Ex unblocked me on WhatsApp. Why would he?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend, now ex, and I got into an argument all because he had broke the agreement we made. This further destroyed the trust within the relationship. Nov 6 we had blocked each other until now without PROPER closure of the relationship to see where our relationship was headed. I had no contact with him for 3 weeks now. But during the 2nd week, I did call him once in private. I was really missing him so badly and I needed closure as I wanted to be with him. He sounded like he missed me, and was happy to hear from me and told me he was going to call me later that day since he was working atm, but he didn't. So I went back to blocking him as I kind of re-evaluated my deciscion of getting back with him and recall all the thing he did to hurt me. Plus the fact that he didn't call me that same day hurt. as it shows i was not a priority to him. However, he call the day after about 3x time and call even in private to find himself block (my phone tells me when an attempted call was made when a person is block) and then he texted me that he guess he'll just delete my number. The next day after these attempted calls, he call once more in private, but I ignored it. Then just yesterday I see that he unblocked me on whatsapp as I could see his profile pic, but he can't see my profile since he's block. In total is been 3 weeks of not seeing him and ignoring him. I'm really trying to move on for he has cheated on me numerous of times, he isdeceptive and manipulative and has hurt me so much. I just don't understand why can't he erase me for good, so that it can be easier for me to move on.

[xsashax]

The fact that he even cheated on you shows that you aren't even on your mind. He's fucking another girl and the whole time all he's thinking about is this other girl and her vag. He obviously doesn't care. He only cares now because he has no other girl. He's bored.
I think you should ignore him and move on. He's holding you down. You need someone in your life that makes you bring yourself out. That makes you laugh and smile. He obviously doesn't do this. I mean, he cheated on you.. MORE THAN ONCE!! If my ex boyfriend blocked me.. I'd be pissed. He is even trying to get you pissed off and hit your buttons.. you have to show him that you don't care. Don't answer his calls or texts. Move on. You need to find someone else. Even if it's not at the second, be with your girlfriends. Have fun. He's bringing you down. That's how you want to spend your life? I've been here before. I've been slapped by my (ex) boyfriend. Even cheated on. And once I moved on I was like holy crap there's soo many other guys out there why haven't I left faster? What do u have to loose? Your a grown woman. You probably have a huge heart. Guys are clever but don't fall for their words

[Asker]

I know. I'm starting to have doubts with evergreen he has said to me. He has said he wanted me to move in, marry me, and have my children. I like reading things like this because it makes me more angry. I do have a huge heart for I looked past his flaw. He has done so much shit to me. I can't believe I cleaned his entire apartment because I said were going to start fresh after he cheated, I have done this in 3 occassion, to see other girls hair on the floor and it hurt.

[Asker]

With everything*

[xsashax]

This is the exact thing that happened to me. I cleaned his whole apartment, closet, I even slept over from time to time and then to see stuff that isn't mine and a used condom that isn't ours because we DONT use condoms because I'm on birth control.. it was messed.

[xsashax]

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[xsashax]

He told me he wanted to marry me, have 3-4 kids, I met his entire family and extended family etc and then to be betrayed... like I'm a good person and don't deserve that. And neither do u. You didn't cheat on him, you cleaned after him and even trusted him that you'd have a fresh start. That's cold hard unconditional love right there. But just remember, would he do that for u?

[xsashax]

You gotta have self-respect :) Your strong and sorry for the spam :) !!

[Asker]

It's Okay. Thanks. I have put my foot down time and time again. I told him that that's one of the reason he lose good people in his life. When all those good people are gone, you're left with the bad ones or in isolation. His biggest fear is loneliness, not being accepted, or being love. I can see right through him. But I'm not going to continue being with someone who doesn't want to help himself, because if i do, he'll continue to hurt me or anyone who get close to him. He's a grown man. 35 years old... he should know better. Anyways, thanks for helping😊 I'll check out the video.

[silencemylove]

it's not him it's you. if your really done with him and through. there would and could be nothing on earth that would make you care if he text or calls you. in order to move on you need to have a one on one with yourself. don't b. s yourself into thinking your done. if your done there's no calling him or missing him. otherwise your wasting time because there a chance you'll go back. don't blame him for you not being able to move on. good luck love.

[MadeInAmerica]

Seeing as he cheated on you numerous times and was manipulative and deceptive it should be very easy to move on from someone who seems to be a complete loser. Don't give him any power by wondering what he is doing. Just continue to block and ignore him and try not to give him a any kind of thought.

[Asker]

You're absolutely right. But why did he unblock me in whatsapp? That's the thing. What is he thinking?

[MadeInAmerica]

Who knows who cares. Again don't think about it, or he wins. Just stay the course. Just another way to control you. Just do you.

[Anonymous]

Why does he have to erase you from his life for you to move on? You erase him from your life to move on. Stop checking if he unblocked you & tell him to stop texting you. Simple as that. If you tell him to stop, he'll stop.

[Asker]

Quite obviously you didn't read. Don't answer if you're not going to read✌

[_HimigNgKalayaan_]

he probably just want to clear his block list