Why did he wink at me? Whats your reason for winking at someone?

[Sevenyoung]

So today i wore my hair down because i was planning on befriending my new-boy crush. I guess i looked pretty with my hair down because as i ran to class this dude whistled at me. Now in maths, he was staring at me so automatically id look, and as i did, he winked at me. It was sort of like he was hitting on me because thats what his face looked like. We're sort of facing each other because our desks are arranged like that. Earlier in history, where he sits at the back left side and i sit on the right side, i was looking back at the teacher at the back, and saw him staring at me like "hey you're hot". And in mas, i caught him looking at me several times. He's becoming friends with my new crush which i hate because this guy is a "naughty" guy, the kind of student that couldnt care less about school, backchats to teachers, skips class. PS i dont like him, im not into guys like him but im just curious. So why do you think he winked at me? And guys, why would YOU wink at a girl?

[Expect2Achieve]

this guy sounds boisterous. don't read too much into anything he does. he may have simply been surprised at your slightly new look and he was responding to it. this is the type of guy who will approach you if he likes you. so don't assume he does unless he asks you out or something. but winks and looks from a guy like this means nothing. -at least it means he's probably not antagonistic towards you. so that's good.

as for him befriending the new guy, you might want to talk to this crush soon. looks like he'll get kind of popular pretty quick. at 14, you think popularity matters lol so it might be easier for you to talk to him before he starts hanging with the bad boy. :)

[Sevenyoung]

Thats what i dont want to happen. This winker guy influenced my old crush and i dont want him to bring the new kid/my new crush to the bad side too.

So i should really make a move but my body just pulls me back. Its frustrating.

[Expect2Achieve]

just remind yourself that all you're trying to do is be friendly to him. you're not trying to marry the guy! just trying to be friendly. when you keep your focus right it will make things much simpler. if he's a friendly guy he will have no problem making a friend with a friendly person. the question is will that friendly person be you? -don't let the bad boy prove himself to be more friendly than you are ^^

[dr_rocketman]

If u were his good friend I would say he was joke flirting with u. He is probably trying to Flirt with you but u Flirt a different way so I don't know all about how normal poeple flirt.

[Sevenyoung]

I am not at all friends with him. he's the kind that skips classes etc
And he's the reason my crush found out i like him

[Sevenyoung]

Im not sure if he thinks i like him and thats why he winked at me
But id like to find out
Because i only look at him because i could see him on my side vision staring

[dr_rocketman]

It's probably like a Belle Gaston situation and he thinks everyone likes him and you don't so he is trying to woo you.

[Sevenyoung]

Why would he woo me?
Nearly everyone hates him (not hate, but not exactly like too)

[dr_rocketman]

Then nvm he probably just likes you.

[Sevenyoung]

So he's winking to flirt?

[dr_rocketman]

I guess some guys do that like my friend Will.

[peachblossomluck]

I think the naughty guy just likes being a showoff and making a spectacle of himself. Your hair probably drew his attention because it's looks pretty that way. Ignore him and speak to the boy you like.

[peachblossomluck]

Thanks for MHO :)

[Sevenyoung]

Thanks for the help!

[LoveJesusLoveGod]

He's up to no decent approach. If a guy is respectfully interested in a girl, he doesn't wink he gets to know her and lets her get to know him in truth and takes it respectfully from there.

[lostgirl_searching]

If he knows you don't like him, he could be messing with you.

[OlderAndWiser]

He was probably just practicing being a guy and acting assertive/aggressive with you/ But he probably selected you to be the target because he thinks you are attractive.

[infamic]

tbh the guy is probably doing it as a self confidence thing, no guy who actually cares about a girl would whistle randomly like, that even if they are a "naughty" guy, cause its risky and almost guaranteed to get a negative reaction.

[Sevenyoung]

Yeah thought so!!

[deathyy]

im sorry this has nothing to do with the question being asked but am i right to assume you are British since you say maths?

[Sevenyoung]

Nah thats how australians say it, but australians do have British history or something so sort of

[deathyy]

oh aight

[realperson02]

it's just a playful thing. some girls have also winked at me. it doesn't mean anything.

[Red88xxx]

He probably finds y somewhat attractive (: but probably just wants to practice flirting with girls

[John_Doesnt]

That guy is trying to get in your pants.

[EndowedPanda]

He may have had Tourette's.

[Anonymous]

flirting