Why are guys so impatient?

[phyllisisabelle]

Why do guys think a girl wants to chat with them when her head is messed up from going out and partying with her girlfriends the night before and had too many Long Island ice teas? Impatience doesn't work with this girl. Guys just be patent and you will be rewarded.

[LolaB28]

Yeah I agree with you. I was talking to a guy and I thought he was pretty cool until he kept asking me to see him. I saw him the day before and made plans to see him the day after because he told me he had work. (which was clearly a lie) I was with my family and I wanted to spend time with them. My sister was home from college and I haven't seen her in awhile. He kept texting me to see him and I told him I'm with my family we can see each other tomorrow like we planned. He kept asking to see me for at least 10 minutes I told him no. Haven't spoken to him since.

[WildButterfly]

Does his name starts with an A? 👀 lol sounds just like this guy I know.

[LolaB28]

No it doesn't lol

[Anonymous]

Exaclty. I was partying with my friend when mines kept texting me telling me to come to his house afterwards 😒 Like, I'm dancing in high heels, drinking and having a good time. When I leave here the only thing I'm gonna be on is my bed, not your penis. To make it worst he was my ex at the time trying to "win me back" yet he was being so demanding & unreasonable.
Tell your guy that you're only asking for him to be a little more understanding. Reassure him that you really like him but you just need some time to get over your hangover.

[Opinion Owner]

*exactly

[phyllisisabelle]

This isn't my "guy". Its several guys who responded to a question I asked and they want to "get to know me better" and it seems like they want it right now. I am still messed up. Too many Long Islands last night. They just need to understand I am more fun when I feel better.

[Opinion Owner]

Oh! well in that case they have no place to be impatient. They just have to wait.

[phyllisisabelle]

Oh they had too. :)

[ciscosqueen]

my boyfriend can be very impatient. he grew up an only child. i grew up with a family of 9 myself and my parents included. he never learned the patience because he never had to deal with another kid being around so now he can be very imatient but its not a bad thing either

[DutchDj138]

Fam, I don't know why this happens. I feel for the most part guys who act all "oh i guess you're ignoring me" or "why do you hate me" are really insecure guys looking for validation and tend to be very controlling & abusive. I feel like most dudes that are like that generally spend all day looking for new girls to feast on their low self esteem and exploit for sex nudes or whatever. And the ones that stand up to that BS they get mad at

[Paulie3000]

For me it's bc I hate being single and really want a connection. But it takes time which sucks but that's how it goes. I'm also bad at reading girls flirting methods, I'm usually about right but I do sometimes guess completely wrong and look/feel like a fool

[evelator_253]

girls are impatient too. look at my mom -.-
plus how would he have known that you went out partying the other night? don't assume people know what they don't.

[phyllisisabelle]

They know because I told them yesterday I was. Then they wanted to start chatting right away. I just needed time to recover. Hard to be sweet when one is hung over,

[evelator_253]

he could have forgot.

[phyllisisabelle]

It was more than just one guy. I had several who wanted to "get to know me better". I have been chatting with them finally but one at a time.

[NaultD]

The shoot till something sticks to the wall is something that is the only way to win in this world of flirting for guys.

[LordBaeron]

rewarded? chatting with you is a reward? someone has ego problems.

[phyllisisabelle]

Yes and a reward I am happy to say you will never have to worry about getting. Thank heavens.

[tetris]

because we guys actually desire the opposite gender, we are different.

[JayCasper777]

gotta agree with you on this one. dudes are mad impatient nowadays lol

[meatballs21]

How many different ways are you going to ask the same weird question?

[anonyms483]

It's matter of self control dear.

It varies from person to person and how long he can come trol his feelings...

[StickStickity13]

I would just start talking to another girl who wants to talk to big deal

[phyllisisabelle]

Thats fine. I am sure another guy will be patient and get to talk to me.

[UgaBooga]

That's the spirit👍

[phyllisisabelle]

giggle Its not like I would die if he wouldn't talk to me. :) That would be his loss.

