A guy becomes speechless when he sees you?

[Anonymous]

I was at a work party recently and there's this guy I've had a crush on for a long time and I've always wondered if he liked me back. I was at the party and obviously I looked amazing very different from what I normally looked like at work. Anyway I see him in in the corner of my eye at the party and decide to go say hi. He was talking with another guy and I popped in and said hello 👋 😊 he looked at me smiled and honestly he couldn't gather any words I could see in his eyes he wanted to say something but he just kind of nervously laughed and smiled. I'm thinking was he speechless because I looked so different? Or was it cause he was a bit wasted. Tbh he looked like he had a few... later on at the after party I asked for a drink and 2 people went and got me a drink straight away including the cute guy and girl I work with. I was very thankful and felt special that they made it their mission to get me a drink. He turned to me and said you are like the queen 👑 lol am I reading into this too much or? Maybe it's not so far fetched he likes me lol 😅 this is soo cringe by the way lol.

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Lol what do I do now? We've known each other for over 3 years we don't really know each other just like aquiantices at work. I've been in a relationship for the last 2 years that he knows about but we recently broke up and I kinda wanna hit this guy up. Lol should I?

[Helotome]

I am not fan of having a relationship with a coworker. Maybe those bahavor are his * maybe kinda reserved * and you said that you don't know that much to tell the differences. If he ain't communicating his interests then he isn't interested. And Hell no, I don't know if you want to be the first to make a move on someone who aren't showing you any real interest. Don't read into him to much. As you said you are pretty then keep up your looks and the right one will come to you. Hope that helps~

[TheLawfulGood]

Sounds like he didn't see you as anything but a coworker up until you met in a different atmosphere. And that can be all it takes to catch a guy's attention.

Hey, if anything, you could invite him with some friends to a movie or something, once you get on casual speaking terms. How he acts around you during the outing will help you make a more informed judgement on his attraction to you.

[Asker]

True he is a bit older than I am so I've always thought that that might be a thing for him. And I don't know if I can be that forward with him that's so scary lol 😅 we work in different departments and I feel like you gotta be professional at work I don't know if I could bring it up then...

[xColinx]

When he was talking to the other dude and you randomly showed up and he seemed flustered, might've been that you interrupted the vibe he had going on with the other dude. Nobody like a cock blocker.

[Asker]

Cock blocking him from the dude?

[xColinx]

Well, I mean, potentially.

[Asker]

Mm he didn't seem upset when he saw me... but who knows

[xColinx]

Nah I don't doubt you & him get along fine at work.

But I'm just throwing out a hypothetical. Him and other homeboy are vibin with each other but not *sure* type of thing, and then you show up somewhat cozy & friendly with him and you unintentionally fade your boy's chances with this other dude.

That's probably not what was going on but like i said just putting it out there.

[Asker]

Lol true they did look like they were vibing all I said tho was hi T and he just couldn't speak he didn't look mad or anything he was smiling. Half my brain is like omg he thinks your gorgeous and he's lost his words 🤣 and the other half is like he's probably just really high and I look pretty? Lol
I like the hypothetical tho
who knows right?

[xColinx]

Yep for sure... who knows! So now you gotta figure out the next move.

I had a similar situation like a year ago. Long story short, leaving work I got rear ended by an old dude having a medical incident (supposedly, but yeah probably). But anyway, after that this girl I work with was always asking me how I was doing, offering a ride, stuff like that. I had a girlfriend at the time, now I don't. So yeah, that's kinda how life goes. But anyway, hard to know sometimes when peeps are just being friendly and when they're interested beyond that.

[xColinx]

ok maybe probably my situation isn't similar but yeah!

[Asker]

It is kinda the same... what you just said about it being hard to know if they are just being friendly or they're interested...
Lol I feel that statement

[xColinx]

well good luck. do y'all get to hang out away from work very often, or was it just a random holiday party thing?

[Asker]

I work for a catering company and my job is to feed the crew on film jobs. He is part of that crew but we feed like 200 sometimes 300 people daily. It was like an end of year Christmas wrap drinks for the production. The Only time I really get to talk to him is during breakfast and lunch. So you know we just small talk most of the time but he is always so kind and sometimes I catch him staring at me while I'm working and lol when I look into his eyes I definitely feel something 😅 and hey thanks for all that you've said it's nice to have a guys perspective on things 😊

[Billlewis]

I'm absolutely speechless just from reading your sexy discussions... and I guarantee you that if I were fortunate enough to be dating you, you could flirt with any guy you want, and maybe even a little more, if the right circumstances presented themselves:)

[Koalamate]

Your appearance left him speechless he likes you.

[Asker]

I'm not gonna lie I looked really good. Not how I usually look at work so maybe that helped 😊

[Avicenna]

he's definitely interested

[SassyAussieAddy]

I think he's probably into you.

[Anonymous]

Sounds like he has a thing for you. 💞