so I told her but this kind of behaviour has always been happening from the creator. I am just curious can anyone explain what on earth is going on - this has been happening for a long long time say about 9 months now
one time she was even on holiday and I posted quotes from my ex and other women on my feed and she started telling me how much she missed me and it seemed to me that she didn’t want me to say leave her but we are not even a couple
do not worry I am fine with all of what is happening I am just curious as to what others think. Everything is at a distance and she has no real way of say having a genuine connection with me
she has even said that one day we will get a tattoo together and we will always be together but I have not even said to her hey let’s get together now
someone help please
What Girls Said
Being close friends with your ex will always be a red flag for most women and a beige flag for the rest.
It's cool you can still get along, but it's always a little threatening particularly if she's figuring out her place in your life. Statistically, Tons of people do go back to their ex, and while you may not harbor feelings, she may be leaning on you for emotional support in a way that hampers your emotional availability for a future girlfriend (of course you would never notice it until someone specifically calls you out on actions and patterns).
I do think she's a little clingy early on, particularly if you've not made your interest well known. That's more a flag on her end.
She’s very clingy. You are right. At the very least she expects me to be single until she is ready for a relationship and I’m not going to do that
If I meet someone else and fall in love with someone else then she has lost her chance. She has a lot of red flags which is why I keep my distance from her a lot