Guys, Is he trying to slowly move in my house?

[NicoleAmy]

Short and simple... The guy I talk to (we aren't in a relationship) stayed the night at my house the past couple nights. And well, he keeps bringing clothes and shoes and leaving them at my house. He even left his toothbrush. His hats lol is he trying to move in on the cool? Lol

[kilowatt04]

Very likely. What is his current living situation like? If he has a really stressful life where he lives, and you and your place offers relief to him, I totally get it. Also if he's selfish and lazy and just wants to take advantage of the situation, but you shouldn't hang out with people like that. Also perhaps he likes you (like wants to be in a relationship with you) and wants to move in for something like that.

[coolbreeze]

He is marking his territory that way if you had other guy's over he is letting them know what is up.

Yeah he is trying to be slick and move everything in little by little. He sees your a great catch and he doesn't want another guy to take you away from him.

[spoonman2014]

Have you done anything with him? Hook up? Kiss etc etc? But yes I'd say he is trying

[NicoleAmy]

Yes, we have done everything. I've known him for 3 years. We are really close actually. He never asked if he could move in. But a lot of things keep appearing little by little.

[spoonman2014]

I think he likes you, is afraid of you rejecting him so he is taking the shoehorn approach. I dated a girl and long story short. We ended because she is immature and wasn't ready to grown up things like work a 9-5 5 days a week. Anyways towards the end I was dropping ideas about slowly moving in and cut it off before it could happen. Before me she dated a guy and he just shoe horned himself into the house and she was with him for 2 years. She didn't like him but didn't have what it took to end and have him move out until she had a valid reason to get rid of him. And that was cheat on her... So your friend could be taking the shoe horn approach

[CyberToothTiger]

Yes , sounds like he wants to move in just make sure
he's not looking just for a girl to use her for money and stuff
my cousin is to soft hearted and she gives in to this one guy
he asks her to buy him beer and he wants different stuff they
never made a day i would mooch off of any girl just not me
i would rather do for a girl than for her to do for me I'm just
a giver by heart.

[Browneye57]

Sounds like you two need to actually have a discussion.

[NicoleAmy]

I didn't want to say anything since he's only been doing this for such a short amount of time. I don't care if he brings his things over if he's staying the night. he's just not taking them he's leaving them. definitely makes me wonder.

[AlienIshboo]

Yes. I know people like this (oddly enough it's how my mother wound up with her current boyfriend... go figure).

That's exactly what's happening. Address it now or it'll only get worse.

[hugs4rentSocialclub]

Hahaha. He's into you so he want to get closer to you by leaving his stuff at your place.

[likitb4istickit]

So it seems. So where'd you find the homeless bum? You really need to watch those strays.

[SuccessfulHornDog]

He's up to something. That might be it or just wants a presence there. Ask him how many toothbrushes he owns across your region

[adamski24]

Sounds like it.
You're going to have to put all his stuff he left in a bag by the front door and tell him to take with him when he goes.

[NourSy]

he seems to be on budget

[Anonymous]

Yes, he wants to live rent-free obviously :P

[NicoleAmy]

Oh no thats not gonna happen lol if that's his plan he's in for a rude awakening

[Opinion Owner]

haha good, make him pay the full rent.

[BeastRB]

Yeah he's sneakily moving in

[John_Doesnt]

Do you have a nice house?

[yilanjor]

:D why do you let him

[es20490446e]

It seems so :P

[Ragnar101]

100%

[Decentguy]

sounds like it

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Yeah, he is.

[lucky1234567]

He already did.