Guys, how long do you wait to dm a girl after she follows you back?

[Brianna14]

I dont want to dm him first cause I don't know if he really likes me so how long do u wait so u dont sound needy?

[euphonic]

Well you can DM him first without sounding needy. My crush DMed me right after following me, but it was because one of our mutual friends was giving me shoutouts, and he gave me a simple "[Friend] is really convincing :)" and that doesn't sound needy or anything, and it's a great conversation starter because he brought up something/someone mutual. Maybe you could do something similar if you guys have something in common. It really depends on how close you guys are, though.

[LovingNerd]

When their activity interests you and there's a connection of mutual appreciation. I open dm to say hello, or add information that is helpful that may not be appropriate for open forum.

[MackFreeze]

Wait if a girl follows you randomly your suppose to dm them?

[Brianna14]

No he followed me first after commenting that he likes me on pics that i was tagged in

[MackFreeze]

Ohh okay, well I don't use insta that much anymore so I would ignore it honestly.

[Dme500]

Asap becaise girls are flaky and lose interest fast.

[dsrice]

I don't usually Direct message someone without asking.

[Justalittlebitbored]

Depends. Which website are you talking about?

[Brianna14]

Instagram

[Justalittlebitbored]

Personally, I wouldn't, unless she seems super cute. I don't really like chatting up people randomly on social media, it just seems kinda odd to me. Although I think that's just me.

[Arya_Christ]

I don't unless I want to date her.

[Brianna14]

If u want to date her how long do u wait?

[Arya_Christ]

if I want to date her. I am not gonna waste any moment. just gonna try from the start.

[Halucinator]

5 mins to forever😂
Deprnds on my instinct

[OlderGuy965]

Immediately

[FashionKiller]

Maybe never

[Anonymous]

As long as you like

[eagle1951]

do you mean PM

[Brianna14]

What?

[eagle1951]

you said DM hun

[Brianna14]

Yeah and thats what i ment dm

[eagle1951]

ok than you have to tell me what Dm is

[Brianna14]

Direct message

[eagle1951]

now see I learned something today. thank you

[Anonymous]

I don't dm people.

[Brianna14]

So u wait for them to dm u?

[Opinion Owner]

Nope.

[Anonymous]

just text him..

[Curiouz]

fast b4 you cum