Despite popular opinion, society actually does put a lot of pressure on men to be and do for females. Men and women both frequently suggest “you’re not a real man if you aren’t pleasing a woman”, in various terms and circumstances. It’s more common for gay men, adolescents in particular, to have a “beard” or stand-in girlfriend than it is for lesbians to have their male counterpart for the role.
Since most people don’t like the feeling of ostracization, they will do most anything for acceptance and inclusion. In terms of heterosexual relationships, it’s always been males chase and females choose. When you’re not chosen, the chase changes. When you’re rarely or never chosen, the chase is called “desperation”. Most men are rarely chosen and some never are. Therefore most men appear desperate. Thankfully there are some modest changes in social attitudes that are allowing men to not chase or even suffer that need for female approval and acceptance. Unfortunately, some of the best routes are being marginalized socially or even legally. Our current social structure strongly relies on men feeling compelled to produce and provide for women. Men going their own way will not be tolerated.
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