How come Guys can be so persistent and annoying?

[Athena374]

There is way more than this. This has been going on for a year and a half now I’ve been ignoring his messages n I think I rejected him in person I don’t remember but he is still being annoying wtf. You would think after his first 5 messages got ignored that he would get the message.

Only Annoying Guys Do This

Guys Who Really Like You Do This

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Gag needs to stop selecting MHO.

[Anonymous]

Guys do this because girls only seem to like guys who are persistent. Guys who don't put in effort are told they "didn't try hard enough"
Essentially, since women can't seem to make up their minds on what they want, and they expect guys to read their minds... guys are left to do this.

Don't get me wrong, this guy can't take a hint.

[Athena374]

Yea some girls like when guys play hard to get though. But he has to be attractive enough

[Opinion Owner]

So you mean when you like the guy, it's persistent.. when you don't like the guy it's wrong.
Wow, you are the type of female fucking guys lives with false victim-hood.

[vald9inches]

no man its just plain common sense which you dont have neither any experience with girls. there is a difference between trying to open a locked bolted door and trying to open a cracked very large heavy door.

[Opinion Owner]

Hey, vald (9mm), stop your virtue signalling garbage and get off my comment. I was wanted to ask your idiot opinion, I would have asked you for it.

[vald9inches]

lmfao it sounds like you are projecting yourself on to me buddy its pretty pathetic especially coming from an anon 😂

[vald9inches]

and idgaf if you asked or my opinion or not i am going to give you all of my opinion balls deep whether you like it or not! ;)

[Opinion Owner]

@vald9inches Sure pal, you are the virtue signalling ass hat who wants to go on other posts to try and be the white knight for some female because you don't think she can stand up for herself.
Do you think she will message you in private and thank you, so you can send a dick pic in the hopes she will magically want your 9mm. You are a pathetic joke. Only a fucking loser would put a dick size in his name. Like some female will see it and magically wet herself thinking you are some big stud. HAHA Go away now little man.

[Coolgirl235]

Being persistent vs being annoying is 2 different things. Learn the difference.

[Opinion Owner]

@vald9inches I remove your responses because you are a twat and like I told you... If I wanted your opinion, I would beat it out of you. Now fuck off.

[Opinion Owner]

You will notice I let all your messages up to that point, because you sound like an idiot and up until I told you to fuck off, people can see that for themselves. After that, no one wants your petty schoolyard nonsense.

[Jamie05rhs]

If you don't answer his question, then he doesn't have an answer. Do both him and yourself a favor and tie up the loose ends. Tell him you don't like him, you're not attracted to him, you're not interested in dating him, and you're not interested in talking to him. That's all you gotta do!

[Athena374]

We had already spoke a little from before n I think I rejected him already I shouldn’t have to say anything else. Even if I tell him that he’s still gonna say the same stuff. He’s just gonna be like what did I do or some other crap.

[Jamie05rhs]

You think you rejected him, but apparently he doesn't think so. So you need to spell it out in black and white.

[Athena374]

I really don’t feel like wasting my time doing that. He’s not stupid, he knows the deal.

[Anonymous]

You might be a bit more classy if you just told him.

[Anonymous]

I hate to admit it, but I've done that before. I convinced myself "If she goes on a date with me, she'll recognize how great I am." "She seemed interested before. Maybe if we can just be friends for now, she'll eventually like me when things are going better." "Maybe she is she isn't answering because she knows now might not be a good time, but maybe it'll be better later."

I was obsessed with her. At the time, I believed in soul mates and thought she was mine, even though I barely ever talked to her. She had shown interest before, but when I tried to ask her out, there were legitimate reasons why she stopped talking to me. But I didn't want to accept it. I'm glad she turned me down now, but it was after badgering her so long like he is doing to you that she eventually turned me down.

It felt unfinished and I couldn't let it go. I'm not making any excuses for this guy. He is completely obsessed with you, he needs to hear you say that you want nothing to do with him. I stopped talking to her after she finally told me to quit bothering her when I told her how she felt. Just tell him straight out that you know he likes you, but you will never be interested. He needs the blunt truth. If he doesn't leave you alone after that, then his issues are beyond anything you can do.

[xTom98]

That’s just cringeworthy, some girls do the same however.

[Athena374]

Yea some girls can be really thirsty

[WindowLicker]

You need to just say "Ok, you're being a bit creepy now, enough with the messages".

[Athena374]

Then he’s going be like “how am I being creeping when all I’m doing is saying hello?” N we go to the same school

[WindowLicker]

You don't reply after that message, no matter what he says. If he persists then block his number. If he bothers you at school then speak to your teachers or your parents.

Don't give harassers an inch to move.

[Athena374]

👌👌

[vald9inches]

lmfao reminds me of this

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aOLxQGLJouI

[Calzone2018]

Well this is on you for not just telling to leave you alone social media and texting has taught be to be even more rude than usual to just ignore someone I would never do it unless i told them flat out to leave me alone then if they keep it up then I ignore them

[Athena374]

I don’t have to he should’ve got the hint 🤷‍♀️.

[Calzone2018]

No because you don't have the right to be annoyed right now if you didn't come right out and say it people who ignore people like that are horrible people tell them in the first place how you feel

[Athena374]

I do have the right 😂😂 he should’ve got the message and he knows how I feel you probably do the same thing to girls sorry buddy that’s annoying.

