What do men think about women who are weak?

[Anonymous]

We hear about strong women all the time. But what about the women who are weaker than average? Would you ever be attracted to a weaker girl?

[hellionthesagereborn]

To be perfectly honest the vast majority of women are weaker then "average". You can't be strong if your given every single courtesy, privilege, and right imaginable, you can't be strong if everything in existence is trying to prevent you from suffering and/or growing as a person. You can't be strong if your constantly claiming to be weak helpless victims and demanding that you be divested of any and all responsibility both to society, to your family, to your partner and to yourself. Most women are weak, many men are too. Its the society of entitlement and self pity/self victimization. As for women who are willing to acknowledge they are not strong, well that depends on her, what does she do, her actions will define what kind of person she is and whether or not she is valuable to me, to her family, to society.

[Xleah18x]

I'm not weak at all. All those privileges you listed don't apply to everyone trust me I know from experience I've suffered a lot in the past more than most people do during my age and it was horrible but I got through it and I never gave up and I never will. Because after all you create the life you want you're the driver in the bus of your life

[hellionthesagereborn]

@Xleah18x As I said, "Most women are weak, many men are too.". Why is that always ignored? As for you and your privileges, your a woman and that means you have privileges, by law, by biology. The fact is its unavoidable just as me being physically stronger/resilient then a woman is unavoidable, or that my life span is shorter then a womans because I am male. However those, with the exception of the laws which are man made privileges, are beyond any ones control and quite frankly should be discounted. However as I previously stated, I did not say all women, I said most. Further more to play devils advocate how do I know your not weak? I have only your word, and you have only mine. I don't know if you have exploited the natural tendencies of males to get what you want, most women do, they use tears or sexuality, even if its only something small like getting a guy to lift something heavy for her. But again, most women not all women. It bares repeating as its constantly ignored.

[Xleah18x]

Lol why would I do that, that doesn't make sense. If I want something I get it by doing it myself or by hard work. For me trust me I'm strong in a physical sense also because I've been going to the gym for over 4 years and I've been lifting weights at the gym too so I could carry stuff on my own I don't need a guy to do it. Not all women are physically weak. You're right there are some that do but not "most" I don't know where you live but where I live this doesn't usually happen

[hellionthesagereborn]

@Xleah18x If this doesn't happen where you live then their is an incredibly good chance that either you A: do it yourself, or B: are not paying attention. This happens everywhere, its universal. So yes most women. No your not as physically strong as a man, period. This is biology. A man has 25% more collagen in his skin literally making him thicker skinned then you, higher threshold for pain (according to every study done on the subject) he is over 50% stronger in upper body then a woman (average) and about 40% for lower body strength. His muscles are denser as are his bones (progesterone inhibits calcium absorbsion which is why women suffer from osteoporosis while its incredibly rare in men) so this not only gives him a more resilient body in general it, along with the testosterone makes him far better at building more muscle then a woman ever could. Again, whether or not you want to admit it you are physically weaker then a man training can shorten the gap, but not remove it.

[hellionthesagereborn]

@Xleah18x Also again, yes, most women are mentally and physically weak. You live in a society that dedicates its entire existence to the betterment of your life, so you probably are oblivious to all the advantages you have. Even in infancy its been shown that female infants are tended to far more frequently then male infants, when they cry they are routinely picked up as soon as possible while male children are allowed to "cry themselves out". This is to condition the man for the very real fact that he is on his own, their is no one to help him and he must learn to deal with his issues on his own. So as I said, yes most women are weak and now thanks to how society actively attempts to destroy anything masculine, so to are men.

[hellionthesagereborn]

@Xleah18x What is your political affiliation? What is your stance on feminism?

[Xleah18x]

I disagree that all men are stronger than women. I have some guy friends and I'm stronger than them since they don't lift and I do. It varys in person to perosn. I'm pretty sure women have a high prehold for pain to especially since they get it often from periods and stuff.

[Xleah18x]

Woah there okay now you're being sexist by saying women are mentally weak. Women are NOT mentally weak, I'm not mentally weak at all and a lot of women are also not either. Sure there are some that are but their are also some men' too that are mentally weak but you can't just generalize an entire gender and say that. Hmm does society really better my life? Because last time I remember it didn't if it didn't I wouldn't have gone through the things I did. All people when they're older are left on their own to deal with the issue. See if you knew most women in the world personally then I might consider your opinion but since you don't you can't say most women are weak because their not only some are because as for me I'm not weak and weather you want to believe that or not is up to you because it doesn't effect me.

