Is my boyfriend flirting with his male best friend?

[Anonymous]

I went through my boyfriends phone. I know, I know, its bad. But I was just curious and when I secretly watched him put his password in I just did it. He wasn't texting girls but his text between his best friend is really fishy. They were telling each other stuff like "I miss you" and even using heart emoji's. And at one point during September his best friend said was I home and could he come over and "chill" again😉😏? Literally wrote in quotations and with the smirking a winking emoji. I dont know whether that is gay or not but is my boyfriend and his best friend sound like they are fooling around or flirting with each other?

[Anonymous]

That's really not much to go on... The best answer is maybe/maybe not. The whole "chill" thing could be they are gonna go rob a bank, or smoke a joint or go spy on the neighbor girl or cook some meth. It may not have anything to do with being bi.

The whole i miss you thing, well... again could be just goofing around. Because even if they were playing around the whole "i miss you" and heart emjis stuff seems a little out there.

[eyeslikefire]

You've got nothing to worry about hun. My boyfriend used to say worse stuff to his friends and its all in jest; when he was gaming online to his best mate he'd say stuff like "I love you man, I need you here" "you give me more love than gf" etc etc I was always the same room as him.

[QueenBeeJay]

I'd be sketched out. I mean guys do that thing where they pretend to be "gay" around other people, for some reason they find it funny. But obviously if they were just talking to each other... that's weird. Especially the word chill being in quotations.

[lostgirl_searching]

In all seriousness some guys likes to play around with each other. My guy friends does it all the time and sometimes they will hold each other it's funny to them.

[thetundrawolf]

Well, the truth is that men are kind, caring, sensitive ones. We crave each other's affection. I love my best friend. We hug and even hold each other, sometimes. If he's kissing him and doing anal, then yeah, you need to get away. But otherwise, what's your problem?

[GoldCobra]

Unless he changed one of his side girl's names to a guy name, that is kinda weird. Not sure if he's gay.

[ashbosc]

Ask him. If you don't talk to him, it's impossible to know the truth.

[cross98]

that dude is an undercover gay, gurl. you need to leave !!!

[Kookie00]

Yeah girl... he's at least bi... guys don't do that...

[Izzex3]

Or maybe he's talking to a girl and he changed it to his best friend's name?

[coolbreeze2]

why would they be so cryptic though if its his password protected phone... surely if they were up to something they would just say it

[lexiiii40]

Sorry they have a thing going on with each other the best thing to do is talk to him about it

[ambyjustthatchick]

I hate to say it, but to me... sounds like they're messing around. I can't see two straight guys talking like that. I know guys like to joke, but that sounds more serious than comical.

[Asirus]

Or he just knows about you looking through his phoneand does this on purposea

[brewersfan01]

yea, i mean guy friends say some pretty gay shit to eachother all the time but thats weird.

[Anonymous]

Well, maybe he is bi but you should use protection with him. Also, don't get caught up in the dl.

[jessiie06]

They are probably just messing around. Or he's gay

[Theodorable]

This new Bromance shit "no homo" needs to stop.

[Antivenom_x36]

i hug my best friend... not gay
he may not be gay

[Zvck10050]

Your boyfriend is gay

[Beccarex12]

He could be bi

[TheBigGiantHead900]

Your boyfriend gay or bi-sexual

[Anonymous]

I think he and his friend (s) are into China White

[apple24]

gross...):

[August00]

Ya he could be bi.