This guy I rejected is trying to make me jealous? Why?

[Anonymous]

[bifus]

Women are more attracted to men when they're with a different, attractive woman. The attractiveness of the man's current partner matters even more than the man's attractiveness. He might be trying to play into this.

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[EmptyVoid]

He wants to get your attention. Looks like he did.
If you don't like him just ignore him.

[Asker]

So he's just an attention seeker?

[Asker]

Or is there more to it?

[EmptyVoid]

Not necessarily but he does crave your attention. Some guys think that by making the girl (who rejected them) jealous they can make her fall for him and want him more.

[Asker]

That sounds pretty immature.

[Asker]

But then I don't think they can exactly tell her they still want her after she has rejected them. Ego and pride wouldn't let them I guess.

[EmptyVoid]

That is immature indeed. Unfortunately, there isn't much you can do except to ignore him.
However, it seems like you are a bit bothered by his actions. I hope you don't mind me asking but could you possibly have some feelings for him?

[Asker]

Yeah actually I do.

[EmptyVoid]

How did you reject him?

[Asker]

I rejected him because of his behaviour. He is very immature and well he always kinda mean to me every time we would talk. The last time we talked I lost my cool and got fed up with him so I rejected him badly. I was mean and cold with the rejection.

[Asker]

What pissed me off is that he's so nice to everyone else but was always mean to me for some reason. I really did like him but his behaviour turned me off.

[EmptyVoid]

That must have hurt him badly. Well, if you really like him and would like to give him a chance, you would have no choice but to let him know how you feel. He won't talk to you again because he thinks you don't like him (and rejected him in a bad way).

But I think you should think carefully before you make any decision. As you said, he's a very immature person and is always mean to you. Even if you guys get together, I don't think you'll be happy unless he changes his behaviour.

[Asker]

Well I admit I must've hurt him badly. But he really did deserve it. Our mutual friend told me how awful he looks now, isn't being as social as he used to, and also ignores her completely. He blocked me immediately after I rejected him. We haven't had any contact in more than 6 months and have also not seen each other.

[James990]

@OP, the person your describing sounds like me! "What pissed me off is that he's so nice to everyone else but was always mean to me for some reason". - thats me! I found that sometimes i look for the smallest thing to fight over & so does she! but i can't help & behaviour in the childish have! Trust me I've tried! Everytime we fight or she'll sometimes mean, she'll say its only banter afterwards! I mean a few months ago, she showed me her "bow" in the middle of her bra! So would you call that banter! We used to joke about getting married - now i know that was banter! (I think) if u wanna know more PM me, i will help if i can !

[African_Goddess]

Because you rejected him. Guys will find a way to get what they want even if it means making a girl jealous. That's when you gotta show him what he's doing isn't affecting you. Try finding a new guy

[thatonegirl_e]

Probably trying to get you to see that other people want him.

[Youngpapai]

He tries to find another way to make you jealous nd make you realize tha ya love him.
But already if you ask yourself this question, it's coz he succeeded his "blow"👏
Maybe you love him deep inside ya 🤔

[NaultD]

Its almost like double triple quadruple tapping the shot you started with both of your standing with eachother. Its pretty shitty of him but its a way to feel better.

[radiantray123]

Because you rejected him it hurt his heart and now he wanna five you revenge by making you jealous and he wanna make you feel that you made mistake by rejecting him.

[Guy2809]

what do you mean he's trying to make you jealouse? because if he's going out with someone else or flurting with other girls, even if he still fibds you attractive, he might have simply moved on to other conquest.

[Drifter83UK]

due to his immaturity and insecurity. now highlight the 4th word in your primary question 😉

[worldscolide]

its simple. You rejected him. Thats why.

[Asker]

Yeah but why bother?

[worldscolide]

Its really petty actually, He is probably upset about it, and this is his way of lashing out. Its stupid if you ask me.

[Asker]

Yeah it is petty and stupid.

[mrunal77]

he is trying to make u jealous.. n u r getting jealous...😂😂 lol

[The_Gentelman]

because he liked you very much and now he tries to get you to think about him again and maybe do some activities with him again

[LGT1981]

to get your interest back... obviously.

[pleasureOM]

Maybe he's not trying to make you jealous... he might be trying to move on.

[Asker]

No. He was trying to make me jealous. Even my friends noticed.

[pleasureOM]

Well did you take inventory of your actions and ask if this isn't foreplay of some sort?

[Anonymous]

Ian he though? Or are you just jealous without him trying

[abe84]

trying to get back at you, because he is hurt

[cally480]

If u noticed you obviously getting jealous

[i_love_stars]

Basic human instinct.. Ignore him

[thekingstratton]

you shouldn't have rejected him if you cared.

[IHaveLists]

He thinks you like him

[the_varun_parmar]

this is men's nature 😎

[sahas20]

why do you care? youve already rejected him.

[lakshaysharma]

cuz either he loves you or he's gonna fuck you

[JEAII]

cuz he likes you?

[girlasking5000]

ego.

[Patrick12]

trying to get you back to the awnsers

[K1NGxDANNY]

Yeah sure