[Xleah18x]

I live in Canada by the way so it's better here than in the states political wise. I mean could still use some improvements tho. Regarding feminism I don't know but everyone no matter their gender or who they are deserves equal rights and should be treated equally

[hellionthesagereborn]

@Xleah18x No. As I said if you take the average woman and the average man, the man will be stronger by a large margin, if you get a highly fit woman and an average man she might be as strong or slightly stronger, but when equally fit/trained the man will always be stronger, also your guy friends are more then likely stronger then you they simply do not wish to push it because you are a woman, if you where in a fight with them you would more then likely lose (if we are talking nothing but brute strength) unless you take steroids or hormones to give you an advantage. As for claiming women are mentally weak, no that's not what I said and you are intentionally misrepresenting my statement. I said MOST women are mentally weak because society hands them everything, I then also mentioned (several times) that most men are also weak so you misrepresented my statement twice over, if you where to compare women of the past and women now the women of the past would far out pace you in toughness as

[hellionthesagereborn]

as they would most men as well. Mental toughness isn't a gender thing, as I pointed out several times which you conviently ignored, its due to hardships and overcoming said hardships and statistically women are the least likely to suffer significant hardships comparative to men and our generation is least likely to suffer significant hardships comparative to past ones, and our society has the least hardships comparative to many other societies. Ergo most men and women are mentally weak. As for thresholds for pain: www.webmd.com/.../chronic-pain-conditions#1
healthland.time.com/.../
abcnews.go.com/Technology/story?id=97662&page=1
As I stated its well established, men have to be providers which means grueling labor for most of history weathering cold and heat and injury to do so. Men also have to be protectors which means they have to fight, they have to fight and function through injury if they are to survive and/or complete their objective of protecting women and children.

[hellionthesagereborn]

@Xleah18x This is actually a good example of how women are coddled in our society, your constantly told that you can do anything a man can do, and better too. That your stronger, smarter, tougher (all of which is provably false). That you are some how above men, your not forced to face the reality that you cannot do it all, that your not as tough, not as strong, that your not smarter. You are you, and while being a woman grants you some things that men can never have (longer life span, better linguistic abilities (noted even in infancy where female children develop language far sooner then male children), better sense of smell and hearing, their are also things that are simply beyond your abilities but are perfectly within the capabilities of men. I am not being sexist, you are. You are attempting to coopt male traits, you are essentially saying your everything a man is, but also you have everything that makes a woman a woman as well.

[hellionthesagereborn]

@Xleah18x Why can't you let men have their traits? Why do women constantly try to, for lack of a better term, steal men's "thunder" as it where by claiming they are just as strong just as tough (tougher in fact as you yourself claimed), that they can do anything men can do but their also better nurturers etc? I mean look at fathers day, we don't even get that, we have to hear about how great women are on the one damn day dedicated to men/fathers. We have commercials talking about how single mothers need to be celebrated on fathers day (but not single fathers on mothers day) how children don't need their fathers and its okay to be a single mother, how men are obsolete (yes, women have made this claim), that men are not needed etc. That is why women are weak, because no one has made them face reality, that they cannot do it all, that they are not better then men and they do in fact need us. So your coddled, you are like the child that was never told no, never forced to face reality

[hellionthesagereborn]

or hardship. Its really hard to become tough, to become strong in that environment. And by you I mean the empirical you not the personal (as I am sure you will misinterpret that). That is what I mean by stating men are physically stronger and women (and as previously stated numerous times men) are weak (mentally). As for society, yes it betters your life that is beyond question. Look at the statistics, look at the laws, look at how women are treated and how men are treated and you would see that yes you are privileged and society pampers you. According to the CDC/NCVS 70% of nonreciprocal violence between intimate partners is perpetrated by WOMEN against men. How many domestic violence shelters are their for women? In the US its about 2,000, in Canada I would estimate about 500 to a thousand. How many are their for men? In the US one. In Canada, after feminist relentless assault on the one shelter for men that existed, they manage to divert and shame people from funding it until it was

[hellionthesagereborn]

@Xleah18x forced to close down from lack of funds. The man who ran it who was himself a victim of domestic violence ended up hanging himself. Men are also 78% of all suicide victims, ever wonder why? Why it is that men just go into a room close the door and then put a bullet in their head without a word meanwhile its incredibly rare for women to do this? Do you think it might have something to do with how we are treated? As for Canada being better, are you kidding me? You can get arrested for not calling some one the "right" pronoun, I don't think that's better, in fact that kind of proves my point that people are weak in general. In Canada what rights do fathers have? None. What reproductive rights do men have? None. Starting to see a trend here? 80% of the homeless are men, 97% of workplace accidents are men, women make up 63% of all college graduates despite the fact that while their are plenty of women only scholarships and grants their are none for men.

