If a guy is speechless when he sees you does it mean something?

[Anonymous]

Long story short I ran into him a long time later. I looked tired.

He was talking to his friend smiling lightly. When he saw me, he just stopped talking. I just narrowed my eyes playfully and continued walking without a backward glance.

[shy_awkward_guy]

High chance that he likes you because I do that personally when my crush walks pass me. My friends know that I like her and would make fun of me and smile when they see her.

[Asker]

The thing is, he was awful to me the last time he saw me. I think the reason, is because he thought I wasn't serious about life or school. In fact I think he thought I wasn't even a student at University.

This time when he saw me, studying at school, he realized I was a student there and his previous behaviour to me was unacceptable.

That could be one of the reasons for his speechlessness

[shy_awkward_guy]

So I guess he regret his action and he wants to apologize.

[Asker]

Does that mean he likes me?

[shy_awkward_guy]

It really defends. What was the reason you gave me above? ^

[Asker]

What do you mean?

I meant, he was a jerk to me the last time I saw him and Ig ave him attitude. I think he thought I was not taking school seriously.

When he saw me a long time after, he probably felt regretful of his actions seeing me studying at school.

Not sure if that means he likes me though

[shy_awkward_guy]

Yes he felt regretful but I don't think he's interested in you. What makes you think he's interested?

[Asker]

I don't think he's interested, but I've always wondered if there was some feelings involved.

As in he had a crush, or he admired me in some way or form I don't know

[shy_awkward_guy]

I don't know. Talk to him more to find out.

[tacoty21]

all his feelings and memories of you came back to him at that moment.

[Asker]

He did remember me. I think he was either surprised to see me, or he remembered the last time he saw me.

The last time he saw me, he had been rude, I gave him attitude and left him standing there.

So not sure if he is intimidated of me or he likes me.

[tacoty21]

Maybe he had thoughts of how he wished things could of been.

[Asker]

I don't know him very well. I used to think we had this deep meaningful connection but my bubble burst, when I saw him later and realized he didn't seem majorly affected by me, the way I was by him.

When I saw him years later, I was barely affected by him, as I don't know him very well and I already learned my lesson that I was just a random girl.

I didn't get why he stopped talking like that. He is not a deep or complicated guy. Could it be just pure surprise at seeing me?

I think he assumed I left University and didn't expect to see me standing there

[Asker]

The thing is, he was awful to me the last time he saw me. I think the reason, is because he thought I wasn't serious about life or school. In fact I think he thought I wasn't even a student at University.

This time when he saw me, studying at school, he realized I was a student there and his previous behaviour to me was unacceptable.

That could be one of the reasons for his speechlessness

[tacoty21]

yep that probably it

[tacoty21]

you will never truly know unless you ask him

[Asker]

Even if he was feeling bad at his behaviour, is that normal for a guy to just be speechless, or are there almost awlays some feelings/liking involved?

[tacoty21]

well you said you look at him then just kept walking so as far as I know that was like a 10sec interaction. So to not say anything for 10sec or so doesn't really mean he was speechless just didn't have anything to say

[Asker]

True but is it normal for a guy to be affected at all by a girl he doesn't like?

[tacoty21]

did he directly tell you he does not like you? if not by the way you make it seem he does like you but he was just a jerk so things didn't initially didn't work out the way he wanted.

[Asker]

No he never told me he didn't like me.

If anything he seems nice. Like once I needed a group and he volunteered for me to be in his.

That was sweet I guess.

I don't know. He's a bit weird.

[Asker]

I messaged him (randomly) months after I saw him at school, he didn't reply.

I didn't send him a friend request. I think the message I sent was awkward and that's probably why, but if a guy likes a girl... he'll find a way to talk to her, right?

[tacoty21]

yes he will find a way to talk to her unless his pride or ego gets in the way. I would say reach out to him one more time with a standard question like hey how you been. If he doesn't respond within a week just forget about him and everything he does.

[lolitaa__]

maybe he stopped because he remembered you, and yep there's definitely a chance he likes you or did like you at some point ;)

[Asker]

He did remember me. I think he was either surprised to see me, or he remembered the last time he saw me.

The last time he saw me, he had been rude, I gave him attitude and left him standing there.

So not sure if he is intimidated of me or he likes me.

[Asker]

The thing is, he was awful to me the last time he saw me. I think the reason, is because he thought I wasn't serious about life or school. In fact I think he thought I wasn't even a student at University.

This time when he saw me, studying at school, he realized I was a student there and his previous behaviour to me was unacceptable.

That could be one of the reasons for his speechlessness

[Anonymous]

it depends but the chances are he is into you

[Asker]

He did remember me. I think he was either surprised to see me, or he remembered the last time he saw me.

The last time he saw me, he had been rude, I gave him attitude and left him standing there.

So not sure if he is intimidated of me or he likes me.

[Opinion Owner]

I don't know what other think but what I think is sometimes when a beautiful girl approach us or we meet someone we had a crush on the first time we get anxious it can be there anxiety of meeting you

[Asker]

The thing is, he was awful to me the last time he saw me. I think the reason, is because he thought I wasn't serious about life or school. In fact I think he thought I wasn't even a student at University.

This time when he saw me, studying at school, he realized I was a student there and his previous behaviour to me was unacceptable.

That could be one of the reasons for his speechlessness

[Opinion Owner]

i think you are over thinking first relax yourself if you have his number then call him and clear everything

[Asker]

No I am not overthinking because everyone was making fun of me during that phase of my life saying what is she doing with her life etc. etc.

[Opinion Owner]

hey look first I don't know who are you second I don't know your story but please listen to your heart he knows you more than me and anyone else okay it doesn't matter what the other say something matters is what you think about your self so be positive and call him & clear everything