Why do men like to carry women?

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I am not a skinny girl, nor am I too obese to the point where its unhealthy. I have been told that I am voluptuous or curvy or thick and that's fine. But I have dated guys (its mainly black guys) who insist on carrying me in bed. And obviously they make it through the bed but I do notice their veins popping out of their necks. Lol, I am not complaining.

I am just curious why they insist on doing that instead of just leading me to bed?

lostgirl_searching · Accepted Answer

I'm losing weight though but I weigh 220 and I'm 4'11 my boyfriend loves picking me and it doesn't have to be leading me in bed, he just like picking me up. I don't think it's just black though or maybe I might be reading " it's mainly black guys " because my boyfriend is white. But according to my boyfriend if he met me before I lost my weight ( at 250 ) he could of still picked me up. It's possible they could like it because to them they feel strong? But I don't know he's 6'3 and weighs 220 as well plus he does a lot of farm work and construction lol. All I think about is please don't drop me haha 😂

Kaylyne · Accepted Answer

My husband very often picks me up and carries me to bed. Mind you am 5' 10" and weigh just 140lbs. Of course it does help that he's a fireman. :)

WhaChaChaKing · Accepted Answer

LOL I'm just imaging a guy trying to be all macho and struggling to carry a girl to bed.

1988fido · Accepted Answer

Multiple culprits.

1- caveman instincts
2- trying to turn u on coz some girls do
3- copying porn , monkey see monkey do
4- it is a turn on for us , to fuck the girl in the air or carry her to bed
5- for me personally and am sure am not only one , I find it romantic and good way to show the girl how I am willing to take care of her in bed and in our relationship.

G-Daz · Accepted Answer

My property! I carry my possessions with me

Tdieseler · Answer

maybe you are with some hopeless romantic. cuz last i checked... we don't LIKE to carry women. matter of fact, these days, we don't like to At All. but back then it used to be a symbol of "we got you"... but after we accepted female equality... maybe its time for us to be carried lol...
ok in all seriousness, the people that do are just "trying" to be romantics... probably like me when i tried to be. just calmly tell em to put you down.

Jjpayne · Answer

It adds a little fun. Do you laugh, when he does it? That is for me the charm, to make girls feel special and make them laugh

underdog_boy · Answer

U carry anything u possess or wanna possess... Simple

mits777 · Answer

It is part of the workout :P. Beside joking it is fun that is why they do it, or just want to turn the girl on and get her wet part of the foreplay.

Theodorable · Answer

It goes back to cave times when we used to kidnap women, carry them away, and rape them. Carrying women away is an old tradition.

AudiMagic · Answer

Pick her up carry her to the bedroom throw her gently down on the bed, kiss her,
slowly peel her clothes off and tell her what you’re going to do to her. That's how you establish more sensual masculinity

Negrodamuss · Answer

Well it probably is some sort of kink that makes them feel stronger, more masculine.

KeiranByrne · Answer

Maybe because they think it's a turn on for you.  You'r not complaining, after all.

Anonymous · Answer

Good question, I don't know. Just a preference of those particular guys. I would think they on the minority. Most guys won't carry you I wouldn't think. Not just you, I mean any woman.

DizzyAster · Answer

I dunno, they like it. I like to Judo flip my dates into bed.

Xfitchick · Answer

its macho behaviour :-)

Yanoa_Yanza · Answer

I always liked it, it's so adorable haha

MrAssHat · Answer

Caveman instincts!

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