Guys use me to get to my best friend/roomate?

[Anonymous]

SO,I don't think I'm ugly,I'm just not the type of girl guys go after.I work out everyday,go to the gym,I wear a little make-up,not necessarily shy,but not outgoing.Of course,my best friend is the beautiful,outgoing,sexy party girl,which is everything a guy could ask for in a girl.She and I go to the same uni,we decided to get an apartment and roommates.Well,guys will ask me out then later on tell me that I'm not really their type and ask if I can put in a good word.So I'm just the girl they use to get close to her.I do tell her about them say good stuff just because,well just cause I can't get a guy doesn't mean she shouldn't be able to.So I basically end up liking a guy,but he'll tell me I'm not his type and he'll as if I can put in a good word,and it's just gotten to the point where I just either tell them she has a bf(which she does now),or just ask them upfront if they want me to introduce them.Idk,any advice?

[Anonymous]

Guys go after a girl like your friend because they see her as someone who is more sexual. Don't feel bad about yourself. Do you really think most of these guys are trying to have a meaningful relationship with her, or are they just trying to get their d***s wet and have bragging rights?

Continue being who you are and the right guy will come. You might want to start distancing yourself from your friend a bit. That doesn't mean drop her because she gets more attention. That's not what I'm saying at all! I mean if you and her are like joined at the hip, you might want to stop that. Go off and do your own thing sometimes. Go out and meet new guys on your own w/o your friend being around.

[peace-love-couture]

-Try dressing more provocatively.Mini skirts,lots of cleavage,high heels,lots of eye make-up

-Try drinking,guys like girls who drink

-Try partying hardcore.Guys want a girl they can have fun,party girls are "fun" for them

-Try being outgoing,of course alcohol can help with that

-Sleep around,then you'll have a reputation

-Try plastic or cosmetic surgery.Small boobs?breast implants.Big nose?Rhinoplasty.

[EddyMetal]

1) I don't think that's a good idea. She should dress how she's comfortable dressing.

2) I actually prefer girls who don't drink or drink very little.

6) That's a terrible idea. She should embrace the good looks I'm sure she already has, and small natural boobs are better than big fake ones.

[peace-love-couture]

Was I talking about you?I'm pretty sure the guys using her to get with her best friend only want her best friend for sex,if that's all they want and she wants a guy like that,then follow the advice given & well,she'll get used for sex,come on here and whine about that next time:-)

[EddyMetal]

If I were you I'd tell those guys that try that sh*t to go to hell.