[hellionthesagereborn]

@Xleah18x The fact is women are coddled to the point where they are conceited and narcissistic and men are treated as subhuman to the point where they are just giving up on life. So yes those with greater hardships are going to be tougher and right now, it sure as hell isn't women.

[hellionthesagereborn]

@Xleah18x to clarify, its not women as a whole (since you like to take my words out of context).

[PoliceLivesMatter]

Define "strong woman"? I've been hearing this often and I'm trying to get a better understanding of what it actually means. By strong do you mean independent? Because that isn't necessarily strong in my opinion. Do you mean physically strong? Probably not? Mentally? Define it for me

[Owlinprogress]

There are many different definitions on what a weak and a strong woman is, and several different aspects of it, so it varies from man to man. What do you think a strong woman is? And a weak one?

[JunkIntr0vert]

I'm weaker than normal women, physically and mentally. I guess I can hope for someone similar to me.

[SlothySlob]

There will be a lot of hardships if you are with a weak minded person. Equal or weaker.

[JunkIntr0vert]

I'm willing to face trouble... No worries.

[000_000]

Are you talking about physical or mental?

Either way you shouldn't worry about this kind of thing too much because there is no "right answer" it's all subjective. Besides you will always feel better about yourself by being surrounded by people who like you the way you are. This is something you really want to keep in mind when you look for a partner.

[MarcoIsAFailure]

That "strong independent woman" thing is something women praise, not men.
I dont care seither way, but i do Mike weak women.
Being strong is traditionally a masculine trait and I do not seek for those in a woman. (Kinky femdom stuff excluded).

[Streamhopper]

I'm attracted to personality; weaker or stronger makes no difference to me; however, in my estimation, mostly the weaker personality type is more compatible with me. Not because I'm dominant; I'm not. It's just a pattern I've noticed.

[tyber1]

I like strong women, but what I've found is that most women who are 'strong, independent women' are really not all that strong. I like a woman who is as assertive as me, maybe even a bit more.

[Andreios]

I would never be attracted to a weak girl. But you can only find that out in a relationship so it will not end well.

[mnkumar]

yes I like weaker women...
you know why there is no gender in weaknesses some men's are weaker than some women.. so it doesn't matter

[genericname85]

I think admitting weakness is way more desire than claiming strength. Having said that, she should be able to stand on her own two feet as im interested in a partner, not a pet.

[Dale1982]

Weaker is more feminine in my view. I'm a dominant man so a weak submissive girl really gets me going. I like being in charge and manipulating a girl to do what i want. That's a real aphrodisiac.

[yashjoy]

If by weak you mean delicate then then yes I'd be attracted
And no we don't here about strong women all the time at least I don't

[Prometheus17]

Some men are Dominatrix and you would be classed as a "submissive" so sexually just learn to do as you are told 😁

If this is a non sexual question I do apologise but I clearly don't get the question 👍

[disgustingweebtrash]

Strong independent woman is a lie, it's usually a woman on welfare.

[Anonymous]

I like weak girls a lot if you mean physically weak. I like small petite wimpy looking girls. They are the cutest and most cuddly in my view. I think they are so attractive.

[Prime_Sol]

comparatively women are weak regardless. So, it really doesn't matter.

[Emanuel80]

Wow thanks hard-yes because we become strong together. If I really love you I will teach the way to be strong in this horrible world 🌎

[DizzyAster]

You have your strengths version mixed up.
How is the woman weak?
Weak-willed?

[Anonymous]

Depends on the guy. A strong, dominant man is not going to a strong, dominant woman.

[Internetusername]

Mentally weak would be annoying to deal with in my opinion

[Plat_Matt]

I would as a man who is called to protect I would and help build her strength.

[tartaarsaus]

How do you define weak? Mentally? Physically?

[Iron_Man]

Disgrace I don't like it

[Animotions]

I like them