[Calzone2018]

No I don't hound girls and I also don't ignore them if i am not interested I am straight forward and would like them to be as well

[Athena374]

Well if someone ignores you they obviously don’t want you what type of stuff are you on?

[Calzone2018]

You just cannot see that you are a rude person at least say to the guy that you are not interested or even if you are mean at least he gets the message

[Athena374]

It’s not rude and no he got the message there are other guys that are getting this treatment as well.

[Jamie05rhs]

Athena, not all guys read messages the same way.

[Calzone2018]

@Jamie05rhs I think it is just more that she is full of herself and will keep acting this way until she is the one being ignored

[Jamie05rhs]

Let's not be mean now. If we're trying to get a point across we need to reason with one another.

[Athena374]

@calzone you sound hurt lmaoo

[Calzone2018]

Well I wouldn't think any less of you if you didn't put a screenshot of the poor guy on here

[Jamie05rhs]

She blacked out his name, Calzone.

[Calzone2018]

@Jamie05rhs it is not his name I am talking about it is her being so full of herself like hey look at me I am ignoring this guy who likes me I am better than him

[Athena374]

I don’t care seriously. I have done this to many guys before and am doing it now and they have gotten the message. After at least a couple more messages. N some after one. He is no exception.

[Calzone2018]

I had to ignore a girl who is married earlier and I feel a little bad but I told her straight up leave me alone and she kept bothering me repeatedly

[Jamie05rhs]

Athena, let me just offer up one hypothesis: Maybe they DIDN'T get the message. Maybe they're still wondering. But they just didn't reply because they didn't know what to say. Just a thought.

[Calzone2018]

@Jamie05rhs some guys will keep replying until she tells them to back off all she has to do is tell them to leave her alone

[Athena374]

^No most of them stop after.

[Athena374]

@Jamie if they are still wondering then they gotta be real dumb.

[Jamie05rhs]

Athena, I hate to break the news to you, but a lot of us guys ARE really dumb. The sooner you find that out the better.

[Jaysonava]

male sex drive and lack of social skills

[wootamandawoot41]

life's waiting to begin

[Athena374]

Hmm the other guys I talked to don’t act like this I don't know what sex drive has to do with this tho

[Jaysonava]

You WILL later on in life young one

[wootamandawoot41]

hush up ava

[Reatus]

... why don't you reply?

[Athena374]

Because I don’t want to.

[Reatus]

So why are you annoyed at him?

[Athena374]

Because he’s being annoying that’s why.

[Reatus]

How? You aren't going to reply, so all he's doing is texting you. You don't even have to do anything.

[Athena374]

Yea but he knows I’m ignoring him and he keeps texting me. That’s dumb

[Reatus]

But him being dumb doesn't mean you have to be annoyed,

[Athena374]

🤷‍♀️still annoying when he keeps doing it, I don’t like dumb stuff

[Reatus]

Why not just block him then?

[Samantha2448]

If she texts him then he thinks she wants to talk to him when she doesn’t

[Reatus]

@Samantha2448 Not if she texts him that she doesn't want to talk to him.

[Samantha2448]

Why can’t he take the fucking hint

[Reatus]

@Samantha2448 in my opinion men suck at hints. Why can't she just tell him clearly?

[Samantha2448]

If she doesn’t message after 5 texts that means leave her the fuck alone or block the dude

[Reatus]

@Samantha2448 oh. Just 5? What if she just hasn't seen them? Wouldn't it be more like 10 or something? But what if she has seen them and just doesn't know how to respond or is being emotional and waiting? If he stops sending after a few times then she will think he doesn't wanna talk anymore.

It could be different in every situation. Just saying it is definitely what she wants, so that's much easier to get the point accross.

[Samantha2448]

It’s the same wassup or wyd there is no reason for him to keep doing it he’s being clingy and irritating

[Reatus]

@Samantha2448 If he had been doing it every day, then stopped, wouldn't you think he'd stopped wanting to talk?

[Samantha2448]

No I think he would get the fucking hint

[Reatus]

@Samantha2448 And so you would definitely not reply if he stopped, because you think he's not waiting anymore. Exactly what he doesn't want. So, he keeps texting..

[Samantha2448]

If I saw it days later I would still reply if I wanted to talk to him. Continuous texting can be seen as harassment

[Reatus]

@Samantha2448 wait really? How? She can block him.

[Samantha2448]

Because if someone doesn’t leave you alone that’s harassment

[Reatus]

@Samantha2448 but it's her phone! So if a guy texts a girl every day for like a week, it's harrassment? ?

[Samantha2448]

If she doesn’t want to talk and it’s quite obvious that it’s not wanted yes

[Reatus]

@Samantha2448 How would it be quite obvious if she doesn't respond though?

[Samantha2448]

Because she didn’t respond!

[Reatus]

@Samantha2448 okay

[Athena374]

@samantha exactly and @Reatus I see him in school

[nasty4fun]

Nope he thinks persistance will pay off.

[Samantha2448]

Block him

[Mikayla03]

LOL.

[tooFruity]

why haven't you blocked him yet?

[wootamandawoot41]

she didn't want to yet. now relax there fruitcup

[tooFruity]

@wootamandawoot41 shhhh im studying for a biology test

[wootamandawoot41]

oh man, im sorry. everybody keep it downnnnn!!!

[Athena374]

Cause I see him in school

[wootamandawoot41]

study harder girl. fruit cup studies