No girl has ever liked me or loved me, how should I feel?

[sonic241928]

I feel terrible about it, but many people in the world have suffered worse things. How do I get over it?

[sa230e]

It's the classic guy Catch-22. You don't love yourself because women don't love you and women don't love you because you don't love yourself. That was a big concept for me. I realized that being depressed was actually turning women off. It made sense to me in so many ways. The emotions that we feel when we see a stunning woman is what happens to her when she sees a confident man. That was what got me out of it. I realized that I was making my own misery.

It takes a lot of faith, I won't lie. My "aha!" was many years ago but I've always had problems with confidence and it doesn't come easy to me but just learning what I did really made me feel so much better. I don't have all the answers and I don't even pretend to be some guru who can pick up chicks. In fact I'm 23 and I've never had a girlfriend. But now I know why and when you can identify the problem, as long as your working towards the solution, however slow, the future gets brighter. It's a journey and I take it one day at a time and I know I won't be single forever. I know if keep working on myself and eventually I'm gonna have one happy girlfriend!

[ryanontario]

well people have suffered thru worse things than this . but I admit reaching that age and not having a successful relationship is hard and not something a lot of people have been thru so they don't know how to deal with it or what your going thru .

it might help to identify the problems here ( that could be worked on ) and what positives you have to offer as well

[Anonymous]

love you before you depend on the validation of girls

get out more and meet more girls just for fun

[Simple-Simonette]

By loving yourself.

I know it's easier said than done, but it is possible.

[sonic241928]

Much easier said than done, but I do agree it's possible.

[EddyMetal]

That's a trip dude. I'm the same way. No girl has ever loved me, yet I know people are going through worse in the 3rd world countries among other places. I know it can be tough but you get over it after a while. Just give it some time.

[sonic241928]

Good one Eddy, thanks.

[Littletad]

You put too much emphasis on finding a girl. I share your pain though, it's agonizing when some people are born with the idea that everything falls into place when you've got someone in your life. Your not alone in this belief.

Just learn to keep trying. To take your bad experience and learn from it. If you never take risks, you'll never bear any fruit.

[sonic241928]

Thanks man, I think I am learning that.

[mcabc]

Make an approvement of yourself and stop feeling bad for yourself!

[Anonymous]

Step back take a look at the guys in relationships right now, and look at yourself to compare what the differances may be. Most of all stay positive and don't lose hope.