Sleeping with her for the first time

Question

my girlfriend and I will be going on a trip next week and we'll most likely be sleeping together(no sex), and I'm kinda nervous about it. is there anything I should know before hand? and I'm of a rough sleeper I tend to move a lot in my sleep and wake up in awkward positions

DivaDasiaa · Accepted Answer

if you are going to sleep with her and no sex...then NOTHING TO WORRY ABOUT! I mean, I was expecting you to day that you were gonna have sex or something and needed advice, but this is actually kinda stupid. you guys might end up making out and stuff and you might end up having sex, but if you guys are intentionally...like REALLY sleeping together then you have nothing to worry about. just make sure its a big bed...especially if you sleep in awkward positions then you might wanna work on that...look for some remedies online. there has to be SOMETHING that will help out with that ;) good luck, and I hope this didn't end up sounding rude to you. xoxo

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Don't be nervous. Just be yourself.

Unless she's a really sound sleeper then you probably won't disturb her. It's normal to get settled and comfy before you go to sleep. If you're worried about your tossing and turning disrupting your girlfriend, make sure to try your best to be on your definite side of the bed. Probably not a good idea to cuddle because you don't want to accidentally hit her or push her off the bed. You can't help if you wake up in awkward positions, you're practically unconscious.

Just sleep.

zombiechick5309 · Answer

haha. don't worrry about it. whenever I sleep with people for the first time, I am usually a less active sleeper than normal ( I also move around a lot.) also, if you warn her before hand, and make a joke out of it, she will prepared for you moving around in the middle of the night. however, when ever I sleep with other people, it is my friends. not my significant other.