What does it mean when a guy says we shall see?

[rowgirl]

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Ww were supposed to hangiut on Thursday but he called me and told me that something happened ans told me that we would hangout hangout Sunday/Monday and I just asked him about it and he said we shall see in kinda a flirt way. Does that mean yes or no?

[deraz24]

It could mean diff things for dif scenarios like when you're talking to someone and you say you're gonna do something, and the other person is just like we gonna see, meaning they'll believe when they see it or just like we'll see like wait for something to happen

[rowgirl]

He told me a couple of days ago that we would hangout tomorrow/Monday and I just asked him abiut it and he said we shall see

[deraz24]

He don't know what he wants to do it seems like

[deraz24]

If he said it flirty then hopefully he has something planned lol

[rowgirl]

Haha well we had something planned that Thursday but something came up and he had to cancel, so I'm hoping he was just playing hard to get...

[deraz24]

I hope so too lol I just rather not play

[rowgirl]

Yeah, but he's never given me an actual day before, he always just says sometime again, so maybe its different this time

[deraz24]

Only he knows fr I don't know if he has something interfering a job or something but if it is he should just say so instead of doing that, he probably just wanting to make you wonder

[rowgirl]

I'm hoping that's the reason...

[deraz24]

Probably so if he's playful like that, let me know what happens

[ashleighpaige]

Usually the "we shall see / I'll let you know" line means they aren't committing to a solid "yes" in case something else comes up. But they won't straight out say no because they like to keep their options open

[Victoria-Anna]

It usually means " maybe" .. he's unsure just now. He can't make a definite decision

If someone says that to me I take it as a " no" though 😂

[Randyô9]

He's definitely interested but wants to make it look like he doesn't care cause he's just scared to show he cares

[rowgirl]

You think so?

[Randyô9]

I were him, I'd do the same

[rowgirl]

But why?

[Randyô9]

Some guys just try to show they don't care just so the girls wouldn't think that they're after them. But if he didn't give you a reason for cancelling on Thursday, chances are he may be trying to ditch you, but if it was a genuine reason, he is interested. Other than that, Mondays not far.

[rowgirl]

All he said was that something happened and I couldn't come over anymore... but he's the one that said he wanted me to come over in the first place, so I really don't know...

[Randyô9]

Maybe his parents found out or something, or he may have a new friend ( chances are like.1 % ). But I'd say wait till Monday. But if you really love him, just text him, and ask him, trust me, some guys actually want girls to ask them, but wouldn't tell the girl themselves cause they're shy or cause of their ego

[rowgirl]

He lives by himself and we are more of just friends with benefits right now, that's why its so confusing... and I don't want to be too pushy and risk losing him alotogether

[Randyô9]

Text him, ask him, but just once. If he doesn't reply or gives a not-so-satisfactory answer, hold on till Monday.

[spencify]

that "we shall see" if whatever outcome you are looking for comes to fruition

[Sadly_It_Fell_Off]

Usually, I am not sure yet so I will watch some more of your behaviour, listen to some more of your words and then decide. He's 50:50.

[XRabbitHeartX]

He's unsure of where things are going and how he feels. He's likely keeping his options open :)

[ballz69]

he's being playful

[rowgirl]

You think so?

[ballz69]

when I say that that's what I mean. so yeah that would be my guess

[rowgirl]

But do you still think he will want to hangout?

[ballz69]

yes...

[Susann]

It depends on the situation.

[rowgirl]

He told me a couple of days ago that we would hangout tomorrow/Monday and I just asked him abiut it and he said we shall see

[XuR_CXV_115]

omh just another way to see like if he's able to
same meaning if a girl said it

[dudeinohio]

He is avoiding a committed answer.

[Anonymous]

"we will see it by time"