Why am I getting jealous after rejecting him?

[Anonymous]

I rejected this guy but I have been interested in him for a while but he never seemed to approach me. I then ignored him for a while just to see what he would do and get my head straight and focus on other friends. I'd also be quite shy around him so we don't really talk a lot (my fault as well) but he contacted me via text (we talked for a bit there just small talk stuff) then he asked me whether I wanted to hangout. I declined and said asked him whether he liked me or something and he responded with a yes and was beginning or like me. I think I must've panicked but I told him that I didn't see him that way and that my 'actions' of checking him out and stuff were just me trying to be friendly. He politely said that he must've been mistaken and I apologised. I started ghosting him for a while and just viewed his Instagram stories and Snaps but then he created a new account where I can't see anything anymore. I saw him walk with a girl home and just had this feeling of jealousy. Sometimes I just can't keep my eyes off him how ever hard I try, my eyes would just go his direction and if we ever looked at each other I would look away. My best friend also took a story of him and posted on her Insta story and I got so jealous. Why am I getting jealous? And do you think what he did was wrong?

[alymeowy]

Maybe you just realized your true feelings for him when he is not around since that is the time when you can think of the situation clearly. And now, you got jealous because you know to yourself that he's happy without your presence even though you are expecting (my presumption) that he'd still approach you after ghosting him.

[spartan55]

Why do you think he would be wrong? Nice try, this is your problem. You had your chance and you blew it. I know it's foreign to most girls, but take some responsibility ffs.

[SeekingVirginWife]

It seems you don't make good life choices when it comes to relationships.