[phyllisisabelle]

I am ex-Army MP. I dont take no crap from anyone. :)

[UgaBooga]

Exactly😀

[UgaBooga]

That's kinda hot lol

[phyllisisabelle]

Whats "kinda hot"? That I was a badass MP? The sad thing is instead of letting me do what I was trained to do officers requested me as their "escort driver" to take them places and to be their little "fluff" they could show off at parties they would attend overseas. I hated it. I wanted to kick some bad guys asses. All that training just to drive those pricks around. It was a bitch being attractive in the military. Thats why I got out.

[UgaBooga]

That sucks that they treated you like that because of your looks, I'm sure you would've loved to show them how you kickass😂

[phyllisisabelle]

Yep. All that weapons training and everything else wasted. The military is not a good place for nice looking women. I wish it was a good place because we could kick butt just as good as anyone else. I would have loved to have stayed in. But them sticking me being a driver kind of pissed off some of the others. I didn't have a choice. Officers can be such jerks.

[UgaBooga]

Sounds like a real drag but at least you're still a badass💪

[UgaBooga]

What have you been doing since you left the military?

[phyllisisabelle]

I can be but I enjoy being a sweet girl too. Just dont fuck with me. :)

[UgaBooga]

The best kinda girls in my opinion

[phyllisisabelle]

I moved in with a boyfriend in northern Indiana and lived with him for awhile and got a job at a company doing customer service. I make good money and my boss doesn't want to lose me. :) I broke up with the boyfriend and moved out and am on my own. He turned out to be such a loser. I could tell you stories but not here. I did on one other post where he and his three buddies came back from a trip to Canada and they ended up having sex with me. I guess he lost a bet up there and I was the prize. But I thought I loved him and so I just went along. That was so stupid. I am not the smartest chick in the world but I do learn - fast.

[UgaBooga]

That is not your fault at all if you feel pressured, and I'm sure you're more than smart enough. You cut off a bad relationship and moved out on your own like a boss😎
You're doing something right lol

[phyllisisabelle]

I didn't feel "pressured". I just wanted to make him happy and just went along with it. The bad thing is the next weekend they had a fish fry at one of the guys houses and I found myself there with the guys and their wives and girlfriends and kids. That was weird. Just the week before the guys were having sex with me. I wondered why they just didn't go home and get it from their wives and girlfriends. Like I said I guess he lost me in a bet.

[sufi_sarmast]

you can't compare all guys equally, not all guys are same and so girls,

[phyllisisabelle]

I know. It just seems like they are all that way. I have several who want to chat with me right NOW. I went out partying with my girlfriends last night and I am still feeling the effects. I just want them to be patient until I get to feeling better. Thanks.

[sufi_sarmast]

i am sorry if i used any harsh word,
it depends on how they are trained and educated, if guys grow in an environment in which they have don't get things they want then their impatience to that thing increases,

[cali213]

i don't know on that one. i guess that's the only time they think it's ok

[Bigbubba]

Because we can't read your minds?

[phyllisisabelle]

And why not?

[Bigbubba]

Seriously, rewarded? What makes you so great? What can you contribute as a human being besides sex?

[phyllisisabelle]

Another jerk who won't have to be concerned about the "reward" they will never get. Thank heaven. by the way why do you have "Big" in your name? What makes you worthy of calling yourself "Big"? Apparently you think sex is all women are good for. Sad.

[Bigbubba]

It's just a name, whys it have to do with sex? And you didn't address my question.

[phyllisisabelle]

I'm sorry. I checked my list of guys to "reward" and you are not on it. You are the one who wondered if all I was good for was sex. Bye bye.

[Cloudy25]

Impatience is not gender related.

[balram]

thanks god for giving me so much patient 🙂

[Dumbbong]

okay, will be waiting for the reward...

[phyllisisabelle]

Can you handle the "reward". ;)

[Dumbbong]

Becoming impatient now... 🤓🤓🤓

[phyllisisabelle]

You're funny.

[advaj98]

Yea no us guys are pretty impulsive

[John_Doesnt]

Because we have an erection.

[Jason7mge]

Why are girls so impatient?

[Anonymous]

Because you take too long.

[Anonymous]

What's our reward?

[phyllisisabelle]

You have to ask? But can you handle it? It would be worth the guy's time. ;)

[Opinion Owner]

Hell yeah 😉